Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

...he wanted to.
He was my first bf.I just can't believe it.
I feel desperate...we are in the same university,I'm gonna see him all the time...so it's gonna be difficult to get over him...
My friends told me there's a chance we get back together...but I feel lost...help me...I can't stop cryin'...

2007-02-22 07:16:07 · 7 answers · asked by j.h. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-22 07:15:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husbands ex. wife whom he married twice and mother of his 16 yr old daughter is extremley upset with me!I have only been married to my hubby for a year and half but he has put me in his will as the sole beneficiary and executor(sorry not sure if the ex. wife used the right words).I am 24 going on 25 and my husband is 14 yrs older than .He just had a heart attack and was diagnosed with lung cancer so i am worried about his health and dont want to complain to him about his ex. wife's nasty phone calls and his daughters acting out when she is visiting.My hubby says if he were to die before his daughter is 18 yrs old her mom and her will recieve a lump salary of child support but thats all.He said it would be my choice if i wanted to give anything else to them.I dont feel comfortable with this?should i just ignore it?

2007-02-22 07:15:42 · 25 answers · asked by Melrose G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this woman that I have been in love with. I never really told her how I feel because the timing just wasn’t right. For example we met while she and her husband were fighting which pretty much ended in them becoming legally separated. Even though they were separated he never left the house. As time went on she and I became real close I started to have feelings for her but I still never really acted on them. The more and more time we spent together I began to want to be with her and just I was began to feel this way her husband left and took almost everything. So I thought again I should just look past my feels and just be a friend. So some time past we continued hang and by this time I fell in love with her. The thing is I know she only saw me as a friend and I felt that maybe with some time I would be able to get over her. I’m still not over her
And just today I found out that she is seeing somebody. It’s really killing me. I didn’t even think about her seeing other people and how it would make me feel, if I knew I would feel like this I would of gladly ended are friendship like other people suggested. Well I think it’s a little too late for that. So I was wondering what I can do to deal with this?

2007-02-22 07:15:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my hubby owed 11,000 back in 2002 and he has paid in 13,347 in child support and they took 2,333 in child support this year they owe him 4,800.00 he has paid to much in on child support. and his kids are 21 24 26 it is took from his pay by the state

2007-02-22 07:14:49 · 8 answers · asked by sweet_poca_44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have had our problems- severe ones. Anyway we are working thing out and have been for 2 months. It has been a great 2 months- he has really changed and I have really changed. We are finally becoming a solid couple. We have been married for 6 years and this is the first time I have been happy- I mean really happy with him.
Today my mom went to see one of my best childhood friends. They talked for a long time. I guess the girl is miserable in her marriage. Well- my problem is that my mother told me that she told her that I was miserable too and that if we get divorced we could move in together and share the bills (as single mothers). Just yesterday my mother told me, out o he blue, that "what your husband doesn't understand is that I really want your marriage to work out." Sure doesn't sound like it to me. She's always had her own agenda in our marriage. She thinks I should have married someone else.
Anyway- she knows that we are happy right now. Should I confront her?

2007-02-22 07:13:56 · 8 answers · asked by momof2 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i know hes guna hit the fan, bc im on birth cont., i just dont no how to approch it and let him know

2007-02-22 07:13:53 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Singles & Dating

I ended up with 2 dresses(long story) and now can't decide between them.
FWIW, I'm an older bride and this style of dress looks best on me and my body shape. Also, I'm actually having 2 weddings(one will be a renewal) because my fiance is in Australia and I'm in America. We are having ceremonies in both places as to include everyone in our special day, so I can always use them both.
I appreciate any advise on which you like better. Thanks


http://www.bellissimabridal.com/couture/venitia.html
http://www.groupusa.com/c-product.cfm?icon_image=6135W_PU.jpg&gid=9&cid=2

2007-02-22 07:13:48 · 26 answers · asked by abbacat 5 in Weddings

I want to settle down now and I wonder which one is the best for me ?

2007-02-22 07:13:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What the hell does that mean. i mean he gives me every reason he wants to be together but he is being very difficult. then he throws that out there to me and then it sends mixed signals. if says that he is in love with me but it would never work
I'm so confused!

2007-02-22 07:12:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it really true that ugly guys are good in bed because they try harder? I heard that's why Heidi klum married Seal.....(Gossip: A close friend of Heidi revealed that Seal and Heidi have lots of erotic pics of themselve hang on the bedroom walls....And that's when the friend finally understands why Heidi married Seal....)

2007-02-22 07:12:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey ya'll!!!
I was thinkin' and I am gonna make a prayer list....I know its not really a question but if you have a prayer request just go ahead and post it...I will pray for you and if you want I can have other people pray for you too!!! It dosen't have to be any thing big...go ahead..I would love to pray for you.
XoXo
Nicole!!

2007-02-22 07:11:52 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah Nicole O'Byrne 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Girls, would you ever go foot-to-foot (footsie) with a guy who was just a friend and nothing more? For example, sitting on the floor across from each other, with your bare feet touching soles to soles with his, kind of like a foot massage? Would you do that with a guy who was just a friend and you had no romantic interest in him?

2007-02-22 07:11:50 · 21 answers · asked by sports4540 1 in Singles & Dating

Married for exactly one year today. we have a 6 month old baby. Instead of him taking us on a honeymoon, hes going on a 7 day trip with his buddys. How would you feel?

2007-02-22 07:11:14 · 13 answers · asked by toonice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance doesn't really care what people think about the way she dresses or appears at times. She's not a slob by any means, but she doesn't dress up very often and if she is going out in public she doesn't care that her hair is a mess or that she is wearing a sweatshirt. I was brought up knowing that if I am going somewhere public I tend to change out of sweats or similar and clean myself up a bit. She can just put on a pair of jeans an a baseball cap. I love her, but I don't know how to approach her on this. I like her to be herself but a little girly at times is nice too. Am I being to critical and superficial? I want to get opinions on if other guys feel this way as well. I try and be as suportive as I possibly can. I don't want to come off as an a$$.

How do I approach her with this without offending her?

2007-02-22 07:10:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this summer i went out with this boy name camron and he has caused me hell while i was going with him. well this weekend i seem him and he was looking to good. he told my friend raven to tell me to call him but i am scared to call b/c i dont want to go threw that anymore with him what should i do should i go back to him cause i do believe in second changes well this would really be the third time he has came back into my life

2007-02-22 07:10:44 · 11 answers · asked by MODel-08 1 in Singles & Dating

Just, are you?
I'm not, but that doesn't matter ;]]
Have you considered getting help?

2007-02-22 07:10:00 · 8 answers · asked by NATTATTACK. 1 in Singles & Dating

Specifically one that provides dinner plates under $30 with liquor included.

2007-02-22 07:09:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What is the best 1st date you have been on and why?

2007-02-22 07:09:23 · 4 answers · asked by Surrendered 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you consider to be real love? Can you be in love with someone who you don't feel that excitement over and all of that? Or is there more to it than just feelings? What do you think? Should you marry someone who you love and respect and treats you well but you don't feel those feelings along with it?

Sorry...this turned into like a 4 part question. Lol.

Please answer as many as possible. Thanks.

2007-02-22 07:09:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to a girl and broke it off a couple yrs ago, i've gotten to know him better as friends and we might start dating but do you think he's looking for something serious and I should stay away? I don't want to get married for a couple yrs yet....but don't want to freak him out by discussing this

2007-02-22 07:08:47 · 12 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Singles & Dating

I think I like my eyes..... the best.

2007-02-22 07:08:23 · 26 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what I should get the girl I like...what I do know is that she likes Hollister, Abercrombie, and Aeropostale. Should I buy her a gift card? or should I get her clothes...ty again.

2007-02-22 07:08:17 · 5 answers · asked by Elijah B 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering how you proposed to your girlfriend? What made you want to propose to her? How long were you dating before you asked her?

2007-02-22 07:07:53 · 15 answers · asked by Case 3 in Weddings

Should I call her? Send roses? Ask her out for a romantic dinner?
Please don't judge me, I know I'm doing wrong, I just need help.
If you have to judge, then please abstain of answering. Thanks.

2007-02-22 07:07:15 · 12 answers · asked by Alan G 1 in Singles & Dating

people always mistake my being quiet for shyness and the thing is.. the classes that im quiet in are the classes i really dont like the people around me and choose not to speak to them..
Theres this kid in my biology class that has alot of friends that always talks to me and has to know what i did yesterday and sometimes acts nice and has complimented me on my artwork from artclass but also has been an asshole.. today we had to see a movie in bio and the teacher turned the lights out and the guy was like "yeah so me and megan can GET IT ON" and he yelled it in front of everyone.. and i said.. shut the f up
and then he was like , wow you curse!? how often do you curse? and his friends were like yeah "cursing is bad" and yet they curse all the time.
I don't know how to handle this guy and sometimes can't tell if hes being nice or not and if i ignore him his friends will all be annoying me and if i curse at him they'll be like wow megan you cursed! I hate this.. more detail gonna be added

2007-02-22 07:07:05 · 12 answers · asked by MeganElizabeth 5 in Friends

I am married with a 6 year old daughter. my relationship has gone sour lately and I like the conversation I have with my co-worker. My wife pays no attention to me and always has a negative attitude. Help! What should I do? I love my wife but I feel like things could be beyond repair.

2007-02-22 07:06:59 · 17 answers · asked by MIA24/7 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I think everyone loves freshly cut grass. And everytime i smell Calvin klein one it reminds me of a school sweet heart.

2007-02-22 07:06:46 · 18 answers · asked by raptureinkisses 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi i am 18yrs old & like a girl but have never talked to her. i like her in every way .i mostly keep on thinking about her coz just cant stop thinking bout her . i even get angry when somebody talks ill about her & i even feel a bit jealouswhen some boy talks to her . i know her but she dosent even know i exist. i am crazy bout her. SO TELL ME is this LOVE or ATTRACTION coz she is always in my mind & i always think that i should be around her

2007-02-22 07:06:38 · 13 answers · asked by zan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 07:05:23 · 8 answers · asked by rockin lover 1 in Singles & Dating