Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

I have no problem attracting boyfriends and friends. But I just know I dont show the right sort of interest in their lives - like a good friend would - I can go and spending evening with my boyfriend and not ask what he has been doing that week, etc, I swear I just forget to ask. Is that really bad? How can I be more socially aware/interested?

I had a childhood where we didnt intereact with anyone at all - my mum was sick, poor, and as a result reclusive.

How do I train myself to be more socially aware? I do feel I miss out a lot.

2007-02-05 02:24:01 · 13 answers · asked by Saucy B 6 in Friends

I'm 14 years old, and I think I'm bisexual.

I'm scared to tell my parents because they wouldn't understand... they've always been against same-sex relationships. And knowing them they'd probably think I have mental issues and send me to a psychologist. >_>;

So... should I wait until I'm sure that I like girls before telling them?
And HOW should I tell them? D= I'm torn... help meh.

Thankyew. <3

2007-02-05 02:23:40 · 15 answers · asked by Kitteh 1 in Singles & Dating

He asked my best friend if she wanted to go out with him and Then lied to my face saying tha he didn't. should I get reveng?

2007-02-05 02:21:50 · 6 answers · asked by catperry13 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 02:20:35 · 26 answers · asked by cat in the hat 1 in Singles & Dating

Been seeing someone for a year and a half that I love very much. Says he loves me too. His daughter started having problems in school and now he says he may have to go back to his ex wife to make his daughter "better". Says that is the only reason and I do believe him. Now a good friend that I care deeply for has come back into my life and wants to rekindle something that had begun around the time that I met the other person. I hurt this person very much when I chose to pursue my life with the other one, who now has me feeling insecure. Love them both, the first one beyond words and the other not so intensely but as a great and true friend with some romantic feelings too. Do I stay with my heart or move on? Really want to hear your honest and serious thoughts.

2007-02-05 02:20:00 · 7 answers · asked by kayaress 3 in Singles & Dating

I graduated from college this past May. All of my college tuition was paid with loans, which I am now paying back. I am about $20,000 in debt. It took me 5 years and I just got a Bachelor's degree.

My sister goes to UCLA and was going to go to medical school when she got her Bachelor's but decided not to. She has no debt as far as loans go. She is in her last year there.

I was just downstairs and saw my mom's credit card bill and I noticed an almost $3,000 charge and I found out it was for my sister's fall tuition.

Does anyone see this as unfair? How I am $20,000 in debt while my mom is paying my sister's college tuition? Doesn't this seem like my mom is favoring her over me?

And before I get any smart remarks about living at home, I am living at home for 1 year while my husband is deployed.

2007-02-05 02:19:36 · 33 answers · asked by His Angel 4 in Family

she couldn't stand the pressure in U.S. She left my dad and me went back to china by herself but then she attempted to commit suicide 4 times. I don't know how to forgive her and forget everything that's happened because of her actions. I just can't forget how much pain she brought to our family to me. Now she wants to be back with me and my dad i'm scared that i can't accept her anymore. I just can't forgive what she's done. I felt extremely betrayed because she was my hero and the person i look up to since i was a toddler. She let me down completely and it hurt so much. I don't know what to do. She hurt me so much to a point I just don't want to see her or talk to her. Is it so wrong to dislike her because of all this?

2007-02-05 02:19:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If your girlfriend does not want to have sex. It has been 3 months now. She gives you different reasons each time. Is cheating justified?

2007-02-05 02:19:11 · 15 answers · asked by Their Guardian Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 02:18:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of two years promised me that he wouldn't look at porn, and then he did anyway. I wouldn't have a problem with him masterbating to pornographic pictures of me-- I'd even take pictures/ have pictures taken of myself for him. I just don't like him looking at pictures of other women. I want to be enough for him. Is this crazy of me?

2007-02-05 02:17:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Share with the world what you have ?????
guide me further....

2007-02-05 02:17:36 · 1 answers · asked by Elderman24 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My g/f is a really good gymnast so all te guys naturally talk about sleeping with her. well now she made varsity lax and b/c it is a boys team her and her friend have to change in the guys locker room(there is no girls locker room available for lax b/c there is no girls team) I know all the guys are going to try and feel her up, but should I tell her??

2007-02-05 02:16:34 · 14 answers · asked by Aric 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 02:15:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 02:14:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-05 02:13:16 · 13 answers · asked by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 02:12:23 · 10 answers · asked by just fun 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousins Mom past away yesterday / during the night.

I am always so tongue tied as to what to say.
Mom says, "CALL!"
I say, "TO SAY WHAT?"
Mom, "Tell her you offer her your condolences."
Me, "Good Lord, I'm not a Hallmark CARD - that sounds cheesy."

We were best friends and best cousins growing up till I hit 12 and moved to Fredericton. But during my adolences I lived at her house most of the time as we lived in a 1 bedroom house. Her Mom, was my 2nd Mom.

The years and us growing up put a distance between us. I was the maid of honour in her wedding. She now has 5 kids and is a stay at home mom. We talk and giggle whenever we see each other but we don't keep in touch on a regular basis.

I'm stumped - do I call?
If I call - what do I say? Sorry, I haven't been a great FRIEND while you were going through your Mom illness - DOH!

2007-02-05 02:12:19 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole T 2 in Friends

I've had a really big weekend, and had no free time, and last week of school was the most stressful ever. I was and am depressed for the whole week. I want some time off. Whenever I try to fake sick, my parents arent worry worts, so I can't stay home.. and I don't like the fake throwup metod. Nothing to do with throwup, because the last time I threw up was 6 years ago, and my parents will surely take me to the doctors. Any methods that'd ACTUALLY work?

2007-02-05 02:12:02 · 12 answers · asked by Candy Parker 2 in Family

What is life in your view?

2007-02-05 02:10:43 · 24 answers · asked by Waxxi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 02:10:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you feel about it?

2007-02-05 02:10:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine and I were talking yesterday about relationships. She was saying how it is better to stay with a man even if he isn't any good rather then to be alone. I don't understand this way of thinking. What is wrong with being single and alone? There is a huge difference in being alone and being lonley. She told me that her mother who is 65 years old, was in a relationship with a man who cheated on her, and took all of her money. She broke up with this man, but regrets that she did because "at least he was better then nothing".
She told me that because I am thin and young and still have my whole life ahead of me I wouldn't be able to understand this.
Can someone please explain to me why someone would rather be with a looser no good man then to be by themselves??

2007-02-05 02:08:05 · 8 answers · asked by joyce 5 in Singles & Dating

kiss an engaged woman on the head?

2007-02-05 02:07:53 · 12 answers · asked by All I have to do is dream... 4 in Friends

hey my gf finished with me nearly 4 weeks ago cos of an argument at work. she was with me for 7 weeks and got with me after spliiting with her ex who she was with 4 years. Whenever i ask my gf would she take me back she says she doesnt know but she likes me, fancies, and has goot feelings for me but can only give friendship. i dont know what to do help ? can i get her back ?? i gave my gf alot of attention buying her expensive gifts, flowers, perfumes, going to pictures and txting and rinigng her quite a bit. Ive decided not to txt her for while and give her some space, do you think she would miss me or think about me ? n is der ne chance of me getting her back ?? Plus i havent txt her today so when should i next txt her if she doesnt txt me ? i treated her like a princess do you think she would miss me ??? do you think she needs a bit more space and time to get over her ex, and maybe i was too full on ? she says she can only give me friendship for now, do u fink she wud miss me

2007-02-05 02:07:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in a realtionship for 5 years with a women that i love very much. we had our problems just like any other realtionship. but when she found out that i had to go to jail for 28 days her whole additude changed about everything. The things she said she wasn't going to do anymore she is out doing. she saying so of the most mean and hate full things a person could say to another person. And now won't even talk to me. We have a 1 year old son together and she won't even talk to me about him. She says she will deal with me after i get out. Untill that time tuff ****. Why is she being this was. Can anybody tell me?

2007-02-05 02:07:43 · 8 answers · asked by tootallclint 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am completely in love with my boyfriend and I want to marry him. I have a 3 year old boy from a previous marriage. The problem is that since the divorce we have lived with my mother, and he was her first and only grandchild. They are attached, and If I marry my boyfriend we will move about 3 hours away. We would still be able to see her. Every weekend if we wanted. I'm scared that my mother will make me feel guilty about taking the baby away from her, and I'm afraid she will tell me I'm doing the wrong thing and try to talk me out of it, but I love him, and I know that he will be good for us. He has a great job, he's a great person, and he wants us in his life forever. I have thought about everything, but my main concern is my baby's happiness. I guess I don't really have a question, I just need advice. I want to make everyone happy, but in the end someone is always gonna end up hurt. I can't keep on living life doing everything the way my mother wants it done. Right?

2007-02-05 02:07:36 · 24 answers · asked by precious 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If you catch your husband in a closed room with another woman does it means he cheated?

2007-02-05 02:07:19 · 17 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 02:07:11 · 6 answers · asked by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend uses a vibrator! She says it's just a different sensation and there's no need for me to feel inadequate, but i wonder why she needs this when she already has me? I have even used it on her during love making! I'm assured i'm well endowed and i push all the right buttons for her so i can't understand the need to use this! I don't get a straight answer from her, am i being stupid? I just want to understand what it does for her that i don't! I realise i'm setting myself up for a great deal of ridicule here but i could do with some reasurrance from a third party cause my girlfriend would tell me anything just to get me to shut up.

2007-02-05 02:07:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-05 02:06:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating