Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

Ok...so Ive known my bestfriend for 4 years now and I love her dearly but I feel distance. We always hung out and called eachother everyday, she got a new job and I was so excited for her she had met new friends and was really happy. This is when the phone calls started to fade and I never seen her anymore, we didnt hang like we used to. Then she got this boyfriend and then I never spoke to her and never saw her anymore and its still this way I dont know whats going on, what should I do?

2007-02-22 07:46:58 · 5 answers · asked by Morbiddoll 2 in Friends

I dont mind it but its all he talks about. He asked me to have sex with him, but I said no, even though i wanted to. now he talks about it more.

2007-02-22 07:46:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so my friend Katie likes this guy Bobby. She gets alot of mixed signals from him. He turned her ring and was holding her hand for a little and playfully jokes around with her. The next second he can be a complete ***. Today in her Spanish class she asked him if he wanted a semi formal ticket. He was like no you love kyle, steve, chase etc... shes like whatever bobby. He was like I'd never go with you. I was helping Katie because she was crying after school. She was like Jackie what do I do I have no clue. How can i help Katie and what is Bobby pulling on her?

2007-02-22 07:46:35 · 5 answers · asked by shiningstars 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

she dosent know i know but i noticed it was missing about a week ago i had it in my pocket and she washed it and i was looking for a needle in her room and found it should i just not say anything or what?

2007-02-22 07:46:30 · 2 answers · asked by unicornslayer184 1 in Friends

please hurry its 2nite. were both 12. and girls only plz.
ps.if u rite anything sick ill report you.

2007-02-22 07:46:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i know that my ex bf still loves me but he wants to stay friends for right now because he's trying to get his life back together and plus i think because so many people are still trying to cause drama between us and i think it's really stressing him out because he wanted to talk to me before and now he seems so tense all the tim and kind of upset so what should i do ,should i wait for him oh and our relashinship before wasnt bad it was actually great it was because other cricumstances in his life were way to much so we broke up

2007-02-22 07:46:09 · 1 answers · asked by ashley_davis957 2 in Singles & Dating

I had drinks with this girl last night and everything was great until we started talking about wild experiences -- I gave her some of my wild experiences, but she just seemed bored and commented "You know I'm disappointed because I'm doing all the talking" -- although I was talking too. My question is -- how do you turn a date around when you get the feeling that you might be boring your date? I sometimes think women have it so easy -- they get asked out, they get taken to dinner, the boy pays, the boy has to do everything (be funny, win her over, etc.). The woman just has to sit there and look pretty and there are plenty of guys that just eat that up ... what's your advice for a guy? Does a guy have to be firing on all cylinders ALL the freaking time? Especially in the context of a date going bad or boring, isn't it the girl's responsibility as much as the guy's to turn the date around? How do guys cope with screwing up dates with girls they really like?

2007-02-22 07:45:50 · 9 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have been with hubby for 8 years and from the beginning his mom and sister were rude and ignorant to me. I was his first long term relationship and they were opposed to him growing up more than anything else. Fast forward several years later and after his 5th nervous breakdown his family decides to start being civil towards me to appease him. I am cordial with them but am not jumping thru hoops since I know it is superficial. He however expects me to accept their fake bs with open arms now that they want to play nice. I cannot stand them and feel that given all I have been thru in the relationship they should be chasing me, not vice versa. Now I have just had our 1st baby and he invites his mom to come stay here, I object and he curses me out and is mad that I dont want to be bothered with his fake family who actually disappeared when he first told them I was pregnant. I am tired and want to leave this mommas boy who is loyal to his family and not to his wife. Should I go?

2007-02-22 07:45:37 · 21 answers · asked by ChanelGirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf are 14 and we really love eachother and im moving at the end of the school year and i really want to have sex with him before i leave, and he does too, wev now been dating 6 months, but im just not sure if it would be right...am i to young???

2007-02-22 07:45:24 · 38 answers · asked by sexii 2 in Singles & Dating

Been talking to this girl and we have gone on dates; everything was doing good and all of sudden she stop talking to me and I finally got a hold of her and she don't want to talk to me anymore. no explanation. what gives? just need to vent. thank you all.

2007-02-22 07:45:05 · 5 answers · asked by Rusty Shackleford 5 in Singles & Dating

Or would you not? The girl lives long distance. The girl loves u.

2007-02-22 07:44:45 · 1 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

My husbands boss is very friendly towards me and even told me once that my voice is sexy. He also compliments me whenever I visit the office. How can I tell for sure without asking?

2007-02-22 07:44:01 · 20 answers · asked by willow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok one of my friends always hits on my boyfriend and she already has a boyfriend what would you do i've already asked her whats up with that but she just says oh thats nothing. But i've seen her with him all the time and i really annoys me. i think i know he won't do anything but she probaly would and he tells me that hes not doing anything i believe him but the girl would thats what i'm worried about.

2007-02-22 07:43:18 · 27 answers · asked by Marissa 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf& I have been dating for almost 1 yr .B4 we started dating we had some rocky times (him not wanting to commit)but he asked for a second chance &I said yes.While we werent 2gether he flirted w/ girls on myspace (people he knew not strangers).I was a little upset,but we werent even 2gether when that happened so I pretty much had to just be over it & since we've been 2gether he hasnt been talking to them.Well I started getting a little jealous but tried to supress it & just be the best gf I could be.Then 1 day I was at his house going to sign onto my myspace & came across a msg from a girl he was flirting w/ before we got together.I tried to keep cool,but a wk later I did something bad,I snooped!They'd been writin each other back & forth for a few days & I never got a chance to read the msgs bc he deletes them after he reads/sends them,but just their msgs no one elses. I dont know what to do.Everyday he says he loves me NUMEROUS times&I violated his privacy &feel terrible about it.

2007-02-22 07:42:53 · 3 answers · asked by it's always something 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked this a while back but very few people responded. I know you people are out there that don't fall in line with all the "traditional marriage" crap.

2007-02-22 07:42:10 · 9 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i get over a guy that i like but dont want to like anymore because liking him is killing me inside.

2007-02-22 07:41:54 · 9 answers · asked by Chiquita dulce 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend are having a sleepover what is the best thing to do

2007-02-22 07:41:51 · 10 answers · asked by chichikirby 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I plan on moving in together. We have been together for over 2 years now, and this will be our first time living together. We are getting a 2 bedroom 1 bath. I was just wondering, should we have seperate rooms, but live under the same room, so that if we have an argument ( we tend to argue sometimes, but we love the hell out of each other) we can just go to our own rooms, and I dont want to feel like im invading his space because we are not married yet. Good idea? Or not?

2007-02-22 07:40:43 · 7 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 07:40:22 · 19 answers · asked by friend of a friend 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom has always compared me to others since I was a kid, but it never got as bad as when I quit college. At first, both my parents were angry. I was so sure I was wasting my time in college, and I could do better. When I began making as much money as any college graduate, my dad stopped being angry, and when I started making even more than the average graduate, he started bragging about me. However, my dad never compared me to other people. Today, I’m doing well, and I’ll probably do even better as my business grows. However, I have not had a conversation with my mom in years. I can’t even say HI, without her telling me about someone who’s making more than me. She keeps telling me about other people who finished college. I just can’t get two words across without her telling me about someone I’ve never met who’s doing better than me. I can’t even have a simple meal with her without she telling everyone about someone somewhere who’s doing better than me. How can I get her to stop?

2007-02-22 07:40:20 · 15 answers · asked by Document Guy 2 in Family

just wonder

2007-02-22 07:40:19 · 24 answers · asked by wolf66pack 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so my sister has been dating this guy for 5 months now and before that they would kind of date on and off. so now they are in a good relationship but have only been going out for 5 months and they are doing it and they are both only 15 years old. first they were using condoms but then one night they didnt use condoms and she is afaid of getting pregnant. and i keep telling her that she should stop before she gets pregnant and she says she'll talk to him, and when she does talk to him he just keeps saying that he wants to do it again with using protection. my parents would kill them if they knew what they were doing. i've told her to stop before she gets pregnant and she says she will but i know once she's with him again they'll do it again. what could i say to her to make her listen to me??? i dont want her to do anything that she'll regret later in life. and i think he's just using her to have sex. please help??????

2007-02-22 07:39:38 · 10 answers · asked by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-22 07:39:36 · 6 answers · asked by nickjonasroxtheworld!!!!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend asked me if I would like to have sex with his brother and I laughed figuring he was joking, but he didn't laugh.Then I asked him if he was serious and he said "Yea do you want to have sex with my brother or not.He doesn't believe me when I say your good in bed." I was totally shocked and told him "Hell no!!!" He flips out and get upset telling me if I am such a girlfriend I would do whatever he wanted me to.I really like him I mean a lot and to think that I let him down would really hurt my feelings, plus he makes me feel so special and I feel I owe him one.Should I have sex with his brother?

2007-02-22 07:38:45 · 72 answers · asked by @ _ease_wit_lyfe 1 in Singles & Dating

When people who tell me about their "right" to choose, I often ask them, "What about the child's rights?" I have never heard a response that didn't attack me as a ist or diverted the focus of the question. Would someone answer this question.

2007-02-22 07:38:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im asking for a serious answer please. This is what im going throught. I was in a relationship for three years and he was my first love my first everything...i honestly thought he was going to be the man i was going to marry and the father of my kids. but as always we started arguing and well things ended. Its been two yrs that we havent been together and i still miss him so much.It been really hard because in this two years he has came back so many time he tells me that he still loves me and still misses me and that he will always love me and that he know that we will end up together one day. i was his first everything as well and i thought that maybe he just needed time to himself. ive heard of him having girlfriends here and there and that would hurt me so much but just recently he got with someone and well hes was with her for like 3 mths when i saw him on october last yr and he ofcourse again told me he loved me and to give him another chance. I did and he called that girl
to break up with her and i heard him tell her that he will never love her like he loves me etc etc and we tried it for like 2 wks and well things were just so diffrent and as much as we both wanted and tried it just wasnt there anymore so we both just went our own way. well i heard that he got back with that girl. whats up with that? last time i seen him was like one mth ago and he told me that he still loved me and missed me and that he will always love me but yet is still with that girl. ive tried moving on and dating guys but its so hard no one compared to what we had together. im so scared i will never be able to let go especially with him telling me what he has told me! i need help understanding

2007-02-22 07:37:28 · 15 answers · asked by *SIMPLY ME* 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont like to talk to girls in school. my name is lucas allan im 16 and my sn is sk8erteen360@yahoo.com u can message me there. and i just hope someone will answer. thanks lates

2007-02-22 07:37:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a hickey on my neck, and I have to say I feel ashamed and disgusted!! It just feels nice while someone is kissing your neck. I am a virgin and plan on staying one...so I just feel really trashy. I know that hickeys are seen as trashy and disgusting....but in your opinion WHY are they seen as so gross and disgusting? Why are they so taboo?? And have YOU ever had one before and if so where and why? I know if people see a hickey they automatically think sex was involved, but you don't have to have sex to recieve a hickey, so why are they considered so nasty besides the fact they are an ugly bruise?! THANKS!

2007-02-22 07:37:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I graduated high school together with this female friend of his. They've been friends since pre-school I guess. He is always talking to her on the phone when I'm not around and I know this because I see it on the phone bills. I think he talks to her more than me. They talk about me and I know this, too, because he's told me. He's told me in the past that he's kissed her and he's stayed the night at her house a lot but they could never date because they were too good of friends. He sees her like a sister. I feel threated in this because he talks about me to her and he just seems distant. He never sits down to talk to me anymore and we're never intimate. I don't think he's cheating on me but I'm afraid that he has feelings for her. I've had a conversation with her before and I told her that I didn't like how close they were. I guess that didn't matter because nothing has changed. How do I get him to stop talking to her so much and save our 3 year marriage?

2007-02-22 07:37:00 · 13 answers · asked by americanbaby0813 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends and I were debating this and I figured getting a female perspective was best. List 5 cars that would make a great impression on you if a man picked you up for a date in it. Except Ferraris, Aston Martins, Bentleys and other $100,000+ cars...of course those make good impressions.

2007-02-22 07:36:55 · 1 answers · asked by btmead21 2 in Singles & Dating