Why do women/girls like to be chased?

Question

Why is it that women/girls like to be chased as much as guys like to chase them?
Why , girls/women would like to hear your opinion especially, why do you act like you are being bothered or dont like it when you very much do?
When you might be interested in a guy who shows interest in you, why do you act so "ho-hum" about it and act like you dont care?

And dont insult me by saying " they probably dont care!" because i know for certain there have been girls that I have been interested in who acted this way and I thought that I should stop, when I found out later that they WERE interested in me!

Answer 1

Cause girls feel special then

Answer 2

I think its a lot about being cautious. I think a woman likes to be certain that they wouldnt be messed around - a lot of women have insecurities about being another notch on a bedpost. True some women are intrgiued by the idea of a man or several men going after them, but you'll soon find that out if you're doing the chasing.

Personally if you're interested in a girl, dont be coy about hiding the fact that you like her. Keep asking her out for a drink, or a meal, or to the movies something stereotypical I know, but rejection after rejection might indicate that shes not the one for you. If she doesnt want to do something so trivial as spend a little time with you then move on.

Answer 3

Its the nature of girls. It is called little pride...lol. Girls pretend they dont want what they say when men really show it so thats y they chase them.
Normally girls are called babies...isnt it? Ya coz only a baby will not know what it wants and for some reasons easy to convience.
girls are very much bothered...but coz they have an innet(born with) that tells them that dont show a man that you love them at first. Coz if they know they will misuse your love...thats a girl

Answer 4

Girls wanna know that you truley want them an care for them
in order for them to get a real answer they have to see your actions for what they are. A girl cannot simply just come up to you and ask do you really like me? because it would be too easy for you to respond yes, and use her in the end when you have gotten what you wanted. Im not suggesting that you are a player, but im saying we dont know that for sure. Plus its a type of flirting. Playing hard to get. Its a way to spice up the relationship. i mean if i liked you an u liked me an i just met up with u in seconds you wouldnt have as much excitement. This kinda game creates suspense.

Answer 5

We like to feel like you would do ANYTHING to get with us! The more you chase, the better we feel about ourselves. However, you have to be careful. If you chase too hard, we think you are desperate and then we don't want anything to do with you.

My advice.....Be yourself!! Girls like to be the chasers too. The challenge is fun!! Don't try to figure us out - you'll never do it! We don't even know what we are thinking half the time!

Answer 6

It's all about the chase. If you chase after them, then it makes them think they are all that. Little girl mind games.

Answer 7

We like knowing that someone wants to date us. We also want to see how far they'll go to win us over. Besides, if we were up-front about our feelings right off the bat, wouldn't you lose interest faster?

Answer 8

because it has been modified from the beginning that is it men/boys that will be chasing women/girls as it were

Answer 9

They act that way cause they know that you are now under her spell and that she can do manipulate you in everyway she can and knowing that you will do anything she ask you to do.

Answer 10

well the reason they like to be chased is because they want validation that they are hot