Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

i dont know how to deal with family members that, to me, dont really seem to care too much about keeping in touch with me,my mother, or my older sister...... to me,theres only a handful that SHOULD give a damn about you.. and thats family! everyone else, they dont have to keep in touch or care for you or anything like that cause they dont know you or been there with you half as much as family has.... ...i have tried to get a hold of some family members every now and then , but then it just always ends up that im the person doin all the work to keep in touch with them... im tired of doin that, but at the same time hurt because they dont make any efforts.... i would just like to know.. has anyone had problems like this?and how did you deal with it?

2007-02-22 21:24:09 · 4 answers · asked by lolitab. 1 in Family

My fiancee says i can't have 9 bridesmaids, my family is full of girls and i don't want to leave anyone out. I'd also like to have my bestfriend as my maid of honour. My fiancee says i should have about 3 or 4. What do you think?

2007-02-22 21:22:11 · 58 answers · asked by Jemma A 2 in Weddings

I have been in a relationship and residing with this man for two years now and lately i have noticed he is at a certain womans office alot almost daily he claims she has good legal advice and alot of knowledge about his legal matters, he hides alot of time he is there from me the fact they have on more than one occasion gone to lunch together also they text each other during the evening almost every night some times until 3:am which he denies of course.last friday night when he went to sleep i found a reciept where he had earlier that day went to the mall and purchased a outfit for $130.00 [the day after valentines day] when i woke him and ask about it he said "i didn't but a damn thing there you go with that jealousy again' and went back to sleep i went for a drive and while getting gas seen the outfit hidden in the back of the jeep i confronted him again and he said " i bought it for her because she helped me so much' and knew i could'nt tell you because your so jealous'

2007-02-22 21:20:10 · 13 answers · asked by CHRISTINE 1 in Singles & Dating

She was in email contact with her happily married classmate for one year and she says they only discussed family matters.But her letter talks about how she loves and needs him asking him to understand and not to forget her and lot more. She says the letter was only a fantacy and that they never exchanged any words of love. Though in a mail she said it is better for them to be away from each other as no mistake can be made. How could somebody married for 14 years and having two kids fall in love with a guy without any preliminary preparation or something before hand? If it happens, nobody can be sure of his wife's fidelity ? She says there was nothing between them except for the letter I found and that they only talked about family issues. Is she lying about the nature of her relationship with him? She even met him in a remote resort when he came back to India 6 months back. That guy was in love with her during her college days but she loved&married me then.He only contacted 2year back.

2007-02-22 21:19:58 · 11 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you convince your girl it is a good idea and she will like it?

2007-02-22 21:19:26 · 4 answers · asked by tom b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 21:17:34 · 4 answers · asked by d'g0odMan 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 21:16:55 · 35 answers · asked by Pearl 5 in Singles & Dating

because I maxed out the credit card. Guys do you think he is right when he says I am a spoiled brat and I need to learn the value of a dollar. See Im a stay at home mom. His choice (he refuses me to work).

2007-02-22 21:15:28 · 11 answers · asked by shorty. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is one of the hottest boyfriends ever. I mean relly hot. there is a problem everytime I am around him I either get chills down my spine or I have this charge. get this feeling of being sexual with him but I know I cant be. He is so fine its not even funny. I dont know what to do. Please help me Thanks in advance for your help.

2007-02-22 21:12:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 21:12:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-22 21:09:27 · 21 answers · asked by Karen And Ollie 2 in Weddings

2007-02-22 21:06:54 · 19 answers · asked by amit 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 21:04:37 · 47 answers · asked by suchi 1 in Family

What are your views about these abuses? If you have experience abuse, please tell me what it feels like, how did you deal it and perhaps say anything you want other people to know. I will use your testimonies to save other people and give hope to those who are recovering from abuse. I will have a report in campus about these abuses… I can help these people in some ways and you will be a part of it, but it would be a better help if you can share your testimonies. Thank you!

2007-02-22 21:03:05 · 8 answers · asked by Its me! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres this girl who wants to know who i like because one of her girlfriends has a crush on me and she wants to know who i like out of the people in our school and i don't want to tell her who i like is there a nice way to say back i don't like anyone?

2007-02-22 21:01:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this gil and been to getter fore 3 weeks and wee stil fight like cat and dog it is on then off on off but se told me se love me and i told hir that i love hir wat can i do to sto fighting

2007-02-22 20:59:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a girl that I love so much. I have tried very hard to get over her for the last year, but I realise that she is the girl I want and without her I suffer from a painful broken heart. I would do anything just to tell her that she is most gorgeous creature on two legs and that my heart belongs to her beautiful soul. There is no other girl that I want but her, not even someone who was just as nice. She lives in a house in town were I know she lives. The last time I saw her was nearly a year ago, she had left school and she was in some sort of boyfriend, girlfriend relationship. Her boyfriend was a right flirt and I think he is only with her because he realises who she truly is and how pretty she is. She had sort of loved him and went out with him. I don't want to go to her house, because the parents are there and it would make me feel a bit sick. I don't know her name or phone number. What should I do. Please please help. I love her so much, I just can't bare the pain. Help!!!

2007-02-22 20:57:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is wrong with my help?

Am I not able to give you what you need?

2007-02-22 20:57:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 20:56:45 · 9 answers · asked by mech1970 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 20:56:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Two years ago My friend and I got into an argument and after that she had moved away. I really want to get in touch with her, if by any chance you know her or even heard of her name, let me know. Her name is Esme' White she is from Bradenton,FL and came down to Texas for a while to live with her dad. Coccasian female,25 yrs.old. 5'8 130lbs with blue eyes and brown hair. Thanks.

2007-02-22 20:56:08 · 1 answers · asked by sara 2 in Friends

I couldn't understand why my boyfriend cheated on me countless of times. I have done so many sacrifices for him and have given him all he wants. Everytime he did, we'd break up but he manages to win me over. Now, I can't help but nag at him because I don't trust the things he says. He says he loves me. Sometimes I feel it but most of the time I don't. The three years we've spent together has been a cycle of breakup-makeup. I'm really tired of it. What can I do to make him stop?

2007-02-22 20:56:04 · 17 answers · asked by loise17 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 20:55:59 · 12 answers · asked by Michael E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 20:49:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-22 20:48:40 · 27 answers · asked by Michael E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 20:44:02 · 15 answers · asked by pesokitty 1 in Weddings

I didn't go looking to read her emails or snoop . She's staying with us and she hadn't logged out of her email and when I came to check my email, hers was on the screen. I never do stuff like this and I'm very trustworthy. I know I was VERY wrong to do this. I was actually trying to find out some innocent info. about her upcoming birthday. Instead, I read A LOT of bad stuff she had written behind my back to her friends. She had revealed some very personal stuff about me, had called me a bad mother and outright lied about me. I always thought we had a good relationship; she always tells me she loves me like a daughter, etc. I have confided personal things o her b/c I trusted her so much. Now I think she's just a hypocrit and I can never trust her. I know that I invaded her privacy. How can I confront her about this w/o telling her how I found out? And does she have more of a right to be angry at me for reading her email or me at her for all the malicious stuff he had written about me?

2007-02-22 20:42:08 · 15 answers · asked by girlie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do I have the Courage
"to spare my Parents on the event where
they are willfully 100% wrong and I being 100% right"
Let me declare as it is now,
and explain why so..

2007-02-22 20:39:29 · 5 answers · asked by Karsan 3 in Family

I'm really bored and weird, mine's Charmin Ultra "big rolls" it's so soft!

*Thanks in advance for all your answers!!!!*

2007-02-22 20:35:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, my gf is attractive. No one would disagree. When I first met her I wasn't as attractive to her. Now I think her body is the hottest body I have ever seen and I am really picky. I am talking mix between victoria secret and playmate. Do you think I think its the hottest because I have been in a relationship with her and are attached to her? I know it sounds shallow....just curious

2007-02-22 20:34:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating