My husband is never home and I'm getting really bored should I stay with him? We hardly ever talk. We both make good money and don't enjoy our time spent together anymore. We have no Kids. He likes to do his own thing when he's off work.
2007-02-17 19:33:40 · 15 answers · asked by lost in laguna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd really sit him down and have a calm talk with him first about how you are feeling and how he is feeling - without accusing or blaming each other of anything. Then if you ultimately decide that you don't enjoy being together you can decide what to do from there.
2007-02-17 19:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ro-Ro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why stay? you answered all the questions yourself...being bored is not really a reason to leave a marriage, but if you cant find anything in the entire world to do while he does his thing, why not have a talk instead of acting so immature and running away?
If it is over, then talk about it with him, you can break up as friends but dont think things are going to be any different single you are still going to be bored, nobody can entertain you all the time, nor can anyone make you happy. why not sign up for a few classes, take a group of friends and go to mexico for a week, and think about what you can do to fill your life up with something meaningful, why not go visit the nearest retirement village? Childrens burn center? or take a painting class, pottery? something that interests you. You will be amazed how much more fun you are to be around when you are happy and have interesting things to talk about.
2007-02-18 03:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by bud88cynthia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you want to hang out with me sometime?
That is totally not right! What is the marriage for any way? Inventory time-look and see what the benefit is and why you married. Get some counseling and try to get back on the right path-time is too short to be miserable and it is totally wrong when you guys can get along and it is not happening!
Good luck. Read the poem. "Now That's Love" on the PO-Education page of the website
2007-02-18 03:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take off.
What kind of relationship is this? You both seem to have little in the way of mutual commitment, you are financially independent, you don't enjoy each other's company anymore, and you have no kids.
Sounds like a no-brainer to me.
2007-02-18 03:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you still doing there? The longer you stay, the longer he will just use you for his convenience. Seems like he's waiting for you to make the first move. GET OUT. Good Luck!
2007-02-18 03:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are in a very unhappy marriage. i think you should open up and be honest with him about your feelings that you are getting lonely and bored with the relationship. tell him that you'd like to do something to spice it up. and maybe plan a romantic evening where you guys have plenty of time to communicate. communication is key and it sounds like you guys need to talk in order to find out what the problems are in your relationship and see if those problems are resolvable.
2007-02-18 03:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave.
It sounds like you have a habit, not a relationship. Get out before your get pregnant and drag a kid into this train wreck.
2007-02-18 03:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by baggyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Talk to him about how he would would feel about a divorce. Remember he is your HUSBAND. If he's willing to work with you...try to work it out.
2007-02-18 03:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before jumping to any conclusions liek a freak out, calmly ask him to sit down and discuss how you are feeling.
2007-02-18 03:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by liquid_force_evolution 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is to short, to spend with someone who is not in tune with you.
2007-02-18 03:36:47 · answer #10 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋