i know hes guna hit the fan, bc im on birth cont., i just dont no how to approch it and let him know
2007-02-22 07:13:53 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 18 hes 22 i live on my own and can support a baby, abortion is not an option, neither is giving it away
2007-02-22 07:41:38 · update #1
"I have some news you need to know. We're going to be parents."
Direct, simple, honest. It's the best way. He may get upset, but that's something you can't control.
2007-02-22 07:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old are the two of you? Secondly, are you ready for a family? Pregnancy can and does happen even if you are on birth control. There's nothing funny about it, it's just a fact of everyday life! I suggest that you tell him and soon so that the two of you can start making plans - whatever they may be. I don't condone abortion but would suggest that if the two of you don't want to get married then you should carry the baby to term and give it up for adoption just as soon as it's born. Now days, you can make it part of the adoption process that will enable you to see the child from time to time if you want to. I hope only the best for you both regardless of your decision.
2007-02-22 15:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by lilbit48vmb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your boyfriend that you are pregnant when both of you are in a really good mood.That way he wont be as upset and he will be calmer than if you just told him out of know where.
2007-02-22 15:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun I know you're scared but you just have to tell him. The longer you drag it on the worse it's going to be. Good Luck!
2007-02-22 15:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be up front and honest about it. the longer you wait to tell him the more he will be suspicious of how you got pregnant. its not your fault if you are on bc. it happens all the time! if he doesn't understand then you have another problem on your hands.
2007-02-22 15:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get him while it is just you and him and say that i know you love me and something happened and tell him that you are pregnant hopefully that helps a little! Good luck!!!
2007-02-22 15:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by ashie bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on timeing. you should tell him on a date or something,when it gets quite say oh and their is something i have to tell you... he wount be man because haveing a baby is shocking but it is a great thing nno one could be mad about that
2007-02-22 15:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by blah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cant hit the fan cuz he put effort in it too... birth control dont always work so it not yo faught... just explain (GOOD LUCK)
2007-02-22 15:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by mesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Honey, you know how the say birth control is only like 99% effective? Well, see, funny thing - it's like this...."
2007-02-22 15:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick a good time and be straight foreward. Let be what will be.
2007-02-22 15:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋