their a girl at our last year , that was my best friend's friend but she had to move. she came back this year it is now in the middle of the and my friend still spends most her time on the new/old girl!! Am i jealous???
2007-02-22 07:16:59 · 15 answers · asked by zoegirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok i will be clear as day here i am her old friend and the who moved BACK is a old friend as well but not as long
2007-02-22 07:48:39 · update #1
Ok i will be clear as day here i am her old friend and the who moved BACK is a old friend as well but not as long as me
2007-02-22 07:49:13 · update #2
i am her old friend and the girl who moved back is her old friend as well but not as long as me. I SO SORRY IF ITS NOT CLEAR!!!
2007-02-22 07:51:28 · update #3
Sorry, I am having trouble reading and understanding your question.
A best friend is someone that you can go to and speak with, if you feel that you can not make that approuch then you are no longer best friends.
My suggestion- approuch, talk to her, explain how you feel, and ask her what is going on. Do it in such a manner as to not be threatening or aggressive, and do not get angry or upset with her response, just simply accept it.
Best of luck.
2007-02-22 07:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by Harmon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be a little clearer but i would be jelous i have had that happen to me before it sucks but what i think would work is if you like found a new friend and spend loads of time with him/her and then sort of make your best friend feel jelous that you have found someone or you could just sit on you own and play allinocent infront of her and make her feel really guilty. or maybe if you feel exeptionally mean make up (or secretly find out) that her old/new friend really hates you and is nasty to you behind your back. but i mean its your choise i didn't need to do that with my dilema because the girl who my best friend had to choose me or her from was really mean to me behind my back and wanted my friend for herself and had an awfull dress sence i mean wearing a mouldy type pink and greeny-brown together is so not cool
2007-02-22 15:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Pastinie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ido think ur jealous, but that is ok. How would she feel if u got a new friend? Maybe to get over ur jealousy u need to find more friends.
2007-02-22 15:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by divaL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are jealous. Your friend may be paying more attention to her old friend than she is to you. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you. You should find other friends to hang out with, too.
2007-02-22 15:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sugar Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it seems like you are jealous, but i dont blame you. try to hang out with her and if she ignores you or gives you the "cold shoulder" then ignore her for a while or ask her why she doesn't want to hang out with you anymore. If she doesn't seem to want to be your friend, then just give up.
2007-02-22 15:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Miso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, sounds like you are jealous, just be the best kind of person that you can and be a friend to both of them.
2007-02-22 15:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to be a little jealous. just try to make it so all of you can hang out & be friends together
2007-02-22 15:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by mks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chick u should type more clear, i couldnt understand half the things u typed. If you want help type better...sorry... hahaha
2007-02-22 15:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by killakaren♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i absolutely couldn't understand the question u asked but i understood some of it. try to be more specific about your relationship with your friend. good luck with your friendship with her.
2007-02-22 15:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by Elias W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't like you like that anymore. You are probably jelous.
2007-02-22 15:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by Crazy K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋