Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

Me and my boyfriend been going out for to years, we are really close to each other, and love each other very much , we both plan to save ourselfs till we're married, he says when he buys his own place , he want's me to move in with him, we plan to get married and have kids in three years, we both go to school , and we both work, the reason why he want's me to move in cause we hardly get to see each other, do you think it's ok If we save areselfs till we're married, and we both do are part of paying the bills??

2007-02-22 07:26:24 · 17 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Singles & Dating

A former friend of mine called me approximatly two years ago. We chatted on the phone for several hours. During a conversation i was told of a dream that she had about my future. I laughed off the conversation as just chit-chat. The later years have come and gone and her dream was more like a prediction. Everthing came true. Even the ridiculas details. I just recently called her to chat. She acted as if i was interupting her day as was very curt. I didn't have the guts to tell her about the manifestation of her dream. Now, I almost want to write a book on it. How do i change my thoughts about her and the prediction to more positive ones. Do you think this is common?

2007-02-22 07:26:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband & I have custody of his child that resulted from an on-night-stand that happened just before we met. We didn't know about her until about a year ago. I know she needs me (her biomom is a meth-head) and I will take care of her. The problem is, I'm having problems with treating her totally different than my daughter. My husband tries to understand but ultimately thinks it's not fair. My take on this is...I don't mind to take care of her but I'm going to make 100% sure my daughter does not suffer because of it in any way.

P.S. We also have my step-son every other weekend, holidays & summer. He's awesome and we couldn't have a better relationship.

My daughter is 12, Step-son is 11, new step-daughter is 10.

Looking for comments/advise. Thanks

2007-02-22 07:26:15 · 7 answers · asked by Lakin J 3 in Family

I'm having mixed feelings on what to do and recently been in a rut. I was in a relationship that I was very happy with, but my parents didn't approve of him and me lying about it and split us up by forbidding me to see him. They took my car priviledges unless I was going to school or work and when I ask to go somewhere, they don't trust me that I'm going where I said and so I haven't been able to see my friends in weeks. I told them I would move out, but my mom doesn't seem like she will give me my car after I finish the payment on it. My ex really cares about me and likes me alot and even said when I move we should go out again, but that might warp my relationship with my parents. I really miss my ex and want him back, but I don't really know if leaving before I'm ready is the best desicion. Please help me out...what do you think I should do?

2007-02-22 07:26:07 · 4 answers · asked by Meika_Chan 2 in Singles & Dating

heres my little delema my ex bf wants us to be friends for right now is that a good thing or a bad thing im just really nervous about how this will turn out. Id like to be his friend but what if i get a boyfriend and he gets jealous what should i do , i still love him like with all my heart and care for him but i feel like it'll be really akward does anyone have any advice

2007-02-22 07:25:22 · 3 answers · asked by ashley_davis957 2 in Singles & Dating

i am having my 13th b-day party this week and i really want to kiss my boy friend at my party. any tips on how i should and where, this will be my first kiss so i am nervuse but i really want to kiss him

2007-02-22 07:24:49 · 7 answers · asked by blah 3 in Singles & Dating

i need help!!! please!!!

2007-02-22 07:24:41 · 10 answers · asked by darknessbrat 1 in Friends

my husbands mother is extremelly abusive..(emotionally, physically and mentally). no one provokes this either. ...
when i first started to date my hubby she pulled him aside and asked if my breasts were fake. i was offended because my breasts are real and the Lord blessed me w/them is all. and why would she be so tacky to ask stuff like that. oh and when my daughter died last yr of cancer she saw me crying and said oh get over it!! that stung really bad too. oh and when i was over her home cooking for her/actually helping her cook....i bought a bell pepper from another visit and she confronted me and said "go look in my fridge"!! and i said why? she said "u do not leave old food in my fridge u got it!" and slapped me in my face and then she saw some hot dogs and accused me of leaving them in there too and i said that was not me maybe it was you that bought em and forgot about it...well she walked up to me and said ..."dont back talk me missy" & hit me in my face n threw the hot dogs

2007-02-22 07:24:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay ladies if you had to divide traits you love about men into a percentage, how would you place them in importance?

(Example:

Muscles & physique = 40%
Intelligence = 40%
Good Career = 20%

etc... How would you divide your hundred percent? What is more important to you?

2007-02-22 07:24:23 · 9 answers · asked by Self Bias Resistor 1 in Singles & Dating

have been seeing this guy for about a month and a half "offical" for 2 weeks im his first gf in 2 yrs.when we first started hanging out he would make EVERY effort to see me(never alone tho always with friends)the first week we became gf/bf, i saw him almost everyday.last thurs we all went to a barand i saw a 1 of his friends(girl)getting too close to him & i freaked.he didnt talk to me all friday and half of sat.i didnt see him again until tuesday this week he seemed SO happy to see me(no we didnt have sex).I straight up asked him if he wants to be with me and he said of course i do.i asked him if h wanted to meet up last night when he was done helping his buddies with something and he said possibly.I called back after and said that i wanted a answer and i want to see him more.he said he would "figure it out"and call me back.HE never did!!I dont want to be a nag BUT this is going to ruin this.i barely call him,so im not really needy,i just think we need to develop our relationship!

2007-02-22 07:24:23 · 8 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Singles & Dating

i UDED TO LiVE iN LA WERE A HAD A HUGE CRUSH ON A BOY NAME ALEX.MY PARENTS M0VED ME TO THE BAY AREA ABOUT 2 YEARS AGO.SiNCE THEN WE'D BEEN TALKiNG 0N THE PH0NE EVERY DAY.AND EVENTUALLY WE FELL iN L0VE.BUT JUST RECENTLY(2 M0NTHS AG0)i STARTED DATiNG THiS GUY NAME DJ.N0W iT iSNT LiKE ALEX DiDNT HAVE AN0THER GiRL.HES KiND 0F THE PLAYER TYPE.BUT HE W0ULD SWEAR THAT SHE MEANT N0THiNG.iT TOOK T0 L0NG F0R HiM T0 LEAVE HER AND THATS WHY i LEFT HiM F0R DJ.BUT N0W HES CALLiNG AGAiN.ALEX BR0KE UP WiTH HiS GiRLFRiEND AND N0W WERE STARTiNG T0 TALK AGAiN.i STiLL L0VE HiM AND i CAN TELL HE STiLL L0VES ME ALS0.BUT i D0NT WANNA G0 BACK T0 ALL THE PAiN.BUT AT THE SAME TiME iF iT WASNT MEANT T0 BE WHY W0ULD HE C0ME BACK AT ALL.i HAVENT SEEN HiM iN 2 WH0LE YEARS.i D0NT THiNK HES PLAYiNG WiT ME iM JUST C0NFUSED.ME AND MY CURRENT B0YFRiEND HAVE G0NE THREW iT ALS0.i USED T0 CRY 0VER DJ.BUT N0W THAT iM STARTiNG T0 TALK T0 ALEX AGAiN i D0NT FEEL LiKE DJ iS EVEN W0RTH iT ANYM0RE.WAT SH0ULD i D0 AB0UT THiS?

2007-02-22 07:23:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls vs. Grown Women

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex.
Grown women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to 'lock' you down.

Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Grown women say, "Just stop", get up, get dressed and walk it out.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it -- using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come.
Grown women make you come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e, don't want him hanging with his frineds).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special -
and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back
-- and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women !!  

2007-02-22 07:23:41 · 11 answers · asked by T.I.M.E. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 07:23:38 · 6 answers · asked by yourprettyhot123 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't mean a millionaire, I mean to get someone a visa, this popped up in a conversation with a mate recently, neither of us are planning on doing it or anything, but would you? And if so, for how much? It would be a paper marriage, no sex or living together required.

2007-02-22 07:23:29 · 37 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Naturally I'll be wearing a condom. So girls, what would your reaction be if a guy was getting ready to finish up, and pulled off the condom and busted on your face, chest or butt. Would you care? Should I wait till the second time.

2007-02-22 07:22:52 · 6 answers · asked by joe 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't know whether or not I love this guy. He seems to know me better than anyone else I know yet he always does something that he knows gets on my nerves. I don't know whether or not to get back together with him or to wait until I know for sure that I love him and maybe lose him forever.

2007-02-22 07:22:05 · 10 answers · asked by Chocolate Lover 1 in Singles & Dating

remember when the cirus came to town>?
remember the paddle boats on the waters?
before public liability shut down all fun?
when did we go 24/7 for work?
where has the you time gone?
when softdrink had real coke for 3 pennies [and 1 penny back for the bottle?
what happend?

2007-02-22 07:21:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-22 07:21:27 · 13 answers · asked by mission_viejo_california 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does that mean I love her? or I just like her a lot...I'm trying not to fall in love with her because I don't fully know if she feels the same about me and I don't want my heart broken...but it just feels like I'm falling in love with her because she's been in my mind since a week ago and I haven't stopped thinking about her...

2007-02-22 07:19:58 · 12 answers · asked by Elijah B 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 18, my boyfriend is 24. I am in love with him, but my mom doesn't approve. My mother and I have always had a close relationship, but it seems we have drifted, how do I make her understand my boyfriend is right for me.

2007-02-22 07:19:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

every time i get close to someone, i get scared because my ex was a control freak, i am scared i will never fall in love, all i want is to find someone that will treat me right, the same way i would treat them, do you think i will ever get over this? xx

2007-02-22 07:19:24 · 7 answers · asked by honey xx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I guy I work with insists that, "chicks dig canoes." I don't claim to be an expert on what women want, but I disagree with his assertion. I was hopeing that this venue would settle this debate. Thank you for your honest imput.

2007-02-22 07:18:36 · 7 answers · asked by matt_83501 1 in Singles & Dating

sees her, and that he does not want the marriage anymore what can she do to help him see that things can get better?

Pls. be kind.

2007-02-22 07:18:17 · 23 answers · asked by Centered 4 in Marriage & Divorce

there was this concent that I wanted to go to.i could only go to the 2nd showing because of work issues my bf knew this.i had him call to get tickets and when he called me back this is what he said.the 2nd showing was sold out but he got 4 tickets for the 1st showing.when i told him i could not go to the 1st showing he said i know thats why i only got 4 tickets(for him and 3 of his freinds)well this made me upset because he never even wanted to go in the 1st place it was me.he only wanted to go now because his friends were going.now hes mad at me and said well just because you can't go am i to sit home too.

2007-02-22 07:18:13 · 8 answers · asked by janelucus567 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 07:17:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I tickled my girlfriend until she was laughing so hard that she was crying. I figured she was having fun, but then when I let her go, she was mad at me.

2007-02-22 07:17:27 · 17 answers · asked by thescientist353 1 in Singles & Dating

She has a fear of flying but i told her she could ride the train or bus but she still said she wouldn't come to visit. Im wondering what will happen when we get to Portland and in various situations i get pregnant, im wondering would she come to see the baby? If something happened to me would she come see about me. This makes me think she doesn't have any interest in my life or if she loves me like she says she does. Am i overreacting about my feelings towards this

2007-02-22 07:17:14 · 8 answers · asked by janetgoins19 1 in Family

their a girl at our last year , that was my best friend's friend but she had to move. she came back this year it is now in the middle of the and my friend still spends most her time on the new/old girl!! Am i jealous???

2007-02-22 07:16:59 · 15 answers · asked by zoegirl 3 in Friends

well i have said stuff and he says that they are just freinds but i have a hard time trusting people and i dont want to over exagerate it and then lose him if they really are just freinds but im just not sure how to know i have been cheated on before and i cant seem to trust him how to i figureout what to do?

2007-02-22 07:16:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

feel the same way we should be soul mates is this possiable

2007-02-22 07:16:40 · 7 answers · asked by turtle72s 1 in Singles & Dating