so why do they care much if he has it with someone else?
2007-02-22 06:17:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good question! If a woman can't keep her puppy fed at home, he's going to find food somewhere else. He has to eat!
2007-02-22 06:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sex IS important... And it's important to them that things are on their terms. Just as it might be important for guys that sex is on THEIR terms, or they seek it outside of marriage. Insisting that something should be a certain way without taking the other person's view into consideration is selfish - whether it's about sex or any other issue. Unfortunately, many people act selfishly in marriage, without even noticing it. Just the way life is, I guess.
2007-02-22 14:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women may not want to have sex but they also don't want there man to have it either. That's why they don't have sex in the first place. So you can't blame the man for finding it some where else. You should give it to them at home. Who knows you might like it more than you think.
2007-02-22 14:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm ok he took vows, but she did also and to not think sex is important is crazy. If he isnt getting taken casre of at home, he will find what he needs somewhere else
2007-02-22 14:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who say that sex isn't important in their marriage are LIARS...BIG FAT LIARS.
The first thing that drew me to my husband was extreme sexual attraction. That is the one place we never argue.......the "Marital Bed"
Maybe the women who feel this way just don't love their husbands, and shouldn't care....
Maybe they're getting it somewhere else.
2007-02-22 14:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by Doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've wondered that myself. Fortunately I don't have that problem cause I consider sex important in my marriage. BTW-Jewel, loved your analogy.
2007-02-22 17:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by Kakashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of reason she could of lost interest in him as hygiene ,size, appearance, drinks to much.smokes, children .Treats her with no respect.The list goes on. If she wants to keep him from cheating she has to keep him interested. This goes for the man also.Hope this helps.
2007-02-22 14:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably teritorial...also in today's world extra-marital relations could allow your mate to bring home more then his or her luggage (HIV, HSV, HPV etc). Comdoms are not 100% protection for these things.
I am curious...are you married and are you from a European country...I'm just very curious about your perspective.
2007-02-22 14:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have issues. Stay away from married men!!! Homewrecker
2007-02-22 14:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question!!!! Wish more women would think like you!!!!!
2007-02-22 14:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by The Answer Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋