What kind of questions would you ask to someone that you are starting to date to get to know him/her better?....questions that willl keep the conversation flowing.
2007-02-22 06:18:08 · 9 answers · asked by There! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this kind of questions!!!!
2007-02-22 06:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well, I would certainly ask them how they got to where they are in life right now, they don't have to go into their childhood, just what lead them into the direction that they have taken in life. Also why not ask them questions that you can easily answer yourself. My main rule is to ask questions that if they asked you the same, you wouldn't struggle to answer. Also as you are on your date, notice things about them, like their style of dress, mention an article of clothing that you like and ask them what made them choose the outfit for tonight. You'd be surprised about what people come up with. Also, never forget to be yourself, once you hit a subject that get's the conversation flowing, don't get self conscious and nervous about keeping it going. Just have fun. That's what dating is all about.
2007-02-22 14:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them know of some activities you like to do! Such as go for a hike in nature, a swim in the ocean or lake, or skating, etc.
When they say oh, I like that too. Then set up a time to take part in that activity. Once you are there together, all the words will flow naturally. Remember even the times you are silent you are still communicating. Energy is exchanged in subtle ways as well.
Good luck!
2007-02-22 14:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by loveandlightminister 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just calm down first and relax. No need to be nervous here or worry too much. Don't try to impress him too much either. Just be yourself. Ask any questions you like but keep them in good taste if you get my drift. I'll have to agree with some of the answers you've already got for this.
2007-02-22 14:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go some where, where there arent distractions and just sit there and talk...ask them the things they like , the different things they've done???...just sit there and let things come out that usually works for me...just dont freak them out and start talking about the future and kids and stuff that always gets them..or if that doesnt work plan something with a group of friends from both sides and that way it wont be that uncomfortable..
2007-02-22 14:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by kauaichic420 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
-what do you like doing on weekends
-what are some of your hobbies
-whats your favorite resturant
-whats your favorite color
-do you like to travel? been anywhere exciting?
-are you the oldest in your family? any siblings?
-do you go to school? what are you studying? where do you go?
-I work here.........where do you work?
*for every question you ask, make sure you also reply as well...
the conversation will going forever, without you even realizing it.
just be calm, and smile...let the rest happen... good luck! :)
2007-02-22 14:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by SassyGirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask about his family, his dreams, music, art, history, culture, likes and dislikes, movies, tv shows, jobs, childhood, and hobbies.
~Good Luck!
Xenai
2007-02-22 14:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what he is interest into like what kind of relationship he wants with you and what are his spectation from you if he believes in exclusive relationship or not...What he likes to do etc...
2007-02-22 14:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just talk about yourself and your hopes and dreams and what his are and the types of things you like and dislike.
2007-02-22 14:22:58 · answer #9 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋