i met this gil and been to getter fore 3 weeks and wee stil fight like cat and dog it is on then off on off but se told me se love me and i told hir that i love hir wat can i do to sto fighting
2007-02-22 20:59:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys have been together for three weeks, right? And that is too early for people to fight in a new relationship. The problem might be that one of you has some personal issues is dealing with and is not open enough to the other since your relationship is too early. That on its own may cause problem especially if one of you is from the relationship that went wrong and might try to treat this relationship like old one. Sit down and find the root of the problem then you will be able to move on, unless if you already knew each other closely before you entered into relationship then in that case you need to treat relationshuip differently from friendship
2007-02-22 21:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Yahoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise, communication, and learning to listen. Sometimes when couples are fighting they are too busy trying to get individual points across that they block out what the other person is saying, not purposely though, its just out of frustration. Trust me, me and my boyfriend do it all the time, I didnt even realize it until, i sat down and thought through about the argument and realized how stupid it was. Just listen to her, you know, and talk calmly.
But hey, you have only been with her for 3 weeks, if listening to each other really dont work, it probably means just guys are just not compatible, you guys should then just go separate ways, but dont give up until you give it a good try!
good luck hun,
Saphire.
2007-02-22 21:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by Saphire04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two need to slow down and work on having better communication. Three weeks is way to soon to claim love is involved. Perhaps its a bit of a immature relationship, or its just a volatile one. Either way you need to be able to talk to one another without getting your emotions all in bunches.
-NmD!
2007-02-22 21:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Ferd, what a guy--fights are not a good way to communicate---I mean you must be immature kids--it shows. 3 whole weeks and fighting already??? I think you better get a new attraction thing with someone else. Can't you do any better???
2007-02-22 21:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In relationships, you compromise and sacrifice and try to understand each other's thought to make the relationship work. If you can't compromise and she can't compromise some things, then man... Your relationship's not gonna work. Might as well end it to save yourself from the headache.
2007-02-22 21:06:29 · answer #5 · answered by roma_balbin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you need to compromise, and give of yourself, dont always try to be right and dont always want the last say. If that dont work, you dont belong together im afraid.
Sorry.
2007-02-22 21:22:30 · answer #6 · answered by cindz_jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks? you're still supposed to be in the honeymoon phase - maybe you guys just need to face facts - you're incompatible ...
2007-02-22 22:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to write, you'll see your communication with her improving!
2007-02-22 21:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by stiletto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have wild makeup sex to break the tension
2007-02-22 21:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋