O.K. Having a few problems at the moment, and dont know really how to start.... have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year,and we were friends for ages before that. It just seems that although I really like her, every conversation we have lately, she just says something that winds me up, or almost says something that she knows I'll argue with....it never used to be like that before. we dont seem to communicate very well in conversations, i ask questions, and she answers with an answer as if I answered a different question. We had problems a few months back, as she went on the pill for us to start having sex, we're both virgins, and it was difficult for me to know what I was doing, hence she got angry at me, when I didnt know what I was doing. All through our relationship, she doesnt start any kind of intimacy, its always me, i always start the kissand she says its cos shes shy. I bought her flowers for v.day, yet didnt get as much as a card. yet when i ask her, she says shes happy!
2007-02-22 23:30:12 · 11 answers · asked by dafadf a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't find a question here, good luck with all that though.
2007-02-22 23:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you ruined a beautiful Friendship by becoming sexually involved with each other...pity! Sex causes tension. Neither of you have had any sexual experience. You want the friendship you had before...sex got in the way. As friends, she knew you liked being around her because of a true bond, now she feels you want to be around, for sex...Also, if her mood change started with the pill, THAT could be a huge factor. Have her go to her Dr.(go with her)and see if she can change prescriptions. Better yet, stop having sex and find the friendship you both enjoyed so much...if it has died.
2007-02-22 23:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by janice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it looks gloomy now, but in every relationship you go through this sort of thing. Just make sure that it doesn't take you breaking up to realize that you want it to work. Talk to her about how you feel and try and resolve the issue.
Hold on, it will all pay off and by the way, practise makes perfect.
2007-02-22 23:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whats ur question ? take some pills and go for a walk...
maybe you are grabbing more then you can afford... get out early before the turbo kicks in then it'll just be 16 000 RPM
2007-02-22 23:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by Vu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try to take her out some place so she can get use to you and not be so shy
2007-02-22 23:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just jump her bones and everything will be allright
2007-02-22 23:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by snehesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. better leave her.
2007-02-22 23:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, what's bothering you? she says she's happy..
2007-02-22 23:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by vodka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u have time to write all this....................she must b boaring.........
if u have a beauty besides you......................then the time flyies...
2007-02-22 23:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you with her then?
2007-02-22 23:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋