I know guys love anthing to do with sex but would it be
weird for wife to buy hubby a few lap dances
or a turn on?
2007-02-05 02:51:25 · 25 answers · asked by junebug501 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I used to be a vip server at a strip club and let me tell you women would bring their hubbys and bfs in all the time. some women are so insecure they wouldnt think of it. your hubby might like the fact that you dont mind and that you are even watching. there are even rooms you can go to for more private dances. just make sure you look at all the dancers before you make your choice. if you get a girl you dont like then either ask the waitress or a bouncer to have a different girl come to the table. nobody will be offended and that way you both can get what you want. then after the club you can go home and dance for him like the girls did and take it from there. Good Luck and have fun
2007-02-05 05:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by felixnstacey@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would soooo do that! Before me and my husband got married we had our bachelor/bachelorette party at a strip club with some friends and had such a good time. The whole watching each other get teased sexually and if your into women too showing him your frisky bisexual side will turn him on too. Later that night when you get home you'll also have some mind blowing sex. Believe me, he'll think your the coolest hottest wife ever for being so open and cool about things. Besides his friends will envy him. I dont think it's weird at all.
2007-02-05 04:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by deftoneschik42o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on him, but a _lot_ on you. I'd guess he'll follow your lead. If you seem really turned on, its going to be really difficult for him not to be. If you sit there looking tense, its just going to be awkward.
If your husband has 'threesome/lesbian' fantasies, buy a lap dance for yourself as well. Not my favourite thing, but for guys who are into it, it would blow their minds.
Actually, I seem to recall at a friends bachelor party at one point some guy got a lapdance from two strippers at once. Perhaps you could watch the technique, then get a dancer to give your husband with you at the same time. I'd guess that would go over okay with him.
2007-02-05 07:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it wouldn't be weird at all. One thing that would also make his birthday special, was if you could relax enough, and ask him if he would like to see you get a lap dance !!! Then, take him home, perform your own dance for him....you would know exactly what to do !!!
2007-02-05 09:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by pressman22001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just go all the way and hire an "escort?" Many lap dances end up with fondling and some even with a hand job. If you're OK with this, and apparently you are, why venture out to strip club when you have an escort come right to your house. You could even get into the action with her and give him a two girl experience.
2007-02-05 02:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by kransdorff 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Actually a turn on. My wife did that for me my last bday and we had a small party there and it was a huge turn on. Lets just say she got well satisfied that nite lol
2007-02-05 02:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on your relationship and personalities. If you think you can handle seeing your man with naked women all over him then go for it. You could always give him a private lap dance and I know he'd be happy about that.
2007-02-05 03:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I saw a woman giving my husband a lap dance, it would not turn me on. In fact, it would ruin our night and possibly our marriage.
If you don't mind it, it's up to you. I wouldn't do it.
2007-02-05 02:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO even if she says its ok its not.I thought i would be ok with it so we went and i came back from the bathroom and saw hubby talking to a stripper not sure what else i saw but i ran up behind him and hit him in the head before i even thought about what i was doing.got thrown out of the club by my hair....needless to say we will never go back...i thought i wasn't jealous but i guess i am....
2007-02-05 03:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by samwise25 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, not at all. Props to you for being so open minded about it. Definitely a turn on. You sound like a great gal!
2007-02-05 02:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋