What are some sure sighns that you were molested as a child?
2007-02-22 05:39:42 · 11 answers · asked by brunettegurrl212000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Inability to trust people intentions. Not comfortable with showing anyone your body, no matter how good you think it looks. Lack of self confidence and permisscuous behaviors. Always seeking the attention of the opposite sex but not wanting any bonding with them. I was a victim and although many years have gone by, I still am insecure and never trusting peoples intentions. I have a high sex drive but don't like to pursue it because I feel dirty. I hope you (or someone your asking for) finds forgiveness to move on.
2007-02-22 05:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have an actual memory, you might feel repulsion towards people of the opposite sex, a desire not to be touched at all, relationships that you have a hard time handling, or sometimes even a fascination with the subject. In the worst cases, you may do to a child what was done to you.
2007-02-22 05:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know that there are any "sure signs". What makes you think you were molested? Do you have memories of molestation or do you just think you were because you have
"issues"??
If you think you were molested then you need to go see a councelor. They will help you get to the root of your fears.
Good luck
2007-02-22 05:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no sure signs, they vary from person to person. Depression, anger, obssessive compulsive behavior, eating disorders, sexual disorientation, I had a couple friends who were molested and they behaved normally most of the time but in certain high stress situations, or in times of trouble, they would withdraw, it almost seemed if they zoned out, out of the stress, because they could not or would not allow themselves to feel pain or be hurt. Sometimes you just need to talk to that person, if you are close to them,
2007-02-22 05:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. you have a memory of being molested.
2. a relative tells you they molested you.
3. a relative is still molesting you as you read this.
4. There is photographic evidence that you were molested.
5. there are medical records indicating that you were molested.
6. You have an 'I was molested as a child' bumper sticker on your car
7. An older relative belongs to the child molester of the month club.
I suspect this is a trick question.
2007-02-22 05:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
When someone touches you in your private parts & say it ok,don't tell,i won't hurt you.offers you gifts & brings pain to you. If you feel like you don't want to be near this person tell your parents, or someone of authority to keep this person away from you.You have done nothing wrong.
Ask for help to help you understand what happened.You can call on the phone to a group in your area they won't ask for your name. Hope this helps.
2007-02-22 05:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No real sure way of proving it dont dwell on it only hurting yourself
2007-02-22 05:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by workin_man66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fear of direct contact with a person who reminds you of your past of fear of situations that does the same. That's all I can think of from the movies I've seen.
2007-02-22 05:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by Ahhh....Me Time 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol at 411 fantasy footballs answer....... can't get more direct than that....
2007-02-22 05:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
signs that u are uncomfortable and touched in your danger zone places
2007-02-22 05:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by ladymember 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋