My best friend and i have been close for 3 years basically best of friends. then recently there is another girl who we have both been friends with in the past who started hanging out with her all the time. My best friend is rude to me and picks at fights with me so she has an excuse to not hang out with me. I told her how i was feeling left out and she said o no dont worry your not being replaced but then she just would try to hang out with her more and through it in my face and try to make me feel bad. Now they hang out everyday and im never talking on the phone with her or hanging out with her. She had all this stuff about me on her myspace and she changed it and put the other girls name. It makes me feel horrible because i feel like i dont have anyone to talk to even though i have so many more close friends. What should i do?
2007-02-22 05:49:00 · 10 answers · asked by confused girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It seems she did replace you, but don't feel bad about it, yeah it's easy for me to say it, but I know you feel really bad . If she had to replace you with someone else she really wasn't your friend. You might have thought you were gonna' be friends for ever and ever, but she didn't. It's like love relationships they just need to move on, and I think you need to just let it go, If you feel like you can do something about it, try it, but if you don't, try to spend some more time with one of your other friends, it's worth a try.
2007-02-22 05:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by Chicana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an eye for an eye, get a friend (make sure it's a real friend, don't use anyone) hang out with her and make your friend feel jealous, if she tries to make matters worse, tell if she doesn't want to be your friend then tell her you don't need her. sorry about what's happened. :(
Also, confont her new friend and see what she has to say about all three of you hanging out together, or make her new friend show just the same interest in you as in the other friend(or even more) then see what your friend will do, GOOD LUCK!
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2007-02-22 05:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by lil dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry your friend is treating you this way ,but to me she never was your friend .I mean if she will dump you like that ,then you're better off without her.Sooner or later she'll come running back,if I were you Id kick her to the curb.She'll do this new friend the same ,you watch.Dont worry about it,find some new friends that will be true.
2007-02-22 05:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Scarlet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Friend,
If your friend really considers you her close friend, she will soon realize how much she needs and misses you. If she doesn't then obviously you guys were not as close as you thought you were. If this is true she can easily be replaced. Don't let her walk all over you. Nobody deserves that!
2007-02-22 05:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find another friend who will treat you like a real friend should.
Don't say anything to her, just act like she does not exist.
You don't need a so-called friend like her.
2007-02-22 05:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to find a new best friend, sometimes people need time apart, this might be that time.
2007-02-22 05:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Patrick D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i read your case...just one suggestion
DUMP HER
sweetheart life doesnt end here. You have life to live on...forget her,you'll find new friend which eventually might become your good friends.
2007-02-22 06:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by crazy_ape1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously is not your friend anymore... make more friends!
2007-02-22 05:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ILL BE YOUR NEW BEST FRIEND
2007-02-22 05:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
say something to her.
2007-02-22 05:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by me1026 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋