Girls, would you ever go foot-to-foot (footsie) with a guy who was just a friend and nothing more? For example, sitting on the floor across from each other, with your bare feet touching soles to soles with his, kind of like a foot massage? Would you do that with a guy who was just a friend and you had no romantic interest in him?
2007-02-22 07:11:50 · 21 answers · asked by sports4540 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as long as it's not left up to interpretation. guys always wan to make something more out of everything.
i love to flirt. that doesn't mean that i want to mess around with every guy i flirt with.
but i am trying to mend myself .so whatever you and he feel comfortable with...
2007-02-22 07:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, If he is my friend and we're watching t.v, and i like him, yes. If i don't have any feelings of romance at all, and he is playing footsie, i would have to assume he must have the feelings of romance. but i wouldn't mention it, it might embarrass him, so i would wait till he brings it up, and then let him know that right now, is not a good time for you because you are enjoying being alone, but maybe in the future. This way you don't hurt his feelings, and who knows, you actually may like him after you get to really understand him on another level. Ask him questions about his interests, his life, and stuff like that and maybe you may find him to be more interesting than you thought.
2007-02-22 15:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how close of a friend he is. If he's almost like a brother, then yes. If he's just a friend, nothing too close, then I would have to have romantic interest in him to go "footsie" :-)
2007-02-22 15:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not....... I believe that there would have to be a romantic interest unless you have been good friends with this person for like 10 years. There may be just an interest and thats all but there is something for sure. She is entertaining some kind of intimacy with you.
2007-02-22 15:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by lbacig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the friendship. I had a guy friend from primary school to high school, and we did alot of things together but later in the friendship as we got older, we started dating. Becuase we grew up together i think it was inevitable! the sad thing is becuase we were intimate with each other we are no longer friends ( it was weird after we called it quits).
But i also had a friend from high school and we never did anything like that, and we are still friends. So i think it depends on the kind of relationship you have with them.
2007-02-22 15:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by sgreenslade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously theres some romantic feelings there, but she may just want to leave it at footsie. romance comes in levels. perhaps she just wanted to play footsie, who knows. girls are ridiculous, ill be the first to admit it.
2007-02-22 15:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by SiC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a way yeah... but then again why play footsie if u have no romantic interest... there is a Spark there
2007-02-22 15:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by mesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, Jose, and I did that once and it turned into romantic interest, but we stopped before anything else happened because we didn't want to lose our friendship. It depends how you feel about that person.
2007-02-22 15:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by Freddie xoxo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he's just ur FRIEND then u probably won't even take it so seriously and might even forget u did it. And if he likes u then most likely he'll take it the wrong way and thing ur flirting with him,if u dont like him at all as more than a friend,u shouldn't do that..bye!!
2007-02-22 15:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but that footsie changes into the feet stomping game
2007-02-22 15:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by bibimbapbambina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋