Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

We announced to family our plans to wed around the year 2010. Suddenly, my partners sister had also got engaged, and made plans for a wedding abroad, the following year after. Within a short period of time, the sister booked.

My partner did not want to miss his sisters wedding, so we agreed to go, using our wedding savings - we booked. Suddenly, the sister cancelled, leaving us with a holiday to fly to. We couldnt cancel as we paid alot of money and we would lose that. So we went on a holiday that we didnt want to go to.

After coming back, we continued saving and talked with families about our wedding plans, again during this time, the sister had put her wedding back on. And told family her wedding was booked and all paid for.

With only little money left, we didnt really want to spend the last of our wedding savings, but my partner wants to go, we was thinking about getting married ourselves out there. However, it feels we are stealing her lime-light.

What do we do?

2007-02-22 23:36:01 · 18 answers · asked by weddingplans2010 1 in Weddings

I have been with my partner for 4 years and been married for 2years ,how do i know if he really does love me or is he just using me.

We have 3 children 2 from a previous relationship and one with him.Is he only staying for his daughters sake or what.

He knows their is nothing i wouldn't do for him,i do everthing that is expected of a wife,but he just treats me like dirt.

It just seems that the more i do the more he expects,i feel like i am his slave someone to run after him all the time.

My last relatioship was the same and i had spent 16yrs with that man and i feel like i'm doing the same with this man. Don't get me wrong i love this man with all of my heart but i really thought this time around i had found the man of my dreams.

Someone who would look after me,but it seems that i'm the one who always ends up looking after them. All we seem to do all the time is fight and it's tearing me up inside.

Please help?

2007-02-22 23:34:52 · 17 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and him to get close. He has not been with her in over 3 years and he keeps telling me that it is old and he wants to be with me. But I think it is wrong that he feels that way about me. Because he does have a baby with my cousin. so I want someone else option. do you think I should give it a try? Not a sex thing a realtionship kinda thang.

2007-02-22 23:33:58 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 23:31:18 · 5 answers · asked by missy 2 in Singles & Dating

O.K. Having a few problems at the moment, and dont know really how to start.... have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year,and we were friends for ages before that. It just seems that although I really like her, every conversation we have lately, she just says something that winds me up, or almost says something that she knows I'll argue with....it never used to be like that before. we dont seem to communicate very well in conversations, i ask questions, and she answers with an answer as if I answered a different question. We had problems a few months back, as she went on the pill for us to start having sex, we're both virgins, and it was difficult for me to know what I was doing, hence she got angry at me, when I didnt know what I was doing. All through our relationship, she doesnt start any kind of intimacy, its always me, i always start the kissand she says its cos shes shy. I bought her flowers for v.day, yet didnt get as much as a card. yet when i ask her, she says shes happy!

2007-02-22 23:30:12 · 11 answers · asked by dafadf a 1 in Singles & Dating

had lovely night, dancing smooching cuddles in the corner..

she said please call me before she left. and wrote her no. on my arm.

should i call her back ?
1 or 2 or 3days or a week later ? :)

2007-02-22 23:29:31 · 9 answers · asked by Vu 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 23:29:01 · 47 answers · asked by Ashish 2 in Singles & Dating

(excluding cocky guys who are only cocky because they have a small penis)
Do girls expect all guys who are kinda cocky to be well endowed? would they be surprised if they were just average?

Speaking on the subject, how often do girls run into well-endowed guys anyway? and does the average size (6") really not satisfy them, or at least do they still think it's small/smaller even though it does "get the job done"?

2007-02-22 23:26:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this man i work with. he is a fair bit older and some of the stuff he says and does is just like my mother. And some other things are just like my father. Then some stories he tells me i think neither my mother or my father would do that.I think he is hot,and i love his personality.We have the same interests and we talk about them.We flirt sometimes. He'll pretend he's going to tackle me or try and get my attention and then other times he won't say anything unless i say something first. We look at eachother from across the room a fair bit and when we are talking aswell. Then sometimes he hardly looks at me. Do i like him just because of my mother and father and him being like them and does he like me?

2007-02-22 23:26:25 · 3 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 23:25:49 · 12 answers · asked by domani 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 23:25:48 · 3 answers · asked by adass 1 in Singles & Dating

A woman with money or who makes a lot of money, does that intimidate a man? does he like it or dislike it?

2007-02-22 23:25:11 · 7 answers · asked by heartofgold 1 in Singles & Dating

well nething special in ur lif which makes u vry happy wen u do it. c it or feel it...

2007-02-22 23:23:02 · 18 answers · asked by sweet suyu 2 in Friends

Ok what is the problem with divorce. What are the legal battles that people go through. Situation with children. Is it the best thing to do. How do you view divorce?????

2007-02-22 23:21:46 · 9 answers · asked by Aby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 23:21:21 · 19 answers · asked by edwin 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 6ft and big! My boyfriend likes it but do guys in general?

2007-02-22 23:19:52 · 24 answers · asked by purplegal 3 in Singles & Dating

She admits to seeing him but denies any sexual contact. We recently got into a argument and this subject came up. In my gut, I think she is lying ,but the truth will destroy our marriage. I know a sure fire way of finding out but it will require some deception by me. I am afraid of knowing the truth and at the same time, I must know! I can not imagine me not living at home with my two daughters any more. What should I do?

2007-02-22 23:19:13 · 13 answers · asked by Unknownmale 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i wnat to get friends on the net so i can chart with them.

2007-02-22 23:18:02 · 6 answers · asked by adass 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 23:15:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If yes, would it make a difference if the person that tells you is a stranger? What if the stranger that tells you, is the husband of the woman your husband was cheating with? Out of the four people involved, you are the only one that doesn't know, and two of the other three sure plan to keep quiet.

2007-02-22 23:14:57 · 18 answers · asked by b.radeckels 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-22 23:14:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We need some time to get away
Even if its for one day
All the pressures of the week
It gets so bad we do not speak

For our love is true and pure
Some time away will be the cure
For theses pressures wear and tear
It seems our love now goes no where

Lets get away, exotic beach
And drink some wine, get slurry speach
We'll be alone, and who will care
We'll speak our minds and clear the air

We always knew our love was strong
It does test us, our days are long
But all and all there is a light
We kiss each other every night

But when I offered her my hand
I promised here I'd be her man
No matter what the future brings
We made a promise with our rings

2007-02-22 23:13:13 · 4 answers · asked by gary_b04901 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For the past 6 years, 1 year with a commitment and the 5 years none but we we're still together and now this 2007 he has a gf. Why is it when my nephew asked my ex do you still love my aunt? My nephew is 23 i think? Anyway, my nephew loves my ex so much and until now he still calls him uncle. Why is it he answered my mephew we are good freinds ( me and my ex ) but the question is do you still love my aunt? He never gave my nephew defintie answer? Why is that so? And my nephew told him if you can't give a definite answer and you think you don't love my aunt anymore then leave her alone... Awwwww, my nephew loves my so much....... Help everybody..... thanks.... ms. dazed and confused.

2007-02-22 23:13:05 · 3 answers · asked by Teacher Meg 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 3 children and have my tubes tide. It was the best decision I ever made. I can now enjoy the children I have and not worry about having anymore children again. Been a single parent it for the best.

2007-02-22 23:12:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok do men like a quite girl in bed or a screamer??
and do women like a man quite in bed or a groner

2007-02-22 23:11:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies------------?
So i Iike this girl thats only a few months younger then me, just shes a senior in high school, and im a college freshmen. She turned 18 yesterday. I was unable to see her that day for my own reasons, but im planning to see her today.

She has a early class at 7 AM, and im planning to come with a birthday present... a belated one. I was planning to do it yesterday but things came up.

Buuuut.. i also want to give her the gift... then hold her hand... annnd ask her if she would be my girl....


Is that a good idea? or should i cancel the whole thing -____-

2007-02-22 23:09:59 · 15 answers · asked by Mr. D 2 in Singles & Dating

wer there is love der is nt hapiness every time der r always som problem in it....

2007-02-22 23:09:58 · 17 answers · asked by sweet suyu 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this woman for a over a year and we planned to get married. She's 33 and I'm 24. She has a mental condition but she told me recently about it. Her family, she and myself thinks she has bipolar disorder. She has been on medications before but she stopped. She did not tell me until her family told me.

This condition makes her unstable and her mood swings are extreme. It also make her do crazy things -at least she says it's the reason- like talking to other guys about loving them and wanting to marry them. She's so insecure and materialistic who made a hell out of the diamond size of the engagement ring and she knows I'm still a student. She once left and lived with a guy she met on a plan after a night where I stayed all next to the bed when she was sick to giver her medications in time, making her warm drinks, warm & massage her and cooked for her.

She says she wants professional help but she never seek it but it's only words. what should I do?

2007-02-22 23:09:54 · 10 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 23:08:51 · 12 answers · asked by heartofgold 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 23:06:25 · 45 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Singles & Dating