ok so my sister has been dating this guy for 5 months now and before that they would kind of date on and off. so now they are in a good relationship but have only been going out for 5 months and they are doing it and they are both only 15 years old. first they were using condoms but then one night they didnt use condoms and she is afaid of getting pregnant. and i keep telling her that she should stop before she gets pregnant and she says she'll talk to him, and when she does talk to him he just keeps saying that he wants to do it again with using protection. my parents would kill them if they knew what they were doing. i've told her to stop before she gets pregnant and she says she will but i know once she's with him again they'll do it again. what could i say to her to make her listen to me??? i dont want her to do anything that she'll regret later in life. and i think he's just using her to have sex. please help??????
2007-02-22 07:39:38 · 10 answers · asked by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tell your parents, you may just be doing her a favor. She is young, she does not know what she is in for. Her boyfriend is only thinking of himself. What a mature person you seem to be, it is great you are looking out for her best interests!
2007-02-22 08:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy only want to go out with you just so he can have sex with you, then he is not worth being with. You need to have a lot more respect for yourself than to allow yourself to be used. A man or boy, or, in this case, idiot, needs to learn the hard way that if he wants to have someone out there to go with just to have sex with, he has his own hand.
Any woman or person who thinks that it's OK to allow themselves to be used in that manner needs to stop and take a second look at what they are doing.
If your sister still doesn't believe that you are trying to do things in her best interest, then ask her to go with you to a hospital ward and ask some of the unwed young teens there if they would have changed anything when they found out that they were pregnant. If she stills thinks it's going to be FUN, then take her to an abortion clinic to take to someone who actually has been in the room with some of the young girls who have come in for unwanted pregnancies. Ask for their opinions. See what they would have to say.
2007-02-22 09:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by Double J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to go to planned parenthood and get birth control if there is 1 near you. She will probably not stop having sex with him. She could also insist he use a condom or no sex. Tell her to talk to your mom about this it is better that she asks for birth control than have to tell your mom about a pregnancy.
2007-02-22 07:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR PARENTS! It's not your responsibility to talk common sense into your sister, who obviously LACKS common sense! There are few things more irresponsible than a 15 year old girl having unprotected sex with her boyfriend because he says he likes it better that way. Let your parents handle it! It's their job!!!
2007-02-22 07:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably feels that if she stops sleeping with him that he will dump her and he probably will. that stinks. maybe print out some information on abortion or people that have had kids at a young age and are having problems. maybe that will scare her enough to stop and think about what she is doing. if she plans on sleeping with him she needs to be on birth control. it will be a crappy thing if she does get pregnant. when i was 17 i brought one of my freinds to have an abortion. enough to scare me.
2007-02-22 07:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by rain9439 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a possibility. However shes more than likely not going to stop. And I hope she is on birth control and you just need to keep tryin to be there for her!
2007-02-22 07:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by CrazyGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A TELL YOUR PARENTS AS A SISTER YOU SHOULD SHE WILL THANK YOU LATER NOT ONLY SHE MIGHT GET PREGNANT BUT SHE CAN GET AN STD A DISEASE.
2007-02-22 08:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by vanessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if i find out yer doing it again then im telling mom and dad and that will help her in the long run
2007-02-22 07:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust me ALL 15yr old guys are just in it for sex
they don`t have a clue what love is.
2007-02-22 08:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by neil q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him instead of her!
2007-02-22 09:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by Avaria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋