there was this concent that I wanted to go to.i could only go to the 2nd showing because of work issues my bf knew this.i had him call to get tickets and when he called me back this is what he said.the 2nd showing was sold out but he got 4 tickets for the 1st showing.when i told him i could not go to the 1st showing he said i know thats why i only got 4 tickets(for him and 3 of his freinds)well this made me upset because he never even wanted to go in the 1st place it was me.he only wanted to go now because his friends were going.now hes mad at me and said well just because you can't go am i to sit home too.
2007-02-22 07:18:13 · 8 answers · asked by janelucus567 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's other concerts. He really hurt you too. He needs to identify how important you are in your relationship.
He should do something special for you alone to rejuvenate the good feelings. Otherwise he's a selfish creep.
2007-02-22 07:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, say he did get tickets to the second show. Would you have wanted to go with him if he wasn't even into it? I think you would have had a bad time. Okay, so he gets tickets for the first show. A part of me thinks that he planned on doing that anyways (hanging out with the friends). Did you verify that the second show is sold out? If it wasn't, then he never planned to go (with you). If it was, then he is just being insensitive by going without you. Either way, not the best qualities in a fiance. I am not saying that you should call it all off, but add it to the list of things to look for prior to wedding day. You do not want to get into a lifelong commitment with someone that hurts you in this way.
2007-02-22 07:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by ericka1031 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you couldn't go to the concert was not his fault. You couldn't go to the first showing due to work commitments, and the second showing was sold out. So what you're saying is that he can't go somewhere with friends while you're working, is that it? I suppose you never spend time with friends when he's working or otherwise occupied? Plus, why was it him and not you, who called about getting tickets? If going to this concert was so important to you, maybe you should have pulled your finger out and organised your tickets youself, and at a time when tickets to the showing you were able to see were still available. So stop blaming your boyfriend for your lack of organisation, you missed the concert, get over it.
2007-02-22 07:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it's difficult to understand, but you're engaged not joined at the hip. each of you do need other friends and other interests. i don't see it as a big deal. i doubt you would if the situation were reversed and he worked while you went with your girlfriends. i also bet he wouldn't be acting the way you are. it shows signs your selfish and immature i'm afraid and i would recommend maturing and growing up before you marry...because even when married....it's married...not joined at the hip.
2007-02-22 07:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insensitve prick!!! If he couldn't get tickets to the second show and take you, he shouldn't have gone. Also, the 1st show usually sells out first....something ain't sitting level if you ask me.
2007-02-22 07:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently he wants to go now. just because you can't go doesn't mean he can't go. each person in a couple is still an individual and should be free to go places and do things without their partner. sounds like you're being clingy and maybe a little jealous since you can't get off work.
2007-02-22 07:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats a tough one.
2007-02-22 07:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by SiC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk and a Loser!!!
2007-02-22 07:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋