I've been obsessing way too much over a guy who I used to be friends with, but is unavailable since he has a gf overseas. The bad thing is that we work at the same place and I see him everyday. It's gotten to the point where we don't talk since he's playing head games with me and claims he doesn't want to talk to me, but he is still looking at me. The thing is I am beginning to be too concerned about him.
2007-02-22 05:41:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ignore him and avoid him
you'll stop obsessing when your ready not because of what we put down here. obsessions are in our heads.
2007-02-22 05:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to figure out why you started obessing about him in the first place knowing now that he is just playing games with you and then wants to stare you down, If you don't want him to stare at you move somewhere like an empty desk at your work where he can not look at you or tell him up front that you want to know why he is staring at you. It is obvious that there is nothing you should be concerned about here and that it is a waste of time worrying about someone you know deep down inside you really don't have anything do with. You know he has a girlfriend and is not interested in you so move on and find some you can have and don't take obsession to far because it can be a bad thing.
2007-02-22 13:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he doesn't want to talk to you then why don't you believe him? He tried to be honest with you but youre not listening to him. What are you concerned for ?? You are looking for ways to hold on. You should talk to a doctor if you can not let go of this person. Prozac might help you. You might have a unhealthy obsession with him and that is a dead end in life.
2007-02-22 13:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R wasting time that you will never get back and these will only be stupid memories that YOU will REGRET.
Move on woman, into the real world and enjoy the life you do have with people that have your best interests at heart.
Damn....
2007-02-22 13:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by areyoukidding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that he has someone that isnt around may be why you keep obsessing....in other words...you feel like there's hope because of his girlfriend's distance from him physically. If his girlfriend was stopping by to visit him at work...would you continue to hope? trying thinking in those terms. draw the line at anyone who loves someone. there's no room for you in his heart the way you want him. peace
2007-02-22 13:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Beginning Bebe? You are well on your way to Stalkerville.
You have asked AT LEAST 10 questions about this guy. I wish I knew him, so I could forward these questions to him, so he could get a restraining order.
Just get over it!!!! He is not in to you!!!
2007-02-22 13:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG this girl at my school is doing the same thing and im tired of her screwing with my head,i told her i liked her like a couple months ago though
2007-02-22 13:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pretend you aren't interested or bothered by his games. Look beautiful everyday and be aloof to him. Guys love a challenge not someone who is chasing them.
2007-02-22 13:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by jtaylor1993 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u could stop just by looking for another guy. find yourself a bf then u will forget about him.
2007-02-22 13:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get his attention. Be sexy and flirty with him and be sexy and flirty with other men when he is around. Believe me, that will make him want you. All men want the sexy flirty girl that other men find captivating, and he will start pursuing you. You can win him! Go get him, girl!
2007-02-22 13:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋