I had a dream that my fiance and I were married, in what looked like a community centre (Not sure why!) and then it went to the evning and he was driving us down a country road when someone stopped our car and made us get out. I got out instantly, as they had shotguns pointed at us but my fiance did not want to. He froze to death in the field whilst we waited for help. Then our wedding photos were showing just his suit and not him because he died! Can someone explain this as it freaked me out. x
2007-02-22 06:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Deep down inside you are not sure of the person you should marry (not beacuse you dont really love this person, im sure you do, but rather that you are not ready to settle down) hence the suit, and not the whole fiance. Community center indicates your need to be in wider circles meaning not sure of your need to marry this person, or date for a little while longer. I did dream research for years. The froze to death in the field means you are frozen in indecision, you need to heed these dream warnings and put it on the back burner until every cell in your body knows this is the right move for you, being that it is so permamant, remember-marriage is forever. You may not be ready just right now for that. Does NOT mean you have to break up, or you dont love this person to death, just means your head is telling your body to wait a little while longer. Him "dieing" means you are removing the thing you are concerned about, and thats the person you are not sure is gonna be that forever person. Its ok to change your mind if you need to, and has no bearing on the other person, as a person. Think before you jump in to marriage. Could be you two just need to wait a little while longer. Give it 1 more year and see if you still feel the same, if so, set the wedding date ! If its "meant to be" waiting for ONE more year is not gonna kill you two, after all, you will be married until "death do you part", so you have plenty of time, you shouldnt have the need to rush this. Prove to yourselves that this last year of waiting is the right thing to determine a lifetime together. Many people divorce when their feelings change once the honeymoon is over, dont be a dummy and do that to either of you.
2007-02-22 06:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by kimmy3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fear about having plans for marriage is causing you to have nightmares.
or I can give you another explanation...you deeply believe that your boyfriend does not want to be married,but has a desire to control you,and that is the empty suit,and the people with the guns were the truth squad.
your fiance is already frozen to death, and needs to get really honest with you in order to thaw out.
I dont have much more time, and I could write a lot more,but I can only hope you have enough. anthony p doctor dread
2007-02-22 06:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by meditation and mango juice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh good dream
you might not know it yet, but in the back of your mind there is something that is very scared of the future, the country road is your life, the car is you and your fiance as one. you said you got out first, that shows that you are wanting to get away from somethink... !if you have any issues in your life right now sort it out. but dont worry , this dream does not meen your man will die,, you just need to make some small changes in your life
love and light
hope this helps
2007-02-22 06:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by becky.elmes@btinternet.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are having second thoughts or your subconscious is warning you about your fiance. He is shown as being immobile, frozen and finally absent.
The men(?) with shotguns represent other opportunities, danger and excitement. The fact that you get out of the car (life journey with your partner) so readily suggests you have unconscious doubts about the relationship.
2007-02-22 06:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by idler22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion on this dream is this...getting married in the community center might indicate the place you are planning to have your wedding isn't truly suitable in your eyes. The person pointing the shotgun at you and your fiance and him not wanting to get out with you, indicates to me that you might be feeling he isn't going to truly stand by your side during troubled times. Him freezing to death while ya'll waited for help might indicate that you feel the relationship isn't alive, or that you feel that HE feels the relationship isn't alive. Good luck and my advice is to seek pre-marriage counseling before ya'll get married and be truly honest with the way you feel before you get married...or else you will regret it.
2007-02-22 06:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by Corona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is really no way to tell what a dream means, it could mean that you think that he doesn't love you, or that you just had some bad meatloaf for dinner, and it spoke to you.
2007-02-22 06:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much to worry about darling.it is always like that in real life. men in marriages are always there but hardly be seen.
2007-02-22 06:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by Josh A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you will have a long and happy marriage, when you do, Na , i don't know but i hope for you that it is
2007-02-22 06:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by honey xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋