Okay awhile ago, I had this guy friend that I met online and online we hit it off. On my end, he wasn't cute but he kept me on my toes so I was emotionally attached. Then we met about 4-5 months later and as usual he wasn't attracted to me yet we kept talking as friends. He was very lonely and wanted a girlfriend so I went out of my way to hook him up with a friend of mine and well the so called friend of mine told him lies after lies after lies about me that lead him to stop talking to me. Now my other friend started talking to him and claimed I was possesive, I was stalkerish, I should've got the hint when he and my other friend hooked up. If I was so bad from the get-go like he claims, why would he continue to talk to me for 4-5 months? Why wouldn't he confront me about the things that he was being told about me? He's not ended it with my so called friend and onto someone else but doesn't he think if I really wanted the whole fatal attraction thing, I wouldn't have hooked him up.
2007-02-22 05:47:28 · 9 answers · asked by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I've ignored the so called friend and him but I feel horrible. I don't feel like I could have friends because of how he treated me. I realize now he lost out but I still have that emptiness inside of me and I don't know what to do about it. I don't want to think about it, I don't want to feel this bad, I just want an explaination.
2007-02-22 05:54:08 · update #1
He's obviously self-obsessed. Ignore his bull & him. Sometimes men (as women) can be egomanical & just plain stupid. Move on.
2007-02-22 05:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by Joan McBitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is bad news and so is your "so-called friend." Why would your friend say mean things to him about you behind your back? If you haven't confronted your friend about the situation yet, you need to do so now. Find out why would she say something like that and take it from there. You don't deserve friends who will say bad things about you behind your back. You also need to confront homeboy as well. Why is he still talking to you, I don't know. Cut him off completely and continue to meet new people. Be careful with whom you meet online because you'll never know what this person is capable of. In the meantime, focus on what's important in life and do whatever you can to make sure that this situation will not bring you down. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-02-22 05:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, your so-called friend and I use the term "friend" loosely, has/had no business bashing you to him in the first place. You set them up, why would she do that to you? Second, you and him had a beautiful intellectual attraction, and that is a great beginning to a wonderful friendship, why would he listen to someone he knows in less time than he's known you. I don't think you need friends like that. move on, they both hurt you, he is blinded by his attraction for her, she is a manipulating byotch! Sounds like a match made in heaven. Rise above the bullsh$t and realize that you don't need those 2 people in your life, if those are friends you sure don't need any enemies!
2007-02-22 06:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT SUX! try calling him from your friends phone (so if he has cid he won't hang up) remind him up the 4/5 months....
2007-02-22 05:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by here2help! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i feel you should forget about him becuz he wuzz obvisely a jerk to a little more than ur frineds becuz he believed everything they said.....i feel that the best thing to do about ur friends is to just ignore them and i wouldnt talk to them ever again..
2007-02-22 05:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_lil_bitch1214 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and your so called friends.
You know you haven't done anything wrong so don't
stress yourself.
2007-02-22 05:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by lizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to taste something which you feel is sour.
2007-02-22 05:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by ojikutu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry :(, but i can be friends with you! Don't believe me? i'll give you my real e-mail address which is t_silwmba@yahoo.com
2007-02-22 06:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by lil dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stress yourself its that simple!
2007-02-22 05:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by kevo m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋