my son throws things n toys whenever he is mad ?how to make him busy?he hits his 2months old brother?

Answer 1

the best thing is that you try to understand him.what he wants and give him if possible.this will make him busy and happy too. if this does not work spend time with him.maybe he needs that. take him out for dinner,fairs,play games with him.this will make him happy.

Answer 2

My solution may sound odd, but I want you to really think about why I am making this suggesting to you. Take your son to a restaurant, and allow him to order what he wants. Be sure to sit next to him where only he can hear you. Ask him in steady, but low tone why does he get so upset that he have to through his toys around? If he don't reply wait until his food come and then address the question to him again.

When people are eating they have a tendency to open up freely because food make people happy. As he continue to eat work continue to address your concern and work with his answers and what ever he says, give alternatively ideas he can do when he get upset!

Write it down on paper as well, and then address his relationship with his little brother. You may find his anger is not exactly at you, but the treatment he sees between you and his 2 month old brother.

If this case the problem you are address is jealous of his little brother. Assure him of the love you have for him is just the same. Also you may add (this may sound silly to you, but he made understand it) when you were 2 months old and I got mad. I never hit you! because I love you just as much I love your brother.

At night before he goes to bed teach him to pray.
Good luck and God Bless..

Answer 3

first why does he get mad and second you really need to stop him from hitting his brother .because he might really hurt the younger one not know what he is doing.well when he gets mad and starts throwing his toys tell him to stop and if he don't then tell him you put him in time out and if that don't work then tell him if he does not sit down and play nice that you are going to put him to bed.then put him to bed let him cry scream whatever he is going to do . when you are putting there and as you are walking out of the room you tell him that when he can stop throwing his toys and play nice you will let him play again but not till then. and every mins ask him if he is ready to play nice. it can't hurt he won't like being put to bed.three or four times of that and i bet the next time he does all you will have to say is do you want to go to bed .wait and see how fast he plays nice. i had to do that to my son. and it worked. because i think the one thing they hate more then anything is bed.

Answer 4

If he throws something, take it away from him. Put it up in the closet for a couple of weeks. Tell him that's not how to say what he wants. By the time he runs out of toys, he be talking about things instead of lashing out. You might also use a time out so he has to stop everything until he calms down.