My wife and I have known each other since I can remember...not high school sweethearts or anything, or even friends for that matter...but shortly after high school we got to know each other and became inseparable friends for 5 years. We then decided to take the next step and start dating, we were married within a year.
Since then, we have truely grown apart and I can't emotionally take her verbal (and sometimes, but rarely, physical) abuse. She's hated me for a while and never stops to filter any of her hateful words when we are in an argument. I feel cold towards her most of the time but I don't hate her...I just understand that we are different.
I recently met someone and have become interested, we have ALOT in common and she's something you don't meet every day. I told my wife I didn't want to be together anymore and she begged me to stay. I do love her, but I'm not in love with her. I want to remain in each others lives as friends but I understand that may not happen. Help?
2007-02-22
05:06:00
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jables
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Marriage & Divorce