if your soon to be wife doesnt know why your getting married what shout you do?

Question

She was talking to her Ex and he asked her how i lead to getting married and she said i dont know what should i do?

Answer 1

sometimes its just pre wedding jitters or a really acknowledgement she isnt ready tocommit permentaly. Either way, sit her down and talk things out. See if she is just nervous or if she is having doubts. Do it now rather than 13 years in divorce court.

Unless she has a deep friendship with her ex, he needs to be placed out of the picture. his motives are unclear and any interference is unneeded.

Answer 2

There's got to be reason you asked her to marry you so stop thinking about something that is probably nothing. She probably means tha there are a lot of things that lead to you getting married and she does not know which one.
Why on earth did you ask her to marry you. You think about that and stop worrying about her ex for goodness sake. Take care and look at the glass as half full or else you will find reason throughout your marriage for it to fail as opposed for it to succeed!

Answer 3

Until you say "I do", there is always time to wait longer. I would spend some time talking with her to make sure it's what she really wants and isn't just getting married to keep from being alone or because it's convenient. You don't have to give her an ultimatum or anything, but you can let her know you want to make sure she's clear in her mind before getting married.

Answer 4

You should assume she doesnt think its any of his business about why she loves you....and refuses to talk about the intimate details of your relationship. You'd prefer she rubs it in his face?

Answer 5

You should not get married.

Answer 6

Break it off!