ok one of my friends always hits on my boyfriend and she already has a boyfriend what would you do i've already asked her whats up with that but she just says oh thats nothing. But i've seen her with him all the time and i really annoys me. i think i know he won't do anything but she probaly would and he tells me that hes not doing anything i believe him but the girl would thats what i'm worried about.
2007-02-22 07:43:18 · 27 answers · asked by Marissa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For one dont ask her anything, TELL her whats up! Hello no you cant flirt with him and you will stop or you'll do whatever, also the boyfriend who participates or doesnt get up and move or ask her not to, or blow her off needs the same lashing, both of them are disrespecting you and from what i've been thru something probly is going on, you could make her boyfriend aware of it for starters and make her life alittle bit harder, i'm not a huge fan of revenge but I do find myself wishing that I did demand respect in a lot of situations in my life that I didnt and should and could of, so please try it, if she is intimidating to you say it in a non threatning way and just ya know start ignoring both of them in a sense since they dont seem to care about you right maybe the boyfriend will notice, and another thing you and the boyfriend should be discusing this and making decisions not to be around this person anymore because of the obvious disrespect twords your relationship if there really is a serious one to be standing up for here, again while also questioning his participating and lack of standing up for the two of you. Its really hard to explain this to you becauase I know its learned with experience and although it hurts its necessary for future relationships to work out for you to learn to do these things, anyways good luck do it Kim
2007-02-22 07:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be worried.
Is your boyfriend like any of the guys she's dated? It could be some resemblance.
Anyways, my tip is to keep yourself and your boyfriend away from her.
Keep an eye on her and what she says and if it gets a bit out of hand don't be afraid to speak up and tell her that he's your boyfriend and she needs to back off. Even if she does or doesn't feel something for him tell her that it seems like she's hitting on him and if she really didn't like him she'd cool it.
Good luck and if you need anymore advice I'm here for ya!
2007-02-22 07:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by lunar_eclipse142 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Red flag #1 right there. My partner has a similar attitude- saying things like- "well she shouldnt have made him angry", and - "there is no difference between her yelling at him and him yelling at her"- (when female is 5ft and male is 6ft) etc etc He has a revealed a bad temper and he believes in that point of view so much that he has no problem with pushing me and holding me down if we have a really bad argument... Its happened before and he left massive deep bruises on my arms . Don't ignore the signs. They are not good.
2016-05-23 23:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like much of a friend to me.
Sounds like she has a boyfriend to throw you off her trail....
she wants your boyfriend and her boyfriend is just a decoy.
Tell her to stop hitting on your boyfriend or the friendship is over and STAND YOUR GROUND!!!!
It will suck, but with friends like that.......who needs enemies??
2007-02-22 07:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely be worried if a friend of mine was hitting on my boyfriend. If she was a real friend than she would respect your relationship.
2007-02-22 07:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by lexiss91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, tell that heifer one more time that you don't appreciate her hitting on your man. make sure you let her know what the consequences will be. don't beat around the bush. depending on how you are, if you continue to see it again after you made your feeling clear, either kick her *** or just make sure not to hang around her anymore but make sure you tell her why she is losing your friendship.
2007-02-22 07:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by Queen of the Nile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend like that. Love her to death, but can't trust her alone with my man. Totally tell her straight up that if your friendship is important to her then she better back off your man. If she won't comply, dump her!!
2007-02-22 07:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by wickidgrrl82 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say drop u so called "friend" and tell ur bf if he really likes u then he will stay away from her and as long as hes with u then he will stop seeing her and she will stay away. also tell her bf about what she has been doing with ur bf and see what happens to their relationship. she can be mad at u for a long azz time but who cares.
2007-02-22 07:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
But you're saying HE wouldn't do anything. So either trust him or not. It doesn't matter what she's doing. Be thankful your guy is gorgeous enough for another woman to want him.
2007-02-22 07:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I'd be worried. Avoid her I guess. Real friends are not supposed to be so childish or immature.
2007-02-22 07:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋