Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

After my dad left my trust for everyone around me dropped to like zero, especially with my boyfriend. How can i learn to trust him again? We've had problems in the past with him lieing to me so that makes it even harder. How can i make myself get past all of that and trust him like i used to?

2007-02-05 05:04:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a husband in jail he loves me and my children but he wont get a job to help with the bills we have been togeter for 8 years and I am at wits end. What would you do

2007-02-05 05:04:15 · 10 answers · asked by jenapher 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i find out if my crush likes me?

2007-02-05 05:04:15 · 4 answers · asked by loves brown eyes♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 05:04:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im looking for any opinions for any servicemen who have done this before or any women that have always wanted a soldier to propose to them

2007-02-05 05:03:24 · 17 answers · asked by armytrooper247 2 in Weddings

Why is it that women/girls like to be chased as much as guys like to chase them?
Why , girls/women would like to hear your opinion especially, why do you act like you are being bothered or dont like it when you very much do?
When you might be interested in a guy who shows interest in you, why do you act so "ho-hum" about it and act like you dont care?

And dont insult me by saying " they probably dont care!" because i know for certain there have been girls that I have been interested in who acted this way and I thought that I should stop, when I found out later that they WERE interested in me!

2007-02-05 05:03:24 · 15 answers · asked by Charles R 1 in Singles & Dating

Me n my ex was on da verge of "working thins out" but last night he totally flipped on me!! I was sick all day yesterday i had da flu! He called n asked wat my ex name was (da person i dated between da break up) I asked y he didn't tell me so i didn't tell him he hung up n my face then called continuosly back 2 back cuz i wouldn't answer (was i wrong?) then wen he called da house phone i told him i was going back 2 sleep b/c i didn't feel good i wasn't gonna play games wit him he sent me a text that said!"u on da phone **** aint changed wit u it's cool i no wat time it is i don't understand things u do." then he goes on 2 say " i'm sure we didn't get 2 attached this time around i want no part of da dram wit u i wanted 2 reason wit u 2 see if **** changed u talkin 2 him now" (him as n my ex u was threatenin me) I don't understand wat i did so wrong!! next thing he texted me something bout a girl named madison (i don't no) i go 2 my page c a girl named madison hacked my friends page

2007-02-05 05:02:54 · 10 answers · asked by monique b 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok this guy and his gf broke up..well me and him started talkn on the phone every nite as friends...just friends...even after they got back together...which i even asked him if we should stop talkin...but he still called me every nite...well all of a sudden he stops answering my calls and text msgs and wont tell me why...then she sends me a msg from his phone the other day and says i need to stop trying to talk 2 her bf and move on...i was like i dont want your bf...she said good cause u cant have him...i asked her when he showed her the msgs...she said everytime ur retarted *** has sent him one...ok i was kinda upset at first but now im just mad...i just wish he woulda talked to me first instead of gettn her to...if he would have just told me we needed to stop talkn...i mean i no it was causin problems b/t them but he kept calln me...so what should i do about this...i pretty much msged them back and told them what i thought

2007-02-05 05:02:14 · 6 answers · asked by Jen05 2 in Singles & Dating

And if so how often do you get to see them if at all?

2007-02-05 05:01:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The guy i like in work ive been oout twice on work dos with him looking the bizz but he hasnt gone out of his way to speak to me or come out of his shell more at all even when hes had booze. On one occassion we went into town with a couple of the gals/guys and we were waiting for the girls to come out of the loo and i had to initate convo with him yet hes fine round loud gals

2007-02-05 05:01:00 · 8 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i split these two people up with out them nowing that it is me that has split them up well helped a little how can i do this

2007-02-05 05:00:50 · 13 answers · asked by maxine p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf and i have been together for a long time and i just dont know what imma do if they recall him...im actually engaged but im just scared

2007-02-05 05:00:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Has anyone ever met someone who you fell in love with and that love stuck with you through the years? even through all of your relationships you still loved this person? and did you eventually just let them stay in your heart without harming ur relationships? ever get over them? how?

2007-02-05 05:00:23 · 7 answers · asked by michakitty87 1 in Singles & Dating

Where do you draw the line between need and neediness?

2007-02-05 04:59:38 · 4 answers · asked by natalie_tebbutt 1 in Friends

I have been talking to this guy for a couple of months and we really like each other but he recently told me he "has a girl" only "he doesn't love her like he loves me," yet he's still with her. (Bastard...lol. sorry) B/c of this, I started talking to a guy who really seems to like me & I like him, but I still cannot keep the other person off my mind. I don't like being a girl on the side; I want to be a guy's main & ONLY girl. I think I should let the first guy go but I CANNOT stop thinking about him. Does anyone have any good advice? What should I say to him (the first guy)? Thanks! :)

2007-02-05 04:59:31 · 11 answers · asked by ~BuBbLy~ 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy knew how much i loved him but he kept usibg me for sex..why,is it my fault?he lost respect cos ive been chasing him?how do i restore that

2007-02-05 04:59:02 · 19 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in NYS and my husband and I are going to get divorced. I was told before that he couldn't drop me off our insurance until our divorced was finalized and now, he waltzes into his employer and tells them VERBALLY that his lawyer said he could drop me and POOF they do it for him. So now, I have no insurance as of Feb. 1st and never knew about it. Is this legal??

2007-02-05 04:58:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to break up with someone for someone else?? I really like the guy im with now and me and my ex just werent getting along but i feel bad for doing that to him!! Help me please

2007-02-05 04:58:22 · 6 answers · asked by Lena 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 04:57:54 · 19 answers · asked by cc s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 04:57:33 · 5 answers · asked by countrygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

One time the newspaper had a Life Section & my newspaper ha a PH'd Doctor who talked on Fears of & Involovement's ( Neil Rosenthaul!) Out of North Dakota

2007-02-05 04:57:31 · 2 answers · asked by David H 3 in Singles & Dating

I like other guys and just want to have fun. My ex - wants to be with me and calls and tells me we will be together he loves me. I just dont think I feel soo into him anymore.
He keeps asking if I am tlaking to anyone and wants to check my myspace account and stupid crap.
How do I deal, without being too mean and breaking his heart?
I tried explaining we dont get along, etc etc. Nothing is working.

2007-02-05 04:56:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was dumped by text on 29th Dec. It's been really painful these few weeks coming to terms with it as I was with this woman for 18 months. I have to admit I still have feeling for her but know that even if she ever wanted to get back together I should not.
Today coming out of my house I was greeted with her and her ex in a car (her mum lives opposite my house) she has a child with her ex who is a xanker as he often beat on her. This was the first time I'd seen her since Christmas when we were still together.
I did not know she was outside so was very shocked and just walked off ignoring them. I did not want to get into an argument with the xrick. She later text me saying 'Is this how it's going to be you ignoring me whenever you see me' My reply was ' Again only thinking of your feelings and not mine'
Anyway, I've arranged to meet her for some closure on Sunday but don't know what to say to her. I want her to know that what she did (dumping me by text) was low.

2007-02-05 04:56:43 · 21 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this one guy that I really like, however I'm not sure if he likes me back. He constantly tells me he likes talking to me, thatI 'm a cool and pretty girl. He flirts too much but I'm not sure if he likes me, or if he is just a friendly person. What do you think? I don't know what to do!

2007-02-05 04:56:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 04:56:02 · 7 answers · asked by cc s 1 in Singles & Dating

Spend a moment away from the kids and share what you would be doing if they weren't at home fighting over the tv or phone right now.

2007-02-05 04:55:18 · 6 answers · asked by Barbiq 6 in Family

I have been with my bf for a year and a half now. And in the past few months we have some rocky times, but before then we never fought. So I think, it’s been a shock to his system that we are suddenly fighting. His granddad also passed away within the past few months and we moved in together.

He is nine years younger than me, which doesn’t bother either of us. I have never pressured him into committing to me, or even asked him about if we have a future together. He use to tell me he saw me in his future, getting married and so on. But I also know he is young. And I know how I was at his age. I don’t expect him to be ready for things I am, and I am willing to wait until he is ready, as long as it’s something he thinks he WANTS at least. Does that make sense?

But lately it’s become an issue with him; he says he isn’t sure we have a future together. And that’s due to the fighting. It’s almost like he thinks a relationship should have no fighting, but that’s just so unrealistic.

2007-02-05 04:55:01 · 6 answers · asked by nkbapbt 3 in Singles & Dating

I firmly believe that if a man were to ever hit me, that I would get out of the relationship fast...but what if the man hit me because I lost control and hit him first?

P.S. This is a hypothetical question!

2007-02-05 04:54:24 · 42 answers · asked by estephania2182 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-05 04:53:09 · 17 answers · asked by r3dboy 1 in Singles & Dating

We have about $50,000 worth of debt and to save money we are living with my parents. The debt is due to his school and car accidents that he has caused, none of it is mine. I have been the main "bread winner" for a year and a half because of him going to school. I don't mind, but it's like he doesn't even appreciate it. There have been 2 times that he has spent a lot of money without even telling me after. 1) He spent $700 on a toy airplane and 2) He spent $290 on a cell phone, when he could have gotten one for free. I have told him that we need to talk to each other about purchases over $50 at this point in our lives. He agreed, but now it is more like I am rasing a son instead of in a relationship with my husband. He bought the $290 phone when I needed my breaks fixed. Every time I bring up our financial situation to him he blows up and ask if I am just trying to make him feel bad about the debt. It's just reality. I am going crazy! I don't know what to do. I'm sorry this was so long

2007-02-05 04:52:54 · 22 answers · asked by onefootnaked 4 in Marriage & Divorce