Hello, My name is Dale, Im just kinda looking for a little advice on my situation.I started working at my new job, and Its been maybe 4 months since my last relationship and i wanna make sure i get things right. I'm 19 and ive met a girl thats 21 known for about a month now, Apparently her last BF didnt treat her right. So, we text alot and talk alot at work, but when I ask to go somewhere or out to lunch she says no , but continues to text and look at me constantly at work. I asked why she dosent like to go anywhere and she said shes a keep to her self person. I told her that I feel like shes turnin me down and she tells me no shes not ready for another relationship, she told me she just needs time to fix her life out.I thought maybe her last relationship caused this I know being patient is a key thing in starting relationships, but how long is to much and if you push to much then u lose ur chance. I really like her and would like any advice on what I should do or anything like that.
2007-02-17 18:32:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would tell her...you understand how difficult it is after a break up cuz you have been there yourself. (this will show her you are understanding...not like her last) You can also say it takes different amounts of time for different people....but someone told you that it was best to get out and about cuz the healing will begin sooner.........and you found that to be helpful information.......then say... So when your ready to take that first step......I would like to take that with you if you approve of me.... I think you would find I'm a pretty nice, understanding guy who knows how to respect and treat a lady the way she should be treated...and you are a lady in my eyes....(or something like that..keep it light but let her know you are much diff from the last guy. then just leave it and don't bring it up again...she will make her move when ready.... Good luck!
2007-02-19 02:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by sporty_kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her a lot, then wait. Wait as long as you possibly can before you lose your sanity. Then move on.
Or better yet, move on. From my personal experience, waiting for a girl like that will drive a man half-crazy.
2007-02-18 02:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by interlude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really care about her, then wait. let her make her mind up as to when she wants to date. she obviously likes you if she texts you all the time...maybe she just needs time to decide if she trusts you or not.
2007-02-18 02:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by asphyxia derailed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on ..she has isssues..no telling how long till she works it out
2007-02-18 02:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋