Family & Relationships - 17 February 2007

2007-02-17 20:03:56 · 5 answers · asked by Hero 2001 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 20:03:36 · 4 answers · asked by tejas g 1 in Family

For the past 4 years, I have been secret friends with a married man. When I first met him, he didn't wear his ring, and I didn't know and he din't say. When I found out, it didn't matter, I was smitten. Now, it's not fun anymore, the sex is boring, and he's still very cute, but I don't want him around anymore. Everytime I see him, I want to say: go away, but old habits are hard to break. I just want to say it nicely, and not have him discuss it--which he will--or he'll get nasty.

2007-02-17 20:03:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Besides God , Family , Teachers !!

2007-02-17 20:02:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or spanked someone else?

2007-02-17 20:02:05 · 12 answers · asked by timmy h 2 in Family

I come home from work and I find my guy friends mother has been over, in my house again, and heating up tomato soup with milk for herself and burns the pot badly. I say he should scrub it out. she wont. one pot i had to throw out, I think she does it on purpose, one day i took all my pots into the trunk of my car, We had a huge argument over that, anyways, I say he should tell her or clean the pot if he can.

2007-02-17 19:59:38 · 9 answers · asked by spuds_suds 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last year I met a wonderful girl during a trip abroad: she makes me want to write poems every time I think of her, paint her beauty in my dreams, invent a new recipe with her name... Perhaps it's just a bad case of infatuation but I have only felt like this a couple of times in my life. We have kept in touch via chat and unless I'm a complete psychological cripple I think she likes me, in a friendly sweet sweet kind of way.

I have refrained from any romantic move because in all cold logic our lives are almost hopelessly set apart: my business ties me to the US, she's just graduated and started in her first job, her family and friends are where she lives and belongs.

Yet my heart tells me a different story - I have dated from one horizon to the other and I feel deep down that she is truly special and I wouldn't like to just keep silent and see her disappear from my life, even if it means reaching to the stars to be with her.

What should I do?

2007-02-17 19:57:00 · 7 answers · asked by Serge 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 19:56:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this question sounds silly , but I want to ask

Suppose you have only two choices

a) lonely life without wife and children

b) bitter life with nagging wife and children

2007-02-17 19:56:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 30 and single!! i feel very lonely always

2007-02-17 19:56:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She was talking to her Ex and he asked her how i lead to getting married and she said i dont know what should i do?

2007-02-17 19:55:24 · 6 answers · asked by Yosapa G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for almost 6 years, married for one and a half.
We went out we had a bit of a plan ( just to go have coffee) she wanted to call her female friend, a soon as she did the friend suggested change of plans, not to make it a big story we ended up doing pretty much what her friend wanted, i accepted gladly cause it did not matter to me, we laughed and took a long walk, eventually we had that coffee. After a few hours we took our car and headed home. As soon as we get in the car she started critisizing her friend behavior and was not happy that she changed our plans, she even said that her friend was flirting a bit with me, which i did not notice, the argument got hot, but i was very tired and i slept must of the way home.
Now she is really angry, what can i do?
for the record, we cook do the laundry clean the house together, so just cooking or giving her something or massage won't do, that is my normal behavior.

2007-02-17 19:55:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We was together for 7 years..Since I was 17 and been living together going on 4 years..This wasn't a planned pregnancy but he was REALLY excited and I was the one depressed for awhile. He is from up north and I am from the south. We was supposed to move to Wyoming because his dad could get him a job making 4 more grand a month, we was struggling with bills. His dad called about a month ago and said the job would not be there for long, so he moved up there. I was going see him for 2 weeks so we could pick out a house..He calls me almost 2 weeks ago and breaks up with me..I don't know what is going on with him. He calls me everyday and I only answer every now and then. Last week he was like WE ARE OVER,move on. So, now I am acting like I am moving on and he calls and wants to talk forever, he askes about me all the time. I don't know if he is scared because of the baby..Do you think he will come back? Sorry so long

2007-02-17 19:52:17 · 7 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you keep yourself focused on you and not on the situation you are in. how do you make yourself NOT pick the phone up and call? how do you just keep sane?
break-ups are tough :-( especially when you had such a good relationship.

2007-02-17 19:51:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering what ppl think about this.
I dont personally think marriage works.
I think at some point or another, people get fed up of being with the same person - and thats why affairs happen. Most marriages end in divorce, and i would guess that in marrriages that last, a lot of the couples arent actually still happy or in love, they just stay together for convenience and security.
How long does it take after falling in love with someone, that u just start to take them for granted, and things you used to like about them just become annoying? ( after living with them)
Does this happen to everyone?

2007-02-17 19:50:46 · 17 answers · asked by blahblahblahx2003 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How will I know if my boyfriend really loves me as what he always tell me?

2007-02-17 19:50:32 · 5 answers · asked by Lovelyjane R 1 in Singles & Dating

You are best friends and your best friends spouce you saw with another woman being intimate and not just a friendly way either. Your friend is happy and hasn't a single clue she's been cheated on. At even the risk of ruining the marriage, would you tell your friend or would you giv the hubby a chance to come forward?
Is this what friends do even though it hurts?

Sticky!!!

2007-02-17 19:48:10 · 16 answers · asked by John S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-17 19:48:04 · 4 answers · asked by CHRIS C 1 in Friends

really scaring me. It's a red little bump, almost as big as a pimple and i tried to pop it but i don't think it is a pimple. Should I worry about it? maybe it's just a birth thing? i don't know but it's really scaring for me adn i keep messing with it. any ideas as to what it could be? adn should i try to pop it or anything? clean it? etc?

2007-02-17 19:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 19:44:26 · 4 answers · asked by htrime 3 in Family

My wife doesnt mind it but gets funny occasionally as if I am too far from her being down there, im not obsessed with her feet I pay attention to her whole body, im just interested to know what other ladies think, their veiws / experiances

2007-02-17 19:44:20 · 25 answers · asked by aromatise 2 in Singles & Dating

ok ok im going to try and tell u as fast as i can before he finds me im locked in my yellow room ok im in a giant banana suit and he's in a giant gorilla suit im trying to run away we ran threw the mall i was screming im in a banana suit im in a banana suit and gorilla is after me and he fallows close behind screaming im in a gorilla suit im in gorilla suit and im after that banana i have to go soon so pleaz if u can help or eles he'll eat me alive

2007-02-17 19:41:08 · 16 answers · asked by twistedlove10204 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiancee decided 2 go out with a guy friend to see a movie. She at first came 2 me and said that "is it alright if me and (friends name) go 2 watch a movie?" I asked her who else was going and she said noone. I let her know that I would be upset if she was 2 go to a movie by herself with a guy. Her reply was that she already told him yes. But latr she said it was her idea for the movie. She didnt even think of talking it over with me . I'm in cali while serving in the military and I'm upset because she chose not 2include me in her decision at all and completely disregarded me. She didnt care how I felt and went out with him anyway. She said that he just broke up with his gf of 1month and that he was depressed so she offered to go 2 a movie with him. She says hes a good friend, im ok with her guy friends but every time she has hung out with this guy it has been alone & hes constantly trying 2 hang out with her alone. Somethings are ok but a date environment like that isnt, am i wrong?

2007-02-17 19:40:28 · 18 answers · asked by JR 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

... I have a crush. He had a gf last week. I decided to stop my crush on him. BUt Eventhough he already has a gf, he keeps looking at me! When he's with her gf, he still looks at me..What does that mean?

2007-02-17 19:40:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 19:37:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 19:37:33 · 21 answers · asked by brownsugar 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 19:34:53 · 13 answers · asked by sexygal 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 19:34:48 · 12 answers · asked by labellla90 1 in Friends

My husband is never home and I'm getting really bored should I stay with him? We hardly ever talk. We both make good money and don't enjoy our time spent together anymore. We have no Kids. He likes to do his own thing when he's off work.

2007-02-17 19:33:40 · 15 answers · asked by lost in laguna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girl friend wants innitiate sex. But every time I tease her she give me lame excuses like "my head hurt" or "I don't want to right now". I only innitiate it when I feel like she wants me to. Now, I'm feeling like the next time she ask me for sex, I'll say I don't want to. I'm so sexually irritated and confuse that I rarely get turned on anymore. Is this normal?

2007-02-17 19:33:07 · 13 answers · asked by DVS 1 in Singles & Dating