If you catch your husband in a closed room with another woman does it means he cheated?
2007-02-05 02:07:19 · 17 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One single event should not be used to judge a relationship. I would give him the opportunity to tell his side of the story. If nothing at all was happening, you look like the bad one for thinking that he would cheat. On the other hand if he was cheating, perhaps given a chance to own up, he might see the errors of his ways and do whatever he can to make it up to you.
All relationships are tested in some way. If you work with him in an honest and fair way, you can work past any problems that may exist.
2007-02-05 02:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by larspruitt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well kind of ,what did they say, & how did they say it, Were they close to each other or apart .What reason did he have for closing the door with her in there . Remember he is the 1 that can say no.If its cheating move on ,Once a cheater alway a cheater. You will never trust him again. Better to end it now than to wonder where he is. whats he doing ,will make you old before your time. Hope this helps
2007-02-05 10:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't. Did you find him in a compromising position or just in a closed room? And who did you find him with?
And think about it this way, what if your husband found you in a closed room with another man, would he think you cheated?
2007-02-05 10:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by mark my words 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chaskfraz, why are you so bitter about marriage? It isn't marriage that's the problem, but a lack of character and conscience in people today! My parents got married on their nineteenth birthdays, and are still married almost fifty years later. But my mom never caught my dad in a closed room with another woman--he would never have caused her any concern or reason to wonder. People who aren't conscientious about members of the opposite sex and how to be a thoughtful married person SHOULDN'T get married. That's the bottom line.
2007-02-05 10:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I found my husband alone with a woman in a closed room, I would not concern myself with whether he was cheating or not. I would have simply left his butt. I would never put up with anyone who would disrespect me like that. I have no idea if that means he cheated, but in my eyes, it means he wanted to. That's all I need to know. Thank you.
2007-02-05 10:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
reverse the situation , if your husband catch you in a closed room with another man , means that you cheated?
2007-02-05 10:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by layjc01 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not unless you catch them in a compromising position (very very close together; clothes off; kissing etc).
2007-02-05 10:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if they are both dressed and it is not a bedroom or bathroom then maybe or maybe not. If he looks guilty and she does and they clamour to make excuses then you know they were doing something they were not supposed to be doing.
2007-02-05 10:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!! if he did anything with the other woman e.g. kissing,oral , or anyhting sexual then yes but for all you know he was simply chatting with her about business. Get ur facts then you decide.
2007-02-05 10:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by Nefer 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It depends on how much time they had behind the door. I'm sure he'd do it if he had the opportunity and time. Guys like free booty. Why do people keep getting married? It doesn't work.
2007-02-05 10:10:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋