Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

Sometimes I find myself missing my gf, like when she's at work and I have the day off. So to help with the loneliness, I keep a pair of her used undies in my pocket at all times.....when I'm out and about and I feel the loneliness starting up, I pull them out of my pocket, press them against my face and breath deep. It really helps, but I have been asked to leave a few places because of this. I thought about bringing along something of hers that is less noticeable, but to be honest, the part of her that provides that special scent is the part I miss the most. So, what should I do? I've already been thrown out of half of the places in town.

2007-02-05 04:38:33 · 30 answers · asked by Poster22 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 11 yrs. We have a wondreful son who is six. But I have not been in love with my husband for several yrs. We got seperated last week. Well, is affecting our son. Before my husband would not really spent a lot of time with our son, I would. But know since we are now seperated they spend more time togher. Well now our son thinks that now daddy is spending time with, daddy should come home. Since I will not, my son will not tell me that he loves me, will not give me a hugs or kiss. And that is killing me. So, I am asking should I let my husband move back home, even though I an not in love with hime anymore. To let you know, there are no other partners, with either of us.

2007-02-05 04:37:16 · 40 answers · asked by mary l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

yeah so me and my girlfriend always have work and then our days off we jsut want to spend time with each other weve been together now for 10 months

with wanting to spend our free time with each other and everything

our friends think we are both whipped and that we have no life

and my girlfriend is starting to take that into a little more consideration

ARE WE MISSING OUT ON SOMETHING GREAT???

bc we both miss our friends and being able to party

but she doesnt really liek ANY of my friends and i liek only about HALF of her friends

i jsut dont know what to do

2007-02-05 04:36:52 · 8 answers · asked by umm hahah 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a ginormous crush on my best friend and he does'nt know it. Should I tell him on Valentine's Day?

2007-02-05 04:36:42 · 3 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

My b/f say he loves it when I come up and put my arms around him or trace his chest with my fingers b/c a few of his friends like me.
Do anyother guys like this?? Is he using me, or just proud and showing me off??

2007-02-05 04:35:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I have been casually seeing this guy now for three months we have been taking things nice and easy.. slow ...and things have progress on there own very nicely.. I have a lot of feelings for him and things will evetually turn in to more down the road.. Now the only problem is since we are not exculsive and he knew the possibity that I could meet someone would happen... well it did .. I didn't think anything of it at first just that this guy is friend well he kept moving in on me saying all the right things and all.. I do like him but Im so not sure? What do I do give this new guy a shot or keep giong with the guy I have some history with ,.,.. Im so confused right now...? Mutaure anwsers only please.

2007-02-05 04:35:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 04:34:35 · 5 answers · asked by angelwings_g 1 in Singles & Dating

I steady lesbians

2007-02-05 04:33:10 · 9 answers · asked by caveman 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 04:32:43 · 16 answers · asked by littleone 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 23yrs old, just recently started dating a girl who is in my grad school classes. By valentines day we will have been dating for almost 3 weeks.

Any unique ideas (meaning not flowers or dinner) that would be appropriate for this situation?

2007-02-05 04:32:39 · 9 answers · asked by mhovanes21 2 in Singles & Dating

well we gor engaged june of 06 and the next day she had brides magazine i told her dont be a wedding monster and only worry about that day and what will happend to us after the wedding and i told her i wanted to go away to be married she said that she wants a regular weddings and i am fine now she get up set that i am not into the planning or picking out flowers the truth is i told her i dont want a regular wedding and i dont want to go looking for flowers or photos or anthing related and now she said that i dont care. but the thing that i care most about is what will happened after the wedding when she does not have to run around worring about the wedding. i feel that i shoud cancle the engagement the thing is the hall is paid for.

2007-02-05 04:32:26 · 14 answers · asked by GRUNT 3 in Weddings

i'm having my outside wedding in june, and it's supposed to be a medieval theme, so most of the people will be wearing warmer clothing. my fiance and i like sunrise, but i'm not a mrning person, and i can't see guests coming for a wedding that early in the morning, and it can get anywhere from 50 to 80 degrees during the day in june where i live, so having it around noon is not really an option. and, sunset isn't until late. so i was wondering wen would be a good time of day to have it. and if we have it aorund dusk, what are some good, effective way to keep mosquitos away? i'm allergic (i get bitten and it swells to like the size of a half dollar...not exactly what i need on my wedding!) and really don't want to be shooing away some dumb bugs all night!! thanks everyone!!

2007-02-05 04:31:58 · 17 answers · asked by Duelen 4 in Weddings

I'm 21 years old and right now I have a boyfriend (Bob) who is 33 years old (we've only been together 5 months) that I care about alot he treats me good and keeps me happy, and I have someone (Vic) who is 22 years old (who've I've known for 8 years) in & out of my life, and the reason hes in and out of my life is becuase i cant let him go, but we never been bf/gf.. He treats me good and he's a family friend... But I'm starting to have a change of heart and lean more towerds Vic... Vic has been a big part of my life someone who i can really just let go and be my wild self and hes right there with me being him self and making me laugh till my face hurts, but I just dont like how he is when hes drunk not all the time just when were at a bar or at the club... And my b/f Bob I can do the same just be myself and not worry about what he's going to think but i just cant see me self being with him for the long run, but i can be wrong... I just dont know what to do?

2007-02-05 04:31:17 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 04:31:17 · 37 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

If a married guy comes up and gives a girl a hug and a kiss on the cheek, it is automatically assumed that it is just a friendly one. But ...if a single guy gives a girl hug and a brief kiss on the cheek does it mean he is interested or just being friendly. I'm clueless!

2007-02-05 04:30:49 · 2 answers · asked by Gatekeeper 4 in Singles & Dating

why do i only seem to be happy when im with my boyfriend? how come i have a hard time having fun with my friends when im just constantly thinking about my boyfriend? im in high school and ive been with him for a year and a half and i know i need a equal balance between my friends and my boyfriend. its just im spending so much less time with my friends and i feel almost bored with them. is this weird? im just worried because if something did happen with my boyfriend and we broke up i wont really have anyone ...... :[

2007-02-05 04:30:27 · 19 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 04:30:10 · 6 answers · asked by cuilte_babe_101 1 in Singles & Dating

met her last month we meet often but she always tells me that shes been in a 5 year relationship, "im not ready for a second" so im patient and i dont presure her.....im a popular guy, and ive learnt to always have things my way so i find it difficult to understand....so i tell this girl "fine, ok! if your NOT in search of a relationship lets do the sex instead" then her answer is "im not looking for sex" then i say "ok lets be friends" but she does'nt accept.....what am i to do, do i just carry on being the voniates i am? but i realy like her - for once. or do i hold on.....she told me that she will go with the flow and see if ive been naughty ever since we have met and then she will judge me.....in other words " your mine and thats final. what do i do?

2007-02-05 04:30:08 · 6 answers · asked by voniates1st 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't think that i said 'no' to my parents enough.

i'm regretting that already but it's probably going to get worse as I get older!

aren't i a wonderful son?!

2007-02-05 04:29:51 · 21 answers · asked by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

my dad has 2,000,000,000 dollars buried in his farm, and now he is dead this morning. should i dig the cash up or call the police.

2007-02-05 04:29:23 · 1 answers · asked by Daniel I 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy from Australia said one of his girl friends is an OK-looker and I didn't ask him what that meant b/c I have a crush on him. She has a boyfriend so I'm not sure if I'm taking it the wrong way.

2007-02-05 04:29:02 · 1 answers · asked by Cricket 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you do or say if you suspected (we'll actually knew) that a workfriends daughter is becoming the local "town bike" and loves to take on half a football team ?

2007-02-05 04:28:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was wondering about relationship contracts, I was watching a show "Still Standing" and they drew up a contract to get their duaghter to do want they wanted. Then the husband drew up a contract for the marriage. do you think it will work? think its a good idea? Why or why not?

2007-02-05 04:27:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex and I are no longer, but I hate to admit I still have strong feelings for her. She's with someone else now, and not even a week ago, she tells me she misses me and loves me, wants to see me etc. We had a long-dist relationship, which of course didn't work out. I'm in the east coast for another 6 months, then I go back to west coast(where she's at). She knows this, but we still couldn't make it work, trust issues on both parts. I went to visit recently and even though she has someone else, when we saw eachother, one thing led to another. Two days ago she tells me she solely wants friendship, AND THAT'S IT! I know I should just say the hell with it, cuz this has happened before, yet when she saw me, SHE initiated contact first! Could this just be another mind game? Or could this be it?I figured,once a cheat always...and deep down I want us to get back together again one day. Am I just being a doormat, or second best?Why do ex's do that? Feel like they can come back any time?

2007-02-05 04:27:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we are working things out but im haunted by the images of her with that guy she messed up and knows it i want to work it out but the images of her enjoying someoneelse is driving me crazy how has someone in this situation got over it
can someone help please

2007-02-05 04:27:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

All of my friends told me that he likes me and is going to ask me out tomorrow... I dont like him and he is my friend so I dont know what to do. How do you turn down someone when they ask you out?

2007-02-05 04:26:55 · 11 answers · asked by Hotdivababe 3 in Singles & Dating

I learned several months ago that my longtime friend (known each other 32 yrs.) carried on an affair for 7 years. His wife, who became a very close friend of mine too, told me after she discovered it last year.

She has not told him that I know, and I have not spoken to him (they live 1,000 miles away). This month, he will turn 50. For all the years of our friendship, I have sent him a card and/or called him on his birthday. I don't know what to do this year. Ignore the day? Send a cryptic card that says, "I hope your 50th year brings everything you deserve?"

I know the situation is none of my business. But it has been a huge loss to learn that someone I considered to be a wonderful person is actually a reprobate. It's the length of the affair, and all the lying and deceiving that must have gone on, that I can't get past.

I have no reason to doubt what his wife told me: once she discovered the affair, she said he admitted it, but supposedly ended it.

Any advice? Thanks.

2007-02-05 04:26:33 · 14 answers · asked by meatpiemum 4 in Friends

My spouse is very suspect. He's starting to not answer his cell phone when I call him at work, stays over 2 hours at Masonic meetings, has an excuse for why he can't use his cellphone at work on base, every time we have a conversation he turns it into an argument and blames it on me. He even states that I cook too much. He went to a Masonic meeting in L.A. this weekend , left home around 5am(to carpool), I called him at 3pm no answer, he calls at 5pm. His reason for not calling, again, he could not take the phone in the building. What would you did in this situation to skin this cat?

2007-02-05 04:26:12 · 5 answers · asked by dwanal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Even though I am in a happy relationship my man lacks any emotion and is not very supportive. However everything else is fine. Are all men like this?

2007-02-05 04:26:00 · 18 answers · asked by flamegirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i love my boyfriend but why do i think other guys are so fine??! and why do i think of cheating on him, i mean i wouldnt want him to do that to me but ... i dont know.. i would choose him over any other guy b/c i love him but why do i want to cheat??

2007-02-05 04:25:22 · 25 answers · asked by ~Jayda~ 2 in Singles & Dating