hi i am 18yrs old & like a girl but have never talked to her. i like her in every way .i mostly keep on thinking about her coz just cant stop thinking bout her . i even get angry when somebody talks ill about her & i even feel a bit jealouswhen some boy talks to her . i know her but she dosent even know i exist. i am crazy bout her. SO TELL ME is this LOVE or ATTRACTION coz she is always in my mind & i always think that i should be around her
2007-02-22 07:06:38 · 13 answers · asked by zan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A mix of attraction and hormones.
2007-02-22 07:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your natural attraction for her, my friend. Youn crave and desire to be with her as when true Love can only come through a relationship and time. Do yourself a favor and approach her because you're gonna regret not doing so, odds are you'll have a positive response from her when you do, trust me. Even in the odd chance you'll get rejected, it's better knowing and then moving on than never knowing and always wondering with no reward=(
Good Luck! =)
2007-02-22 15:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Miguel O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you are infactuated with her right now. I've been there before and trust me if yo don't tell her how you feel then you will never get over her. Just tell her everything that you are saying now and go from there. See if she's seeing anyone and if not tell her that if she is interested that you would like to get to k ow her better. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't but at least you get a chance to get it off your chest. And if she's not interested trust me there are other fish in the sea.
2007-02-22 15:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! i have the exact same question but the other way around, im the girl in this situation, i feel like im in love with him but iv never even talked to him before but i cant get him out of my mind and i too get jelous when i see him talking to girls. Good Luck for both of us.
2007-02-22 15:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Janelle S. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just an attraction, or lust. To love someone you have to realy know them and accept everything about them, even the bad gross things they do. So if you don't realy know anything about her then you can't possibly love her. But if you are this attracted to her, take a chance, talk to her, start by saying HI!
2007-02-22 15:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by catmomiam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction, Love is something that can't be determined until you get to know someone on the inside and out
2007-02-22 15:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by j_n_js_mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attraction! Love is more complicated than that. you can be crazy about someone without loving them. Love comes much more naturally in relationship than alone. Its about a connection that you just can't get alone.
You're not obsessed are you?
2007-02-22 15:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by Starkitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i KNOW excatly WHAT YOUR going through.
Its tough when that kind of stuff happens.. its all cause of the clicks in highschools and who fits in where and who doesnt.
I am in highschool, and whenever i like a guy, i make sure i give it time to talk to him a few times to make sure i really am sure i like him for him and not just his looks and all. And anyways.. you should deffinitely talk to her, it can only make things better! dont be rude, but dont be TOO nice. Try being mysterious with a mix of sexy and responsible. It gets me all the time.
PLEASE LET ME KNOW HOW THIS GOES..
if you take my advice. ; ]
GOOD LUCH ZAN!
2007-02-22 15:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by ♥DANyELLE. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea i think this is luv so jus talk to her and try to be love.
2007-02-22 15:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Sheenece A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
infatuation... you don't know that much about her, and real love comes from truly knowing someone and spending time with them.
2007-02-22 15:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋