Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

Since I've been sexually active, I never really been sober for those "times". Regardless, of what drugs I was taken, it was the real reason why I enjoyed sex. Now, since I am sober, and happily married. I don't enjoy sex. My hubby is great! He really is, however, I don't mind doing once I'm having sex. It's just when my hubby starts "hinting" it to me, I don't want to do it. I can't even figure it out myself. I don't get horny or aroused, EVER! We used to have sex once a month and that's only if he REALLY begged for it. Now, it's better. We're at it, once a day, and I only do it for him, not for myself. I'd like some help, please. I'm afraid he's going to leave me for a sexually active person one day.

2007-02-22 19:25:51 · 22 answers · asked by Soldier'sWife 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, we are 17 years old and financialy stable. I am woundering if when i cumz in her should i be very deep insode or just barely in or half wa or what? I have been told anywere but i ned a doctors opinion, So please real anwers everyone. i really also am worried about she could die, she turns 18 june 12 and so shes not going to grow anymore. she weighs105, her height is 5'5....coupld this kill her? Please true answrs only because we are doing this tonight..so please true answers only...Ok this is his fiance now. We have actually tried before but it was the day before my period and I didn't get pregnant. Is that because I was so close to my period? Also I've had Pap Smears and they all came back that everything was fine with me. One more thng thoough and I'm not trying to be nasty but how come everytime's we do try and he cumz in me it always come right back out.ill continue in an additional information....

2007-02-22 19:22:28 · 8 answers · asked by pimpdaddy37686 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

her Name is Donna Beck she is about 27-28 or so now... she used to live in billings Montana From Florida she has a son Named Allen and her Mom is also Named Dawna I haven't seen her for about 5 years now.. if any one may Know of her where abouts or any information on her in the present PLEASE PLEASE contact me.... I LOVED her then and I still do now.....

2007-02-22 19:22:15 · 6 answers · asked by atwen7331 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

not being a perv just wondering..

2007-02-22 19:21:37 · 20 answers · asked by Syn . 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband though a nice man never hugs me never kisses me .I wish him to hug me when he comes back from work but he never does that.I sometimes feel a strong urge to go n hug him then he becomes so unwiiling that I feel ashamed of my feelings Am i demanding too much ?he takes interest in sex though but i am feeling like a machine without emotional involvementWhat should i do?Please help. .

2007-02-22 19:21:25 · 24 answers · asked by m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you stop thinking about the person you like. because i cant help but to like him but i know he dosent feel the same but for some reason i still keep on thinking about him so how do i get him off of my mind

2007-02-22 19:21:12 · 4 answers · asked by stars52006 2 in Singles & Dating

pls...give your best!

2007-02-22 19:21:02 · 3 answers · asked by BhEnhOy 1 in Friends

how do american man show that they feel inlove to the woman they courted?

2007-02-22 19:20:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you had a hard time getting an orgasm while being with the person you loved yet it was very attainable when you masterbate alone would you consider that a problem?

2007-02-22 19:19:56 · 2 answers · asked by Miss_C 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy through an ex of mine. He shouldnt' have gone for me because of the fact that he is friends with my ex but it happened and now we're kind of seeing each other. However, he's making it very difficult to get close to him. I want to date him exclusively, I want him to be my boyfriend. I thought the problem at first was that he didn't want my ex to find out that we were seeing each other. My ex did find out. Also, this guy told me that he does have trust issues with me. Right now I'm trying hard to get closer to him, but it seems that the relationship is very one-sided. I am always the one to ask him to hang out but he doesn't really call me or answer my calls. I would like to see him more. On one hand I want to be patient, but on the other hand I don't want to be played around with. I do want a relationship with him and I don't want to just keep seeing him without him being able to make any commitment.he told me he likes me but i dont sense it by his actions

2007-02-22 19:19:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get really uncomfortable when I see my friends spanking their kids infront of me. I've told them not to do that but they forget. What should I do.

2007-02-22 19:15:04 · 29 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4 in Friends

Just a general question really do people out there think it is just one persons fault with regards getting on with people. For example where i work the loud people seem to know everyone and im still struggling to get to know people in my department and ive been there 2 years.

I would just like to know as i dont know if it is entirely me being shy and giving bad vibes or them not knowing how to approach me. As i dont know what to do in my situation whether to try and talk to people more and see if the response changes or just accept im not the perfect mould.

2007-02-22 19:14:30 · 5 answers · asked by ludvigjs 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what are your personal thoughts on this?

2007-02-22 19:11:14 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, last night this guy I met on myspace told me he loved me and today he won't talk to me. Here's a little about our relationship, we've talked everyday for the past 4 months. Talk about everything, for hours. We've gotten really close and I think I may have hurt him by not saying I love you back. He's in the military and when he comes home we want to meet. I really like this guy and I do have feelings for him. He's been emotionally there for me, I've been going through alot of things in my life. Do you think he likes me too much? Should I go slower? What should I do? I'm really confused.

2007-02-22 19:10:35 · 7 answers · asked by preppy624 3 in Singles & Dating

Give Service first, then the money will come to you, how can I use this formula in my Marriage Bureau Buss.

2007-02-22 19:07:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ex not happy paying CSA. Changed job last year and it took months to find where he'd moved to. He's never been bothered about seeing his children until he starting paying CSA. Kids said they didn't want to see him, they're 15 & 12. Solicitor said they have rights. They said they'd see him for 2 hrs on Sundays to see how well they get on, but he wanted 2 weeks in summer, bank holidays, christmas. When we split up 6 yrs ago he harrassed me for a year and was charged and bound over for a year for this. He's always asking people questions about me. He now knows I married again to an American guy who's in the US military. Anyway, last Thursday it was my sons 12th birthday. At 8pm he came round banging on the door to give him his present. I didn't answer the door straight away as I was in the bath. Later I noticed my kitchen window broken. Also I received a nasty racist valentines card on Friday but in my maiden name, do you think this was him? Sorry this was so long ...

2007-02-22 19:07:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Staring sex!I usually start fast by kssing her neck and starting it by that.I need idea's to go slower.like starting slower.can anyone give me good ideas?

2007-02-22 19:05:59 · 9 answers · asked by inlove4406 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-02-22 19:03:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he is acting weird...he dissapeared when he went abroad for studies...he said he was not in touch with anyabody as he was very busy...after that he sent me a sorry email saying " i am beggin u sorry for being so mean.. for just dissapearing like that" (this was in november end...recently when we were talking about something i told him tht "YOU KNOW WHT THT SORRY EMAIL U SENT ME WAS LOOKIN SOO FAKE" he just bluntly replied i dunno ya must have been fake...

i am yet soo hurt by those words...y say a sorry when u don mean it..... y say it when u wanna end it by saying "I WONT TELL U SORRY ANY MORE"

i sent him an email after all this saying tht he doesnt need to oblige me saying all this... i have not got a reply to it yet.. i dont think so he ever meant anyything he sais..i really liked him so that hurt me even more..i cant forget our past..its tooo difficult and eveything makes me cry.....those stupid lil conversations...those songs.. now im just so mad ..how do i get over him??? :(

2007-02-22 19:02:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heres the issue here. Theres this girl i liked for a while and we both professed our love for each other, but the problem with her is she feels that somedays she loves me as a friend and somedays as a lover. Apparently this is due to a her last serious relationship and how her boyfriend left her for some stupid reason. I assume she fears to commit because she doesnt want her heart broken again. Ive tried to prove i can commit , but im getting the feeling im getting played the thing is though ive decided that I dont want to leave her because i do have feelings for her but jsut to prove her wrong and make her happy. Now i would like to know what your people's feedback especially from Woman and if any of you gals ever been in a predicament such as this

2007-02-22 18:59:43 · 13 answers · asked by marmelade_man 1 in Singles & Dating

when a girl is havin sex with a guy does it feel better for the girl if the guy is uncircumsized?

2007-02-22 18:58:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 18:58:27 · 14 answers · asked by plum87 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 18:58:19 · 18 answers · asked by Another☼Human 2 in Singles & Dating

What are the necessary things that i need to do???
In terms of budget, things to purchase planning etc

2007-02-22 18:58:15 · 7 answers · asked by Raj 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well...for v-day, i gave this girl in my class a really beautifully made card and i told her my feelings is in the card....anyways...she starts to notice me ....making eye contact...but she still doesnt do anything not even talk to me...NOTHING and she doesnt show much sign of interests....anyways ....recently this other girl also starts to take notice of me ...like umm she smiles when she looks at me...and shes kinda shy around me stuff like that ..so should i just move on to a girl who acctually appretiates me or should i keep trying with the girl i gave a card to.....?

2007-02-22 18:55:48 · 15 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

it was my blokes day off yesterday - and he does only get one day off a week - the thing i am annoyed about is he went out with his mate drinking in the pub all day - to be fair it was a one off he doesn't normally do that on his day (not all day anyway). he wass out on wednesdasy night as well drunk - its just bugged me coz things needed doing in the house and instead he has gone out and got drunk again ! i feel a bit resenstful becuase its now my weekend and i think why should i spend it doing chores and claening the house etc when he was out having a good time - am i being unreasonible or what ? its just annoyed me how he can sometimes be so selfish

2007-02-22 18:55:46 · 15 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Singles & Dating

It's Feb 22 and we're still discussing Valentine's Day at work.
The guy I like didn't give me anything but a hug for Val Day, but that's exactly all I wanted. And I'm not complaining because I felt the love in the hug. Some old girl at work is teasing me that she's his Valentine...but she's not. I flipped around and asked him "Well why didn't you get me anything for Valentine's Day?" ---
even though he knew I didn't want anything. He said ... "But you are my Valentine!"

Here's the question...
How much stock would you put in the comment
"But you are my Valentine!".
Then he went on to tell me how to stand up to her yacking mouth.
And he told her that I knew what up between us.
Right! Like I know. I'm asking ppl on Y/A.

So is he really my Valentine and was all that his way to say he likes me?

2007-02-22 18:55:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 18:53:13 · 5 answers · asked by Alexis 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am leo,a boy,15years old,live in hong kong.
i am 15 years old and i am a f 3 secondary student, too.
i am a chinese but love english songs very much!
i love playing badminton and volley ball.
please send me a e-mail to
e-mail:leochanchinpang@yahoo.com.hk
also my msn is : leochancp@hotmail.com

2007-02-22 18:53:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I recently told a friend of a friend that I like him & apologized for not saying anything before. To which he responded by kissing me! It was exactly what I wanted & Im assuming he likes me!

We've gone out a couple of times since then, usually just parties on wknd nights & then hang out the next morning chatting and shooting the breeze.
We're both young urban professionals so we talk here and there, mostly through text messaging. I havent seen him in 2 weeks, because i've been BUSY. However, I think about him constantly and miss him A LOT. I miss him more than I rationally should. He's just all the qualities i like in men - geeky, shy, funny, assertive, social and polite.

SO THE QUESTION: I will most likely NOT see him for another week, (b/c of work) SO, what should I do to maintain the interest he has for me, and so that he knows im still interested in him? I dont want it to fade or our work to suffer or lose him, but i also dont want to come across as needy or desperate. ???

2007-02-22 18:50:45 · 1 answers · asked by bibicita 1 in Singles & Dating