My girl friend wants innitiate sex. But every time I tease her she give me lame excuses like "my head hurt" or "I don't want to right now". I only innitiate it when I feel like she wants me to. Now, I'm feeling like the next time she ask me for sex, I'll say I don't want to. I'm so sexually irritated and confuse that I rarely get turned on anymore. Is this normal?
2007-02-17 19:33:07 · 13 answers · asked by DVS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you should tie her up and covr her eyes and give it to her how ever she wants it. i'm pretty sure she'll love it
2007-02-18 15:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by just right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to spice things up. Don't physically come on to her yet. Tell her she is beautiful or pretty or compliment her a couple of times on something. Make a habit out of that. Do something sweet for her that is little not overboard. bring her a rose at work or send her a card in the mail or if u live together u could clean the house!!Yah that would be sweet. Anyway do those things and just emphasize that u love to hang out with her and make that time fun and enjoyable for both of you. If she doesn't respond by saying thank you or is indifferent I would be concerned and sit down and talk to her. Ask her if there is something bugging her that she needs to talk about and if she says nothing ask about ur relationship and tell her how u feel. Oh im not being rude not on purpose but maybe renting a few naughty movies when u got time to yourself might help. They can be educational and give u some new ideas on how to WOW ur partner next time. Have fun.
2007-02-18 03:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, that's pretty crappy if she's giving off the vibe that she wants it and then shoots you down. Has something happened to make her upset at you that she would w/hold sex to punish you? Ask her about it. If you all aren't going to have the same sex drive then that isn't going to make for a happy marriage, if you even think there's a possibility it will go that far. You might want to start thinking about whether you really want to stay with this girl or not.
2007-02-18 03:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by HomeGrown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you??? And if you can admit it, you two are sexually incompatible----are you old enough for all this?? If you are, maybe you have a lousy approach---or sex is terrible for her---go find someone else--if you have the same trouble--you must be the problem. If she is a kid also. you better find something else to do until the age and maturity levels are better suited for the ultimate expression of love between two ADULTS
2007-02-18 03:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be asking for sex too much. once a week for you might be too much when she wants it once every 3 weeks. she will give you excuses when she's just not into it that night. your best bet would to be more cuddly with her. hold her alot, and do so with out touching her sexually. usually she will appriciate what your doing and will make a move on you. prolly not the first time, but trust me, she will give you a big thank you later.
2007-02-18 03:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer her a couple of Tylenols and when she questions you and claims she doesn't have a headache say "All right Get to Bed B****. Take control of any situation is what I'am trying to say!
2007-02-18 03:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it. Whether you marry this girl or another, it eventually all works out the same.
2007-02-18 03:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doubt. That could be holding you back dude. Otherwise, you should be more sexually ready than usual.
2007-02-18 03:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by liquid_force_evolution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two have communication problems. Yes, you 'may' be non compatible. I suggest you at least date other people.
2007-02-18 04:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spite is never the right way to deal with things!!
2007-02-18 03:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by Two Peas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋