I asked this a while back but very few people responded. I know you people are out there that don't fall in line with all the "traditional marriage" crap.
2007-02-22 07:42:10 · 9 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Negotiate? With a woman? Are you serious?
2007-02-22 07:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ari A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you normally do X, do Y instead. It doesn't matter what it is, just try for one day, living it different.
Any deal you make with your partner, that you both agree to and works for you, is great. Does he stay home while his wife earns the money? Sure! Does he work 3 jobs so she can go to law school? Sure! Do they commute to different cities during the week, and only see each other on the weekends? Sure. Whatever works.
Does he have a wild fantasy? Sure, live it. Do you long to be a paid stripper? Make him fork out his wallet next time you're in the bedroom. Are you shy? Drag him into a bathroom stall for a grope and a promise. Be different, dare to try.
2007-02-22 15:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe there are more of those that "fall in line with all the 'traditional marriage' crap" than you think...........
2007-02-22 15:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by KmmK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoever cooks, the other cleans the dishes. I take out the garbage from all the places it is collected (bathrooms, laundry lint screen garbage, computer room, as well as kitchen), as well as seperate recycling, and take them to the curb for collection.
We read books to each other at night, usually her reading to me and me reading her to sleep. Not exactly negotiated.
That's all stuff that keeps out relationship functional, not especially interesting.
2007-02-22 15:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are already interesting in our marriage so we don't have to negotiate..and they are all good things.
2007-02-22 15:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Our marriage is not a wheel and deal affair...we come to a mutual agreement about everything....there is no negotiations neccesary.....sorry....but, thats how it is here.....
2007-02-22 15:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I offered her $50 if she would do it with me right then and there. She did. I paid. She took me out to dinner with the $$
2007-02-22 15:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? Not man enough to keep things interesting "inside" your marriage???
Some man YOU are!
2007-02-22 15:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do everything else and she has the babies. LOL Then, we get to go online and find other couples to flirt with.
2007-02-22 15:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋