well we have been friends for a while and i ahve sudenly realized that i have feelings for him in a different way than jsut bein friends..........so i need help if i should tell him or jsut suck it up and just be friends???
2007-02-22 06:27:33 · 13 answers · asked by Candy_Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would probably be best to slip him some small hints but not lay into immediately! If he seems interested go for it! If you can't get any vibes coming from him maybe you should back off! If I were you, I would make a move! Chances are he already likes you alot. Friends make the best partners!
2007-02-22 06:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMMM.....that's a tuff one. I think unless you are a 100% positive he feels the same way then suck it up. Guy get scared off easily and you DO NOT want to loose him as a friend. Take things slow dont hint at it or hang all over him bc that will make him feel ackward. Be careful....and GOOD LUCK! I hope everything turns out.
2007-02-22 14:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by P!NK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy who has hooked up with friends before....think hard about it. Is this the guy for you...."the one" so to speak, if not, I would suggest keeping the friendship. Sure it would be fun to mess around, but it may turn out awkward between the two of you and then the friendship is no more. Good luck.
2007-02-22 14:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been friends with him for a long time you should be comfortable with letting him know how you feel. i was the same way with my good guy friend and we'vve been in a relationship for 6 years now - it's cool because we know so much about each other and we have lots of fun together. you'll be ok.
2007-02-22 14:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation but I'm the guy.
If i were you would just tell him before its to late.
I think if you are already friends there's a good chance he likes you or he wouldn't be friends with you.
But if he doesn't feel the same you could still be friends.
2007-02-22 14:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by Soul Survivor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same situation. I was in love with my best friend and every time I was with him I felt uncomfortable and all I wanted to do is kiss him. I told him how I felt and it turned out he felt the same about me. So, if you have any indication that he might feel the same go for it.
2007-02-22 14:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by mollyinlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im also in love with my best friend who is also me ex. i say go for it, and you can still be friends afterwards if it doesnt work out, it all depends on the maturity of both of you. like i said im in love with my ex who is also my best friend, and he knows and we're fine. its painful yes, but dont just wonder what would happen. take action, what if it turns out he feels the same way?
2007-02-22 14:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by Polly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it if your not willing to deal with the aftermath.. just cause your friends now doesn't mean his going to be friend after you two don't work out.. not saying that it wont.. just know what your getting yourself into..
2007-02-22 14:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by Breaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him as soon as you can....you got nothing to lose,,,its not like he's gonna leave you coz you have feelingz for me...right now he's arnd you you hav a chance take it...what if sumone else take him away from you foreva and than you *** to know that he has feelingz for you as well and that you both could have been together........at that time you will only hav regrets to live with nothing else.....
2007-02-22 15:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by pSyChO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, tell him, nothing will happen if you don't. Who knows, he might have the same feelings for you! Good Luck!
2007-02-22 14:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋