Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

I met my boyfriend over a year and a half ago and we now live together and are very much in love.

At first, we "courted" for about four weeks, spending quite a lot of time together (three or four nights a week) and then he went on holiday to Spain with a friend. When he came back, I asked him to be my boyfriend officially and he agreed. Five or six months later, we were having a light-hearted chat and it came up that while he was on holiday during the first month, he had drukenly kissed somebody else in a club in Spain. He was not ashamed or apologetic in any way - he just said that's how dating goes. While he was very upfront about it we hadn't been together very long when it happened, I've felt betrayed ever since. He says he would never ever have done it had we been further into the relationship and never even looks at anybody else. However, was he wrong to kiss somebody else at that stage in our relationship? Did he do anything wrong?

2007-02-22 05:49:29 · 1 answers · asked by kevinos_1982 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and i have been close for 3 years basically best of friends. then recently there is another girl who we have both been friends with in the past who started hanging out with her all the time. My best friend is rude to me and picks at fights with me so she has an excuse to not hang out with me. I told her how i was feeling left out and she said o no dont worry your not being replaced but then she just would try to hang out with her more and through it in my face and try to make me feel bad. Now they hang out everyday and im never talking on the phone with her or hanging out with her. She had all this stuff about me on her myspace and she changed it and put the other girls name. It makes me feel horrible because i feel like i dont have anyone to talk to even though i have so many more close friends. What should i do?

2007-02-22 05:49:00 · 10 answers · asked by confused girl 1 in Friends

I "talk" to this guy. We might end up dating one day but not right now. We talk on the phone EVERY SINGLE DAY. He hasn't called in two days. Today, in 6th period, he told one of my best friends that he was testing me to see if I would call him instead. Is he telling the truth (he does call me more than i call him)

2007-02-22 05:48:18 · 15 answers · asked by Mrs*Tracy*Mcgrady#1 2 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for any idea and suggestions on a poker themed wedding. We are getting married 7-7-7 and going all out with the poker theme

2007-02-22 05:48:08 · 10 answers · asked by ShEnAbEeNa 1 in Weddings

Okay awhile ago, I had this guy friend that I met online and online we hit it off. On my end, he wasn't cute but he kept me on my toes so I was emotionally attached. Then we met about 4-5 months later and as usual he wasn't attracted to me yet we kept talking as friends. He was very lonely and wanted a girlfriend so I went out of my way to hook him up with a friend of mine and well the so called friend of mine told him lies after lies after lies about me that lead him to stop talking to me. Now my other friend started talking to him and claimed I was possesive, I was stalkerish, I should've got the hint when he and my other friend hooked up. If I was so bad from the get-go like he claims, why would he continue to talk to me for 4-5 months? Why wouldn't he confront me about the things that he was being told about me? He's not ended it with my so called friend and onto someone else but doesn't he think if I really wanted the whole fatal attraction thing, I wouldn't have hooked him up.

2007-02-22 05:47:28 · 9 answers · asked by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 in Friends

is it possibble to one day have a realtionship with your best freind after knowing eachother 4 2 years??? i f u understand what i mean

2007-02-22 05:46:33 · 5 answers · asked by friggin_idiot22 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-22 05:45:57 · 11 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 05:45:35 · 14 answers · asked by "BE HONEST " 1 in Weddings

2007-02-22 05:45:21 · 6 answers · asked by "BE HONEST " 1 in Weddings

2007-02-22 05:44:39 · 14 answers · asked by nobody 1 in Marriage & Divorce

c'mon show me wat u got!!!!!!!!! get mean!

2007-02-22 05:44:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well there is this boy i fancy hes working at the same place im working i mean ive known him for ages and i fancy him and i think he knows he doesnt show any signs if he fancies me or not i mean he jokes around with other girls but he doesnt with me hes just nice he helps me with stuff i cant do i mean he doesnt talk to unless it is necessary he came round my house and we sat opposite each other but he didnt talk to me and i didnt talk to him and we found it hard to look at each other he was with his parents but at the end of the dinner when he was about to go he said thankyou and smiled for about 10 seconds at me but i dont know why he doesnt joke around with me like the other girls and he doesnt smile at me a lot, i think he might be embarrassed coz he knows i fancy him. do you think he fancies me or not or is just shy and embarrassed?

2007-02-22 05:43:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Could the police make me leave if I am old enough to make my own decisions? By the way my dad is a pot head and my mom is a dope head but my dad treats me right and my mom has major mood swings!

2007-02-22 05:43:32 · 10 answers · asked by Tiffany S 2 in Family

I can't stop fantasizing about this other man. I'm happily married and I try to make it better in the bedroom, but I feel a little guilty knowing that my husband is not the one who turned me on. I'm pregnant with baby #3 and I am wondering if its horomones? Will it go away? I just need some advice. I don't want to mess up our marriage, but I really want this guy and he knows it.

2007-02-22 05:42:52 · 14 answers · asked by thezookeeper 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i fell so sad and under presure even tough i love him but i can't take it any more please help me

2007-02-22 05:42:47 · 24 answers · asked by Bubbles<3 1 in Family

This REALLY hot blonde girl works for me and we're pretty friendly and have a good time. it was her birthday and i hired a male stripper for her and she got extremely mad @ me and just totally refused to work after that. What was wrong with that? why would she get mad over that?

2007-02-22 05:42:22 · 10 answers · asked by alltheladies009 1 in Singles & Dating

or is it still a good idea..?

2007-02-22 05:41:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been obsessing way too much over a guy who I used to be friends with, but is unavailable since he has a gf overseas. The bad thing is that we work at the same place and I see him everyday. It's gotten to the point where we don't talk since he's playing head games with me and claims he doesn't want to talk to me, but he is still looking at me. The thing is I am beginning to be too concerned about him.

2007-02-22 05:41:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is very very close to my grandmother. She is lonely and getting up their in years and really doesn't have much of a social life. She has been looking for a male companion but at her age it is very hard to do. My husband and I spend a lot of time with her so that she doesn't feel so alone. Just the other night my husband suggested that he should start sleeping with my grandmother so that she won't feel so alone anymore. He says that sleeping with her will make her feel young and vibrant again and give her a pleasure that she hasn't felt in years. Some of my relatives agree that this would be best for my grandmother but I totally disagree. I was outraged when my husband brought this outrageous suggestion up. He says that I am being spoiled and selfish and that if I was a good granddaughter I would do this for my grandmother. Is he right? Should I let my husband sleep with my grandmother? Help please!

2007-02-22 05:41:04 · 31 answers · asked by mamabag06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

But does it make me gay that I used to suck d*ck for money back in college?

2007-02-22 05:40:29 · 19 answers · asked by jsdka2006 1 in Singles & Dating

she knows shes doing it... and i have told her but she keeps doing it, does she want a reaction from me?

2007-02-22 05:40:11 · 19 answers · asked by Bruza 17/uk 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 yrs old. I was finally able to fulfill my childhood fantasy by bedding her. She was fantastic. I have been with several young females, but my aunt is the best. The s e x is so fulfilling. She stays with me these days and makes me so happy in bed. Anyone agree with me that MILFs are the best?

2007-02-22 05:40:05 · 9 answers · asked by young_stud 1 in Singles & Dating

What are some sure sighns that you were molested as a child?

2007-02-22 05:39:42 · 11 answers · asked by brunettegurrl212000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so theres this guy i like and we went out in 4th grade but now he likes this one girl that he went out with in like 6th grade but she doesnt like him. but whenever time i look at him theres just something about when our eyes meet. he just looks at me with a smile and his eyes sparkle. he kinda tries to show off in front of me. do u think he likes me?

2007-02-22 05:38:50 · 9 answers · asked by kEiLaH<3 1 in Singles & Dating

It a dream that I alway have, I am waitressing, and something alway stops me from taking their order

2007-02-22 05:38:11 · 8 answers · asked by sanchirico42 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-22 05:37:55 · 9 answers · asked by Donnie2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a wonderful husband I want to state that first, So please tell me if you think that I should be hurt. I am a stay at home mom I have a 5 year old and a 1 month old. My husband left yesterday and our son brought me two cards one from him and one from his sister. I got up (i am sleeping in the living room so the baby doesnt disturb my husband durning the night) and went to my bedroom where there was another card on the bed from my husband... I was really excited because it was my birthday and I was really looking forward to what he had planned... He planned nothing. I made supper last night for him and then got to clean the kitchen. It was if nothing was special about yesterday. Should I be hurt?

2007-02-22 05:37:41 · 10 answers · asked by mama 4 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i tell if he likes me?
should i go out with him?
i am in 8th grade i am a GIRL

2007-02-22 05:37:09 · 8 answers · asked by helpme 1 in Singles & Dating

this goes back a year ago when i ended up instantly clicking w/this guy who is mutual friends w/my x,i caught my x of a few years cheating so i left him,i was still bitter about the cheating and this other guy listened and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was sweet,nothing more happened.I saw him a couple months later and he came to me and said"your killing me".Here and there i have spoke to him throughout the year,i finally called him last week to tell him he was eating me alive,he said the feelings were mutual and he had no idea thats how i felt,he said he has been dating someone for a month now,so i told him to tell me to let it go and move on he said he no,i said he had to,he said he cant because im so beautiful.The coversation was left at that and its been a week and sign of anything further,should i forget him?

2007-02-22 05:36:46 · 9 answers · asked by kerri r 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine was my first kiss. We were both 14 and it was his frist kiss too. It was very sloppy and I after that I swore I never wanted to do that again. Obviously now I love kissing.

2007-02-22 05:36:28 · 4 answers · asked by Liz 1 in Singles & Dating