Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

My boyfriend wont invite me and asks like he does not want me to come with him and his family to celbrate his birthday but he says that if I want to do something for him to do it on the weekend. I have spent time with his whole family before sisters, mother and father numerous times and on the holidays too. Why would he not invite me to share in HIS birthday?....(dating almost a year, mid 20's)

2007-02-05 00:20:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf is 3 yrs younger, And we been together for 1 year now, he is working in another country and not met him for few months, we always keep in touch on phone. Now he says he need 8 more years to marry me, and asking me to wait, i know he is young and always will be away from me, should i wait for him, after 8 years i will be in my30's. And I am worried he may change his mind. help me

2007-02-05 00:19:39 · 4 answers · asked by wendy w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 00:19:24 · 20 answers · asked by kennyboy 6 in Singles & Dating

i have known this guy since 6months... we both love each other alot and we both are committed to each other but the only thing that scares the hell out of him is his ultra orthodox n strict parents.it will b really hard to please them .... we also know that with this commitment we should give each other atleast 3years more cuz then we both will b settled career wise n will grow mature too. but what after that? he does not want to marry anyother girl but how should i boost his strength to b positive.what should i do? we cant leave each other cuz of family problems but he is always scared to go against his parents. i become unstable cuz of his problems.i am ready to face probs coming in our relations but still what should i do? how can i help him to gain strength n wateva thats required.?

2007-02-05 00:18:41 · 5 answers · asked by natalie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 00:18:30 · 5 answers · asked by V JAYASREE K 2 in Singles & Dating

iv been seeing this guy for a couple of months now i can tell he likes me but when i asked him out he said no, he's always saying he miss'es me and really likes me but just wants to be friends with exras is he just using me?

2007-02-05 00:17:04 · 18 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Singles & Dating

ok this my plan for v day got the flowers box of choco's teddy anything else??
but this is what im going to do under each chocolate im going to write a note explaining y i love her, on the teddy there is going to be a poem that i wrote nd another note saying sumfing lyk ''this teddy is for u to hold wen im not there at night'' and im going to get her fav song nd dvd nd spend the rest of the night with her in my arms.
do u lot think this will be a v day she wont eva forget??
is it a gd idea??
did i miss anything??

2007-02-05 00:16:45 · 5 answers · asked by kezz247 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 00:16:33 · 2 answers · asked by V JAYASREE K 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 26years old half-brother who is eight years older than me and I only met him a few times in my life. Ever since I went on a holiday to spend time with him two weeks ago, i was starting to like him so much and it develops into a crush.We are so close and he sometimes tease me or talk to me about like "intimate" things so I was confused about whenether he likes me or just treat me like his little sister. So I dont want to make things worse for him and my family if I asked if he too likes me. iT WOULD be embarresing.,please do help me about what should i do about it without damaging our good relationship.

2007-02-05 00:16:24 · 39 answers · asked by melrap88 1 in Family

I've met my best guy friends' friends a couple of times, but this weekend for the first time when he is not around. I took him home since his friend left without him and spend the night there. Nothing happenned and we slept in seperate rooms. Although he did ask me to lie next to him (via sms after my sister and I got into bed) I quite like him, but don't want to complicate things, especially since I first liked my best friend and we almosted dated (he has a girl now) Is it ok to possibly date him if the occasion comes? And how do I not let this become an issue if it doesn't work out. If it happens I want it to happen slowly, but fear especially after the txt of that evening that maybe he'd want things to happen quicker???
Sorry if this sounds incredibly unorganised but so is my head!

2007-02-05 00:15:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 00:15:52 · 6 answers · asked by The_Lion_LAITH 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 00:15:11 · 3 answers · asked by V JAYASREE K 2 in Singles & Dating

any ideas

2007-02-05 00:14:15 · 5 answers · asked by babeschick 2 in Singles & Dating

They are driving me crazy, please I need some advice or I could end up in rehab.

2007-02-05 00:13:53 · 6 answers · asked by natamaan 1 in Friends

I'm funny, cool, I talk to them, and i'm nice.

2007-02-05 00:12:44 · 6 answers · asked by mdog_2010 1 in Singles & Dating

even when surround by a sea of people i feel all alone then i think bout my guy....but still feel alone as he is not around.

2007-02-05 00:12:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Sometimes, we just can't stop thinking about someone who you feel attracted to. Unluckily, that person is unavailable. Rationally, we should move on and let that feeling go.........but, emotionally, we don't want to................we just keep thinking of that person and wishing to have a short term affairs with the individual we obsess. is there anybody got that feeling too? What would u do if something like this happen to u?

2007-02-05 00:12:13 · 23 answers · asked by ristinw 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i ve been with my boyfriend for early a year now.and i love him loads, but ive been hurt in the past and i get vry insecure at times and i start thinking that he will leave me or cheat on me and sometimes i think that he doesnt love me at all, but deep down i know he does( i no it sounds stupid) and i even feel like i'm 2nd best to him(because he sees his kid on sunday and hes more boverd bout upseting her that he wont be able to spend whole day with her than coming round for dinner that my family has invited him to)i always say that i feel like 2nd best but i cant tell him y incase i lose him ???what shud i do?anyone in similar situation?

2007-02-05 00:11:08 · 9 answers · asked by Mal S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He told me I was too werd.

2007-02-05 00:10:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have recently started seeing someone (about 2 months now) and we have said that we are gonig to celebrate vale day this year but i do not have a clue what to get him... He is 23, likes going out, into art, also like raving to drum and bass, please help me, i dont want to get him something lame... and yes I am already going to put out... we have only been together for 2 months....

2007-02-05 00:10:06 · 14 answers · asked by EveyM 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i had a sex buddy a couple of months back, we had sex, said goodbye and that was it. recently tho he's been in touch with me saying how he wants us to meet up again he texts me crude texts. i wudn't mind meeting him again..... if i was single! i'm happy with my boyfriend, id never cheat on him ever! what shud i say to the other bloke shud i just tell him i got a boyfriend? will he leave me alone then?i haven't been replying to his texts at all. plz help.

2007-02-05 00:08:29 · 18 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Singles & Dating

I was like doing stuff with this person, then our comunication kind of cut off. I was falling for him but I only saw in him no interest eventhough everytime that I asked him he said I was wrong. Since I was getting hurt I decided to stop calling him but I wanted to sleep with him so bladly because I had a crush on him since a long time and to me was even surprising to be going out with him cause I saw him as an impossible. He called me and I said you don't want do to stuff with me anymore and he said yes I do and don't say I don't think about you. We had sex and I said in my mind now I don't have any excuses to be with him because I already had sex with him, theres nothing I would regret not doing. But after we did he hasn't called, and evethough I was going to cut it, I wasn't expecting that reaction from him. I see him everyday, he lives next door... He is 7 years younger than me, I have a lot more experience than him, and the sex was good! Why he is acting like nothing happend?

2007-02-05 00:06:34 · 9 answers · asked by Majo's Project 2 in Singles & Dating

It is -8 degrees where i live, so if i were to have $ex outside right now, would our genitalia freeze together?

2007-02-05 00:05:30 · 11 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 00:05:24 · 18 answers · asked by Monkey 4 in Family

2007-02-05 00:05:16 · 18 answers · asked by Veronica 1 in Weddings

2007-02-05 00:03:40 · 30 answers · asked by slackmamf 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't get to a computer that often, but I'd like people to e-mail back and forth with.

2007-02-05 00:02:47 · 11 answers · asked by wolfgirl 3 in Friends

He was a window cleaner. Has blond hair, thin and very funny. Used to live in a double story house in the centre of reading town.
He's probably in his late 40's or so. Help me find him please......

2007-02-05 00:02:29 · 2 answers · asked by Bellaa Kler 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 00:01:35 · 8 answers · asked by amir 1 in Friends

my dad gave the usual excuse..that the relationshp will affect my studies in college,,he said i can only start dating only after i start working!!he said i'm too young to date now!!any advise on what i can do to change his mind?

2007-02-05 00:00:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating