Ok, my gf is attractive. No one would disagree. When I first met her I wasn't as attractive to her. Now I think her body is the hottest body I have ever seen and I am really picky. I am talking mix between victoria secret and playmate. Do you think I think its the hottest because I have been in a relationship with her and are attached to her? I know it sounds shallow....just curious
2007-02-22 20:34:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it is a mix between your values and the actual thing.
see attachment is a form of value. it is one of those intangibles. if you think that it can cloud your judgement.....naaaaahh........i don't think so. you are probably just one of those lucky guys who fell in love with a "bud" maybe a rose bud. and as she develops she's getting better. after all,you have to give her the benefit of the doubt; that she gives a damn about herself and it shows.
oh yeah, the other part of the mix is that you are getting more and more fond of her and she is more and more beautiful to you in so many ways. so the physical beauty is enhanced by what only you can feel and know. i wouldn't say it is bias, it's love.....yeah?
2007-02-22 20:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i thought the same with allot of woman .I'm old Ive been around the block a few times . But Ive had big ones small ones short ones tall ones and it took a few times to get use to there body's but after that i thought they where the hottest .Now I look back and for the life of me i don't know what the hell i was looking at.
2007-02-23 04:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you do grow closer to someone the physical part sorta fades away, if you love the ugliest person in the world they will still be beautiful to you
2007-02-23 04:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by Terry C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-02-23 04:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by SmilE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably.
2007-02-23 04:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by August lmagination 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋