Family & Relationships - 17 February 2007

Would you let a girl you love go and be free for her four years in college or try to keep a long distance (2 hour) relationship going. MY ex. says I will thank him in the end for letting me enjoy my college years but should I beleive him? It's already been two years and he still calls me every now and then to check in and see how im doing. says will get back together one day but for now we are both living seperate lives and i should enjoy my college years. does he really still love me? guys could you say this to a girl you loved?

2007-02-17 19:01:14 · 13 answers · asked by water521 1 in Singles & Dating

And what's the point? Why not just say "I'll call you"? Is adding the two weeks a cruel way of making the other person hold on?

2007-02-17 19:00:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to love big breasted women? I just think boobs are so attractive, I don't really like the fake ones...they look fine and all, but to have naturally perfect breasts must be a blessing for you women.

They say that more than a mouthful is a waste....but I'm not referring to that, I just want to know how women feel when they get all that attention from men? would you rather have them stare? or turn the other cheek?...this is not a sex issue...its merely a opinion poll that I'm conducting for my new book...the book will be called; What Women go through on a typical day' I'm just needing some feed back from women who has to deal with this, and if they really like the stares, or if its just annoying to them especially on a beach wearing a bikini, any input would be mildly appreciated, thank you.

2007-02-17 19:00:45 · 1 answers · asked by sammytouser 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with a married man...He is 13 years my senior and is the perfect personality for me, Gorgeous looks too.....It's been seven months and I get the usual, I'm leaving soon.......things have progressed with his wife moving towards seperation but I am wondering if I'm just being a fool thinking it's going to happen....you hear all these stories of women waiting and men never leaving.....He's worth the wait if he really does leave...and I do beleive him.....just have occasional little doubts.

I've not slept with him and wont do so till he has left his wife...these things are painful enough I don't want to cause her any more hurt than necessary.

This man has me hooked.......I've been single 5 years and he is the first man I have found that really sparks that feeling in me...
Am I fooling myself? Do they leave?

2007-02-17 19:00:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i divorced, he is in the process of the divorce, but back in sept i find out he has another gf. He's telling me to wait until his d is final, comes up and well ya know w/me. then days go bye w/o hearing from him. yeah he still has his gf i see her driving his truck! But I sit here and wait for a phone call. I'm not unattractive I could have someone why do I do this I need HELP!

2007-02-17 18:59:45 · 25 answers · asked by MLL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this is probably debatable or controversial, but do you find yourself adjusting your glasses more frequently when you are attracted to the person you are talking to?

2007-02-17 18:59:01 · 3 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend wants me to iniate sex. But everytime I iniates it, she always give me a excuse like her head hurts or she doesn't want to right now. The last time I iniated it, I saw her touch her self prior to me attempting kissing her on her neck.

2007-02-17 18:58:39 · 8 answers · asked by DVS 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 18:58:35 · 18 answers · asked by Petarded 1 in Singles & Dating

can i sue my legal mother to divorce my legal father, they have not lived together since ,well since a long time ago,i would prefer that she not use my father.s name, for anything, can i sue her to have this divorce and change of name,? Does anyone know if this has been done before,and when,who ?

2007-02-17 18:58:32 · 6 answers · asked by chinpingmei 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-17 18:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by ROCKSTAR 1 in Singles & Dating

then think about one relationship that is difficult briefly describle the last conversation you had with each person. how do these conversation compare to each other.

2007-02-17 18:57:51 · 1 answers · asked by tASHEKA L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend was married for 10 years and his wife was a severe alcoholic, she wouldn't get help after asking her for years and he left her. She lost her apt. and went to go live with a friend, one day she left and never came back. People still hear from her from time to time and they know she's okay, but she won't say where she's living. I think she's hiding so he can't get a divorce.They don't have any children, property, or own anything together. He has found a great girl and wants to move on with his life, how can he get his divorce?

2007-02-17 18:55:24 · 7 answers · asked by &hearts Emmy's Mommy &hearts 2 in Marriage & Divorce

HELP!!! Be for i go on the WARPATH!!!

2007-02-17 18:54:59 · 8 answers · asked by Vegetto216 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been told by my bf and some of his friends that I am very pretty and they get all weird acting when I tell them that my current bf is the only bf I have ever had and that I am still a virgin at 17. Why?!?!?!

2007-02-17 18:53:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well im 14 years old and i go wit a 24 year old wat should i do? do u guys approve. i meet him 3 days ago and i mean right off the bat we hit it off and he really respects me and listens to me and like if he wants to hold my hand he'll ask me and the only thing ive done wit him was kiss him on the cheek he knows how old i am but i still dont care because age is nothin but a number but alot of people aprove so wat should i do???????

2007-02-17 18:53:52 · 8 answers · asked by Eza redadeet 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a mother of 4 children. 3 daughters and 1 son.
2 of my daughters have moved out so its just my other daughter and son. My son is ready to leave but I dont want him to..
He never talks to me anymore,
And when I say 'hi' he acts like Im bugging him.
My question is, has any of you other mothers gone through this? and has it changed?

2007-02-17 18:53:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

nobody gives importance to love

2007-02-17 18:53:03 · 10 answers · asked by swapnil s 1 in Singles & Dating

get game

2007-02-17 18:52:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im gonna try to check out the bar scene cuz im almost 21 and im curious. are they really all that fun or just a waste of money?

2007-02-17 18:51:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yush here! in fact i don't have much friends and i wanna know if its weird that i don't have much friends? How can i make friends? Nobody wanna make friend with me

2007-02-17 18:49:11 · 2 answers · asked by yush 1 in Friends

the problem is he is not very good looking....and is not the kind of guy i usally go out with. he is honest, straight forward, you never have to guess where you stand with him. he is a Gentleman...my friend have now met him but they will say he is not attractive...should i persue this relationship or let it go?

2007-02-17 18:48:16 · 10 answers · asked by lost 2 in Singles & Dating

he says things like i have to follow his rules.that im a stay at home mom that is what they do just follow what the guy sayscause he woks and i dont. this makes me mad like he is trying to control me. is it just me? i need help i have when though therapy all my life and if i dont change we will end up spliting up. we do have a baby girl thats 10 months old she loves us both and i dont want her to be without a dad what am i to do?? if anyone has any answers for me i would love to hear it well thanks for your help love maria

2007-02-17 18:47:41 · 17 answers · asked by maria rose 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Normally, I know the right answer is to do nothing and forget about it, and I've been doing that for a long time now. A long time. The thing is, I've known them both about the same amount of time and have been friends with them since before they were going out, and as of late I'm actually beginning to wonder how good they are together. He treats her okay, but not with the attention and affection I think she deserves. She and I are able to talk and have great conversations and get along extremely well, and the only thing about my life I haven't told her is my feelings for her. I'm not asking if I should try to 'take her' from him, but should I talk to her about it? Should I talk to him about it (this is the one I'm really leaning away from)? Should I just keep trying to forget about it and hope it goes away, even though I'm pretty sure it won't?

2007-02-17 18:46:20 · 13 answers · asked by Toki Wartooth 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 18:45:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a big, African American girl; I am a size 16. For a while now, I have been believing that no matter what size I am, I will always be beautiful. Recently however, my friend told me that I should re-think that saying, because we live in a(not to offend anyone) 'white' America, and that in America, Big is not beautiful. I haven't had a boyfriend, or a girlfriend, in a long time now, and I'm starting to wonder if my size is the problem. I am a nice, shy person, so I don't think that its my attitude that's scaring people away. Can anyone give me any advice...serious advice.

2007-02-17 18:44:22 · 12 answers · asked by sassy_playmate2003 2 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know anyone who has broken up and gotten back together and it worked the second time? I'm not sure if i believe this is possible...

2007-02-17 18:44:02 · 11 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

I am asking this because I am curious if guys think it is practical (assuming that being practical is attractive to a guy) that girls spend money on lots of expensive items. Most of my friends like to shop and spend lots of money on expensive designer brands like Gucci, Prada, Coach, etc. They buy new clothes all the time and they love to spend money (not save).

Second question, do guys like it when girls spend lots of money and go shopping for themselves?

2007-02-17 18:43:33 · 8 answers · asked by Jade 2 in Singles & Dating

I think the question speaks for itself..

2007-02-17 18:42:22 · 10 answers · asked by Jareth 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 18:42:18 · 18 answers · asked by heartofgold 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 18:42:05 · 3 answers · asked by sami c 1 in Singles & Dating