My boyfriend is one of the hottest boyfriends ever. I mean relly hot. there is a problem everytime I am around him I either get chills down my spine or I have this charge. get this feeling of being sexual with him but I know I cant be. He is so fine its not even funny. I dont know what to do. Please help me Thanks in advance for your help.
2007-02-22 21:12:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well these chills and this sexual charge i'm guessing is a good thing and not a turn off.. I'm not quite sure why you can't be sexual with him though..
What ever it is... dont let feeling draw you back if hes your boyfriend he should and im sure he will understand how you feel, i think you should probably tell him..slowely but surely and if it scares him hes a fool.. or make your move sweety.. hes a man he can handle it and i'm sure so can you..
have some hope in your relationship wand in yourself..
x
2007-02-22 21:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by neeneeuno 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just find a good secluded area close to where you are at the time and drag him there, most guys like a girl to take charge everynow and then, and maybe when yall do have sex he isnt completely finishing the job
2007-02-22 21:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by Terry C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly natural to be definitely attracted to your guy, but don't rush into something serious you may regret later. You may want to get involved with 'boring' activities with him to detemine if he is your type; if he is, your relationship with him may have better grounds for it to be enduring and you both may have greater understanding of each other emotionally, rationally, psychologically and soul wise. The key point is, take things slowly to gain perspective on what you have.
2007-02-22 21:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by roses2500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a gay guy that knows how most guys work. To be honest with you, I think most men are horny and want to do anyone they are attracted to. It is naturally for guy to have thoughts or to look, but its natural. I dated a guy who I thought was faithful but was sleeping around like crazy. Im not saying that your man is doing that. Good looking guy like to get attention. But, usually if your thinking that there's something wrong, than usually there is. You can start by looking if he's going places that he says he's going.
If he tell's you he's going to a store, ask him to buy you something small, see how he acts around other girls. Ask him if you can see his email account (usually they hide stuff there), if he says no than there must be something there. Look for him on sites like yahoo personals, myspace, other singles websites. Look at gay sites too, alot so called "str8 guys" arent really str8, so look there too. I wish I knew what makes you think that he's doing what he's doing. Good Luck.
2007-02-22 21:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Matt W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be sexually attracted to someone and you don't have to act on it if you choose not to. The only things I can suggest (I imagine you are quite young) are to distract yourself or try to think of him doing something simply unattractive, like using the bathroom for example. That should help dampen your passion.
2007-02-22 21:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to free yourself of any sexual thot towards him.
it will help if you always rem yu aint ready to get pg for him.
its just a normal thing especially since you like him. just be careful so you dont get carried away. avoid being with him alone and at late hours.
ciao
2007-02-22 22:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by aminnylabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God loves all this little ones. He says i'll by no skill go away you or forsake you. in case you have self assurance that Jesus died on the flow for our sins, then you definately could desire to have self assurance once you exhibit regret in his call you're forgiven. in case you nevertheless experience guilt for it, then you definately have not forgiven your self. as quickly as you exhibit regret, its accomplished. He has erased it. yet you bringing it decrease back as much as him all the time is stressful. Its like asserting you dont have self assurance that he died on the flow to bathe away your sins. tell him your sorry for all the undesirable youve accomplished, thank him for forgiving you, and enable him know you like him. He loves his little ones. He is ordinary with of which you are attempting. Forgive your self, he already has forgiven you.
2016-09-29 12:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by bebber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip and realise that no man is worth selling your self worth and dignity for. If you feel that being with him is altering who you are then leave him.
2007-02-22 21:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Devil may put that pressure on you just for you to sleep with him. Keep a distance untill he marries you.
2007-02-22 21:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Yahoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm only thing i can think of is stay away! lol
2007-02-22 21:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by angeliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋