My husband told me last night that he's unhappy with everything in his live. He hates that I made him move here, that our children cry alot(they're 3 & 1), and that I treat him like a 5 year old. We moved here 2 years ago, I thought it was a joint decision, but now he tells me otherwise. The kids are just kids. I didn't think I treat him badly, but I feel terrible to hear this. I wouldn't have married him if I knew he lacked dreams and goals in life. He's happy with his low paying job and collecting material things that he quickly loses interest in. I want a house, to be able to pay for our kids college, retirement, etc. He sometimes says he does, but then quickly goes back to his usual ways. I don't want to get divorced, but I feel so behind. He always talks about all the sacrifices he has made, but doesn't realize that living substandard is a sacrifice for me and the kids. I think I may treat him like a child because I feel he's being so careless & selfish. What should I do?
2007-02-05
02:44:16
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Wendy B
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Marriage & Divorce