Me and My boyfriend have been together for a month. In January he had a comment saying "I love you" on his myspace page. It was not from me. I was very upset so I asked him who the girl was and he said that I was messy and not to worry about it becasue he was going to block her. Well, three days ago I asked him again (because she had sent another message on his page saying she loved him)and he went off saying things like I don't trust him and all of that. (This has happened to him before and he was mad becasue he was saying I thought you were different) I tried to apologize but he was like that I am not really sorry. I havent talked to him in 2 days. What shouel I say to him if he thinks that I don't trust him? He told my 2 best friends that if I don't trust him then he doesn't trust me. It's not that I don't trust him I don't know what it is. I am really in love with him. I don't want this to end. I never said I didn't trust him. PLease Help Me
2007-02-22 06:17:38 · 7 answers · asked by passion4fashion07 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your actions made him feel like you didnt trust him. and im sure its not that u dont trust him u just wanna make sure hes not gonna leave you.. and your scared so tell him u wanna hang out and watch a movie,, and talk.. and just let him u know u love him and that it has nothing to do with trust,. u just dont wanna loose him
2007-02-22 06:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by HeatherHottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's hiding things. I would come out and ask him about the messages you see on myspace. If he's going to come up with an excuse that you don't trust him etc..he might be feeling guilty or busted that he got caught with that message on there. It sounds like you may be ready to move on since you don't feel that you're sorry for what you found out. Trust your gut instincts. If you think something is a little off, it probably is. It sounds like a pattern with him which tells me he's not mature enough to be in a solid relationship. Let me know what happens and good luck!!
2007-02-22 06:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I am having the same problem. Just ask him, "Do you love me." If he hesitates to answer you will know, but just let him know you trust him and that u will never lie to him or cheat on him. If you really feel you can cope with it anymore just tell him the way you feel about the situation and just be calm dont say it with an attitude.
2007-02-22 06:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by Da*Da 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're silly and very young if you think you can be in love with some boy you've been with for 30 days. It's obvious you don't trust him, so move on.
2007-02-22 06:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him where he can stuff his myspace!
2007-02-22 06:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Cena Suxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-02-22 06:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by stop it 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating on you!
He should have blocked her.
Let him go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-22 06:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by Lady D. J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋