Family & Relationships - 17 February 2007

My husband was the first person to help me conciously realize that I can make choices and have a mind of my own. Previously I listened to what others told me to do, and I aways wanted to be a good little girl. Sometimes I regret not knowing I had control over my own life.

2007-02-17 18:41:18 · 12 answers · asked by carmy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he always wears a baseball cap (but gets $12 haircuts), listens to RAP (he's white and a racist), has yellow teeth but has pretty eyes, he's a little on the heavy side, getting kicked out the service, bad mouths his ex wife, hangs around dive bars, talks to bar fly women (think he's done a few of them), incredibly he loves his obese mother (but he claims he hates fat girls???)...

What's your ASSESSMENT of something like that??? If you're a girl would you DATE HIM?? If you're a guy would you be proud to hang around him, call him YOUR friend??

I want to be fair, keep him or toss him back???

2007-02-17 18:41:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom left us....
my mind says that she don't love us becoz she left us...
so i'm at my father's side; my teachers are sad for me....
my mom calls...
my mom texts through my adviser's phone....

should i talk to my mom?
should i tell my mom that i'm angry 2 her?
should i close my heart 4 her?
how can i stop people from making pity of me?
how can i stop myself from being ashamed is becoz i'm a product of a broken family?

everyone i need help!!!!
tnx guys...
i know ican count on u....

2007-02-17 18:39:08 · 18 answers · asked by hot chic 2 in Family

Basically, yes I am engaged and my fiance is great, we have our ups and downs like all couples. We get along and love eachother very very much.
And then...I wasnt expecting this to come along BUT I started a new job and along came this man...we met briefly and then kept running into eachother at work. We eventually went out a few times in the evening for some drinks and connected sooooo well.
JUST TALKED nothing else.
but after a while we couldnt help ourselves and shared a kiss. it was the best thing I have ever felt.
Now its been a few weeks and he told me that it was love at first site for him and even asked if I would marry him and move in with him...
I have left him hanging with no answer because I still love my fiance so much but now I CANT STOP THINKING about him and that I want to be with him.
my fiance is good but can you be in love with 2 different people? I dont know what is going on and need some advice..please HELP!

2007-02-17 18:39:03 · 15 answers · asked by katie j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have just made my first pen friend. We both have the same nationality and also the same likings. She is going to appear an important exam on 2 March. We have e-mailed to each other (around 5 to 6 times) daily. I had started liking her(as a friend). She had become my very good friend.But suddenly she stopped e-mailing me. No news of her for around a week. I told her the truth that I got her ID from one of the forums where she had posted it. I have even sent her emails and a card to wish her all the best for her exams.

The whole thing is that I am afraid she is avoiding me and she hates me. I don't want to lose her. I want to tell her about my feelings and I can't understand how to tell it to her. It makes me uneasy when I do not get her e-mails (but she told me in one of her letters that she only opened her mailbox for my letters). Please help. has everything ended?

2007-02-17 18:37:00 · 6 answers · asked by Minnie 1 in Friends

How do i get over an ex even though i found someone new and better?
I broke up with my ex b.c be kept breaking promises that he wont' talk to his ex anymore. HE claims it was nothing but even though i told him it HURTS me he still did it thinking i won't find out. But this happened like 5 or 6 times already. moreover i always felt like i was in the back seat in the relationship not 1st priority or ever 2nd or 3rd. hiss mom doesn't like me b.c she see's my family as "less than". He is a mama's boy. i finally threw in the towel and gave him the ultimatium. I now am dating a guy who is soo thoughtful and puts me 1st. even though i KNOW this guy is soo much better. i still think of my ex when the new guy is holding me in his arms. I was with my ex for 3 yrs. this new guy .. still dating for 3 months. If i had one wish, i would LOVe to work things out with my ex. my feelings for this new guy is NOT as strong as want it to be. what should i do??

2007-02-17 18:36:22 · 8 answers · asked by dcgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Heres the situation. I was at a bar tonight and got in a fight with this other girl. She started it because I was with a guy that she felt was supposed to be with her. So anyways she decides to come over and start a fight with me. So she starts pushing me around saying "you think you are so tough b**ch dont ya?" and starts to push me. So before I knew it her friend jumps from behind and pins my arms back and the other girl starts punching me. As I was trying to get away, she pulled down my pink tube top that I was wearing, exsposing my bare breasts in front of everyone including the guy I was with. I was so embarrased, but i still had to fight back. I am a 38 D, so I have pretty big b**bs, and this made it difficult to fight back because she kept hitting my belly and b**bs! I eventually I got away from her friend holding me, but I ended up on my back with her on top of me, and I had no bra on, a skirt with no panties under it, as I was getting my bare as* kicked. hw shld i get her bck?

2007-02-17 18:34:47 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica D 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the difference between a wedding ring, engagement ring, a promise ring or just a regular gift ring?

i know each has their own meaning but i mean is there a visual difference?

please and thank you.

2007-02-17 18:33:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like a good kid for starters i have adhd i take meds i get good grades i do all my chores without being asked over and over i respect my mother i NEVER disobey or yell or get mad at her i know where shes comin from i love her to death i luv school except pe ugh i am really nice and friendly and caring i am 14 i never complain about my life!

2007-02-17 18:33:02 · 9 answers · asked by cmpk26 1 in Friends

i like a boy and he always aquised me of liking his cousin and said i didnt but now i think i have feeling for his cousin

2007-02-17 18:32:59 · 8 answers · asked by Queen T 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy on net and I dont share with him some things which for me is private matter, like I have an almost 3 year-old baby. His work gave him chances of travelling in many countries, till I met him in person not just once and he fell in love with me. Everything seems good, till I felt close to him that I have learned to love him too.
We hang out together, communicate often when apart and we're like in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship for months now.
I never knew that I'm going to love him, I thought he was just a net friend and it will stop there. I can feel his sincerity, efforts and he's a nice person. I wanted to tell him about my baby, and this bothers me for months now bcoz our relationship's now becoming so intimate. I'm afraid how things will go and how will I start telling him. I dont know if he will understand everything. I'm 23 and he's 28, I love him so much now. He will again visit me soon.
I need an advice

2007-02-17 18:32:02 · 9 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello, My name is Dale, Im just kinda looking for a little advice on my situation.I started working at my new job, and Its been maybe 4 months since my last relationship and i wanna make sure i get things right. I'm 19 and ive met a girl thats 21 known for about a month now, Apparently her last BF didnt treat her right. So, we text alot and talk alot at work, but when I ask to go somewhere or out to lunch she says no , but continues to text and look at me constantly at work. I asked why she dosent like to go anywhere and she said shes a keep to her self person. I told her that I feel like shes turnin me down and she tells me no shes not ready for another relationship, she told me she just needs time to fix her life out.I thought maybe her last relationship caused this I know being patient is a key thing in starting relationships, but how long is to much and if you push to much then u lose ur chance. I really like her and would like any advice on what I should do or anything like that.

2007-02-17 18:32:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 18:31:50 · 2 answers · asked by splintermaegan 1 in Friends

10 years !!!

2007-02-17 18:31:11 · 6 answers · asked by who_me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well you see I'm a 14 year old girl...I look 12 as some people say and I'm looking for someone who might like me...or something and lives in washington..or out of country I don't...I DON'T...want to meet any body like face to face or something so just talk to me...on yahoo...

2007-02-17 18:30:41 · 5 answers · asked by Corrissa Lowe 1 in Singles & Dating

I can't resist 'em! Am I the only one?

2007-02-17 18:30:21 · 5 answers · asked by Valarie 1 in Singles & Dating

so heres the deal, theres this girl that i work with that i was thinking of asking to go to prom with me, girls (or guys) can u provide me some advice on just how to ask her in a workplace setting ?

2007-02-17 18:29:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

knowing that maybe in the future u will find someone or people to be with? friends and such.
but as of now, even after months, maybe even years, still alone, are u ok with it? because its been so long, im starting to get used to it.

2007-02-17 18:28:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so i have liked this guy for quite a long time, && he's like me for a long time also. everyone's always wondering "why aren't you 2 going out? why aren't you boyfriend/girlfriend?" && i can just never answer them because i honestly don't know. i know that he wants to be my boyfriend, but he's not very good at asking, && it would be strange if i were to ask him. how do i make it easier for him to ask me out?

2007-02-17 18:28:25 · 6 answers · asked by elena 1 in Singles & Dating

I Love Motorcycles.It is my Passion.I learned to ride when i was 8 yrs.old and I'm still riding to the present at the age of 46.I just got married about a year ago to the love of my life.Prior to the Marriage when we were still dating, she was ok w/ me riding my motorcycles & we both agreed that i can keep my bikes (i have 2 of them & no car but she has a car of her own). Recently she became a witness to a really tragic motorcycle accident that killed the rider.From then on she was having nightmares to the point that she wakes up screaming & crying that i have to calm her down.Here's My Dilemma: she wants me to SELL ALL my motorcycles. I told her that i'm a safe rider & have been riding all of my life & assured her that i'm gonna be OK. But she's really worried & terrified that what she witnessed might happen to me someday.When i was a kid, i was involved in a car accident as a passenger you see so it gave me a phobia of cars. Now i'm torn between her & my Passion.What should I do?....

2007-02-17 18:28:24 · 7 answers · asked by joel750 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-17 18:27:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm bored as hell and there's nothing to do =]

2007-02-17 18:24:54 · 2 answers · asked by yusuke 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy tells you that you are making him HOT ("starting a fire")... are the two of you head into a realtionship? I really want to date him. This is the first time he has indicated that I have any effect on his manhood. I thought I was "just a friend". I want to be lovers. Is his telling me that I'm "starting a fire" his way to move past being ONLY freinds? Guys, do you tell females they have made you excited? Especially if you are only friends? Did things just change between us? I really like him and I hope so!

2007-02-17 18:23:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I known him for 3 years he gave me like 6 rings since we've been together

2007-02-17 18:21:53 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 18:21:17 · 14 answers · asked by ghebhang 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 16 i live in los aneles califonia i play guitar i turn 17 on july 21. i want to have a relationship not just a hook up so if there any emo or rock chicks just answer.

2007-02-17 18:19:28 · 9 answers · asked by theclash1418 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-17 18:19:20 · 24 answers · asked by ? 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My future daughter-in-law will be 7 months pregnant at the wedding. They are on a very tight budget. We are having a really hard time finding a wedding dress.

2007-02-17 18:18:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 22 years old and I have a 55 year old boyfriend is that wrong?

2007-02-17 18:18:06 · 11 answers · asked by OLIVIA B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-17 18:17:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating