people always mistake my being quiet for shyness and the thing is.. the classes that im quiet in are the classes i really dont like the people around me and choose not to speak to them..
Theres this kid in my biology class that has alot of friends that always talks to me and has to know what i did yesterday and sometimes acts nice and has complimented me on my artwork from artclass but also has been an asshole.. today we had to see a movie in bio and the teacher turned the lights out and the guy was like "yeah so me and megan can GET IT ON" and he yelled it in front of everyone.. and i said.. shut the f up
and then he was like , wow you curse!? how often do you curse? and his friends were like yeah "cursing is bad" and yet they curse all the time.
I don't know how to handle this guy and sometimes can't tell if hes being nice or not and if i ignore him his friends will all be annoying me and if i curse at him they'll be like wow megan you cursed! I hate this.. more detail gonna be added
2007-02-22 07:07:05 · 12 answers · asked by MeganElizabeth 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i've tried , with just saying shutup and all that but nothing seems to work and i don't know what to do to make him stop.. I've tried tellen the teacher but he dont care.. This guy is really distracting and its been going on everyday.. I have nothing to threaten him by because i can't fight or anything.. Im weak haha and my friends know hes a jerk but they dont really know what i should do..The annoyance has just been building up
2007-02-22 07:09:05 · update #1
ooh and another thing , im a sophomore in highschool.. I act completely nice to him and try to act like it doesn't bother me.. but what he yelled out today was annoying.. He never shuts up except when hes distracted by his friends..
It seems like he can never be serious and theres never a time when hes not with his friends when i can just tell him im not interested in him... and if it was with his friends , he'd make a fool outta me.. Im so fed up with this guy but keep posting.. im appreciating all of your answers because its better than what i can think of
2007-02-22 07:18:40 · update #2
and he sits RIGHT next to me in bio..
the teacher wont change seats..
You are all such a help [: I dont understand how kids can be such assholes because im generally a really nice person and i can tell that he must get bored alot.. The more answers the better and I will give you all a good rating later on
2007-02-22 07:21:16 · update #3
simplest process is to avoid .don't be rough.avoid slowly.if he wants to talk make him feel inferior.don't argue or say that he is irritating.get yourself hooked with other freinds .avoid sitting alone when nothing to do
2007-02-22 07:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by kavya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its pretty hard to say to just ignore the person because they will just be more persistant I know I had some guy bugging me in class before and I tried to ask the teacher and all she said was to ignore it. I also didn't care to talk with the other kids in class its nothing personal just don't really like them. It eventually got to much that I had to go after school get my parents to sign a slip saying that they don't like the behavior of the other student etc etc and either get you switched to another class or move you to a seat far away from that kid. When your parents get involved its hard for them to ignore you then. Good luck with this problem
2007-02-22 07:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jess_Eka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in a 'clear and even voice': "I do not enjoy your childish behavior, and if you continue bothering me and harassing me I will talk to an attorney and have a 'restraining order' taken out against you." Then simply turn and walk away ... and give it at least two weeks to 'sink in' but the problems should stop ... or you may have to actually get that 'restraining order' ... which will take your parents permission (if you are under eighteen) and an attorney to help you. If this 'annoying behavior' continues, that 'restraining order' will be your 'first step' toward having him prosecuted 'criminally' ... because the type of harassment you are talking about is a form of 'assault' and that's against the law.
2007-02-22 07:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kris L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes just flirting,but over the top. maybe u just need to stay clear. or find a guy that will shut him up. Good luck and don't let those kind of losers bother u.
2007-02-22 07:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by divaL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has a crush on you, you need to tell him in private that you are not interested and that you'd appreciate it if he would stop. If you do it in front of his friends then he might be loud and rude to you. If he still doesn't stop talk to your teacher or the dean.
2007-02-22 07:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and tell him to stop talking to you, because you have no interest in being friends with him, and if he keeps it up and the teacher don't do nothing about it. talk to the principal . good luck.
2007-02-22 07:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet you he likes you, instead of being mean to him try being nice! Seriously, see what happens..don't be a ***** to him, that will make things worse! he is a guy...he probably likes annoying you on purpose, just to get your attention, couldn't be more obvious...what grade are you guys in kindegarten?
2007-02-22 07:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this same exact thing happend too me...it is EXTREMLY annoying...because the thing is you don't kno if there bein nice,mean or nething...I just ignored em & told them to *** off & not 2 tlk 2 me again & they did & i went & told the princible that im basically bein harrased because they won't leave me alone after i repeatidly told them not to talk & they were givin in school...but thats my school..hope you get it fixed good luck!!
2007-02-22 07:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by CuTiE WiD A WhOle LoTtA Bo0ty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your counselor what's going on..also bring up the fact that you told your teacher and he doesn't care..if that fails I say tell your parents
2007-02-22 07:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by lata 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okk just tell him straight that u don't wanna talk to him so yeah and he will probably leave u alone
2007-02-22 07:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by joseline m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋