...he wanted to.
He was my first bf.I just can't believe it.
I feel desperate...we are in the same university,I'm gonna see him all the time...so it's gonna be difficult to get over him...
My friends told me there's a chance we get back together...but I feel lost...help me...I can't stop cryin'...
2007-02-22 07:16:07 · 7 answers · asked by j.h. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this was our 9th month together. We were friends before...and he told me he just sees me as a friend again...not a lover...
2007-02-22 07:46:23 · update #1
Your answers have really helped me so far...Thank you all guys...
2007-02-23 00:32:04 · update #2
Well if you and him do have a chance to be together again, it would not help AT ALL to let him see you upset over this.. the best way to get his attention again and notice you, is by acting and apearing that this is the best and how much you are enjoying life. People break up because it gets to familiar.. Dont Cry, crying and being sad about it will only draw that same energy into your life and you will notice an endless cycle of sadness. if you love him, just know things will turn out for the best and you will get him back, but dont seem desperate or depressed about it, he will want you back maybe if he sees that this is not EVEN BOTHERING YOU AT THE LEAST,,, hold you head high put a smile on your face, go to school strut your stuff and dont give him a look and see who comes crawling back. girl, they ALWAYS come back.. cheer up...
2007-02-22 09:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by *starrynight* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well in order for me to answer this question I would need to know why you guys broke up in the first place....If it was something you did maybe you could change it and just talk to him about it and see what he says to you about it and tell him how you feel and see if maybe the two of you can get back together
2007-02-22 15:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by (BaBii) (DeSii) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just got over a bad break up and I have learned one thing: the only thing that can heal a broken heart is TIME. In the meantime, try to consume yourself with schoolwork and friends so you can forget about him. I know it hurts but try not to dwell on it... (Yeah, turn off the Avril Lavigne CD!).
Good Luck
2007-02-22 15:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by Brinee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well..its gonna be hard to deal with. It was your first real realationship so thats gonna suck. I had the same thing happen to me, eventually you will get over it and think to yourself "what did I see in him" Dont worry theres plenty of men out there good ones worth your time. You'll find the one your lookin for, i promise
2007-02-22 15:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Morbiddoll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, sorry to hear about it, you have to cheer up soon, hes your first bf you have soooo many more experiences ahead of you, yes i agree it will be hard but go for it and dont look back, look at this as like a... training session, preparing you for the future, just think of the good things and not the bad, everytihng will be fine trust me. good luck
2007-02-22 15:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by sam sucks balls 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just look on the bright side of things... you are free lady now.. and there are fish out there that will appreciate the person you are... dry your eyes and get out there
2007-02-22 15:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by De 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let the emotions out, you'll conquer it in time. It might not feel like it now, but you will move on.
2007-02-22 15:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋