She totally blames me for her grandmother's death! You see, her grandmother was diagnosed with cancer on my birthday, and died when I was over my friends house. Okay, its sorta really bugging me because she keeps claiming I'm a witch and avoiding me. What can I do that will convince her that that idea is bogus, and get her to be my friend again?
2007-02-22 06:20:35 · 14 answers · asked by ~ Lillie ~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your friend is not your friend at all. She is unkind and cruel. Leave her be.
2007-02-22 06:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's probably not much you can do. Sounds like your friend's mind is already made up. Ask her what makes her come to this conclusion then give her facts to rebut her claims.
If she says you were at her house when her grandmother died and you spend 360 days out of a year at her house, well . . . that's a no-brainer!
Your friend may just be grieving and need some time to come to her senses and realize she's being foolish.
Good luck!
2007-02-22 06:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by GiggleFairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your friend she would not be blaming you for something like that. I would not worry about it, she will get over her grandmother's death sooner or later, and when she does she will start back talking to you, and you should be the better person by talking back to her. She might be hurting away you don't understand. Just be a friend when she is ready.
2007-02-22 06:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by C.C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. There obviously isn't anything like witches. Was she at your house on your birthday? And you know she could have had the cancer before. Well she probaly is NO friend if she assumes your a witch! All I can say is find more friends and GOOD LUCK! =)
Krissy
2007-02-22 06:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and let this friendship go because that was not a true friend. You are not responsible for nobody death it just happen at that point and time when you were there.
2007-02-22 06:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by tank1show 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is grieving, and grief doesn't always make sense. She is being irrational, but I would guess that she is not herself right now. Don't be confrontational, or tell her that she's being ridiculous. Just let her know that you care about her, and that you'll be there for her when she's ready. Give her some time to come around.
Good luck.
2007-02-22 06:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by RB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone that places guilt on you? Just go get more friends and dance on her grandmothers grave, give her something to actually be upset about.
2007-02-22 09:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is blaming you on your grandmother's death that is rude and she seems like a mean friend. Maybe you should ask her why it is your fault.
2007-02-24 12:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you were there when her grandmother died doesnt mean its your fault
support her til the end and show her that you realy care about her and will always be there for her
shes probably just really sad that her grandmother passed away and she might realize later that it wasnt really your fault
2007-02-22 06:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by sofia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this might seem weird, but explain to her how her grandmother died and tell her she had absoultly nothing to do with it.
2007-02-22 06:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋