me and my bf are 14 and we really love eachother and im moving at the end of the school year and i really want to have sex with him before i leave, and he does too, wev now been dating 6 months, but im just not sure if it would be right...am i to young???
2007-02-22 07:45:24 · 38 answers · asked by sexii 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Way too young. You could possibly regret it. I lost my virginity when I was 16. I loved the boy I was with and I was with him for almost 2 years before we did it. I do regret it now! You should probably wait a lil longer! Good luck and be careful!
2007-02-22 07:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by CrazyGirl 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you are. You are only 14 there is a lot out there still. I was only 2 years older when I did. However, I am still with the guy. Your situation also doesn't help. Maybe yall should stay together or be friends for a while. As people told me when my boyfriend moved "if it is meant to be it will find a way to work." I don't know how far he is moving but mine moved about 2 1/2 hours away. it is hard but it can be worth it. sex just isn't something to take lightly. If you do decide to do it be prepared. Condoms for one but also it will hurt you. every girl is different. some bleed some cry. you never know what will happen but 2 virgins it will be awkward and there will be fumbling. but if you freak out about it too much it will just make it horrible for both of you. good luck. if you need any more help feel free to email me. Crazydazey317@yahoo.com
2007-02-24 13:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Daze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Girl, You are too young, my first time was when I Was14 and I regret it and we were together for a long time before and after it happened, you have such a connection with a person when you get to that point and you will be even more devastated to leave him when you move, and your too young to have to deal with all that heart break, its going to be hard enough, just keep in touch with him and if you are truly meant to be with him in all ways you will you will know, but after 6 months just sounds like your already very emotional about moving and leaving him and want to prove your love, its not necessary, love is not about sex don't do anything if your uncomfortable and if your questioning it your NOT READY!
2007-02-22 08:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by Laura S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think long and hard before you have sex with him, once it is done, you can't take it back. And 6 months is not really a long time to have dated someone. I was your age when I lost my virginity, to a guy who didn't care about me and I totally wish I had waited, 14 is too young. Now I am 22 and with a man who loves me dearly and sex with him is so much better because we love and respect each other. I think you should wait.
2007-02-22 07:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are sweetie. With sex can come emotions that at your age may be to hard deal. If you do this with him then move away it's going to be that much harder, cause then he would be your first love. You really should wait. Maybe there is a way you'll be able to see him even after you move. Just really sit down and think about this. Sex is a very big step.
2007-02-22 07:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Amber Vance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are way too young. Just wait till your older then 14! Sex is honestly for people you want to be together. Not for a bang on the way out the door.
2007-02-22 08:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from my personal experience, 14 is way too young. I thought the same thing you do, had sex, and thought I was pregnant b/c I missed my period. I could not tell anyone and when I finally told my oldest brother and he got me a test, I was so relieved and ashamed of myself when I found out that I wasn't. Don't have sex until you are older and know what you are getting into. It is way overrated anyways.
2007-02-24 05:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by sarabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not that your too young,,well you are but look in the end you'll get hurt because your gonna give a up something important to a guy you wont see any more.what if you move and you do have sex???a month later hes with another girl how do you take that?so really think about it...you might meet someone that you can give it up to later on and you might even get married.don't take sex as a joke or something you just do!
2007-02-22 07:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it....(1) you are way too young and (2) especially because you are going to be leaving. In one way of looking at it, having sex once will make you both want it more so that will just make things even more difficult...and in the other way of looking at it, do you really want to lose your virginity to someone with whom you already know there is no future? Especially for girls, sex carries along with it lots of emotional and psychological baggage. Having sex with him then never seeing him again would screw with your brain more than you can imagine.
2007-02-22 08:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by griffon1426 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is a manifistation of metal growth. The question is are you too young? that answer is only answered by the question "are you old enough to be a mother?"
Is your attraction to this boy purly phsical or do you love him. if you believe it's love you should stay in touch and give him the ride of his life when you answer yes to teh question above. If that time is now go ahead.
Condoms are only 93% effective against child birth and only 23% effective from major STDs.
2007-02-22 07:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by Jimmy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋