Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

I been with this guy for 4 years off and on. He says he loves me then he hates me, He calls me names, and puts me down. And now he regrets having a baby with me. I work and I need him to baby sit our baby, but he threatens me on not watching him. I have no babysitter. HELP. I want a guy with respect, do you know how hard that is to find.

2007-02-05 03:33:18 · 7 answers · asked by M L 1 in Singles & Dating

been dating this guy for 2mnths now. sofar, he's been honest, generous with his time and money and has been extremely reliable.. we spend a lot of time together and its great except for a couple of things: he has a quick temper and is always complaining about how mean the world has been to him despite the fact that he's fortunate enough to own properties that he can make a living off of. i always listen to his complaining and when i reach out to touch him, he yells and tells me not to touch him when he's mad.. so now i let him complain till he gets tired. 2)he has a wondering eye, where he stares at every female in a skirt.. i'm very good looking, so it makes me wonder how he could look at other females when he's with me..he talks about how cute this and that woman is and when i see someone attractive on tv or something he criticizes me and blows everything out of proportion.. well at least i don't stare at every man walking past! when i confronted him, he said his reply was.. you haven't even given me any sex and you're complaining about me staring at other women? then last night hetold me that i shouldn't get too attached to him and he's not going to get attached to me cuz he's not looking toget hurt. this confused me cuz he calls me almost everyday keeping a tab on me, asks me where i want him to take me, asks me to work with him, asks me to take vacations with him, talks about longterm plans. so what does he mean he doesn't want us to get attached.. his words contradict his actions..i'm thinking of distancing myself. whats up with him?

2007-02-05 03:33:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 03:33:05 · 15 answers · asked by J J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have moved across the country to be with him, and we really have no reason to be arguing. I get mad because of stuff that he does, and he lets himself get angry because I'm angry and tell me that I need to change. This is something that I'd like so much to work, does anyone have any advice on how we can make this into the happy houselhold that we expected it would be? Any helpful advice is welcome, thanks.

2007-02-05 03:32:26 · 18 answers · asked by HappilyEverAfter 4 in Singles & Dating

Fantasising?
hi, ok, i am 18 and about 2 years ago used to spend every weekend at the stables with my horse and my friends. I havent been going very much in the last couple of years but the last moth or so i have started riding again. I had always been friends with both sons of the owner of the stables and used to go out with the older of the 2 but they have both changed in 2 years and i cant seem to keep the younger one out of my head, i find i am always thinking about him, he has got one of those bodies that when he hugs you, you just feel really safe in his arms, and he is really sweet, i need help, i dont know what to do, i mean i have known him for years and i dont know if i really like him, can you fantasise about someone but not actually like them as more than just a friend? please help, xxx

2007-02-05 03:30:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im 15 n i hve date in a nice cafe, how to impress her ?
plz dont speak sh*t if u cant answer in a mannered way !!!

2007-02-05 03:30:16 · 6 answers · asked by It's me 1 in Weddings

there is this guy i really like but i dont know if he likes me. i sent him a message on myspace asking him if he did and he never replyd but he read it. how do i know if he likes me?

2007-02-05 03:29:48 · 6 answers · asked by love100 2 in Singles & Dating

This girl broke up with me a couple of weeks ago, said she wants us to date others, we remain friends, what do I get her for V-day? How about just an e-card? Would that be too much? I don't want to give her the idea that I am waiting for her...

2007-02-05 03:29:23 · 17 answers · asked by St.Jeb 4 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend who I am with for 2 years and he is really nice and all, we have arguments sometimes but nothing serious. We have a very good relationship, i can say. He loves me and i think i love him too...But there´s the other guy at school who makes my heart bump so loud everytime i see him, talk to him or anything. I thought he liked me or maybe even kind of loved me before, we had meetings (as friends) but sometimes we just got to touching each other or so...I felt really good with him.And i started to think whether i should be with him or with my boyfriend and it was a real dillema for me. And then, about 2 months ago, he started with that girl and now he seems to be totally in love with her and i am so jealous...I don´t know what to do. Who am i in love with? With him or with my boyfriend? I am so confused....

2007-02-05 03:29:15 · 3 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy i really like but i dont know if he likes me. i sent him a message on myspace asking him if he did and he never replyd but he read it. how do i know if he likes me?

2007-02-05 03:29:09 · 9 answers · asked by love100 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 03:28:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I find that everything happens in threes, I am going through something very similar... Dated a guy for one year, I broke up with him, for all the right reasons, he was heart broken. I realized that I wanted him back went over and we ended up sleeping together.... saying I love you...it was sweet. But then I find out that he has a new girlfriend that he was dating at the time. And he has a choice to make. I am in shock that there is a choice at all. It hurts SO bad. I mean when I heard that there was a chance that I was not going to be with him. . . My whole body started shaking, I think I had a panic attack. I still break down in tears for no reason. Because of the pain. My heart litterally hurts. He said that he chose her because she is a teacher. And even though he does not love her.... that he has more faith in them than in us. Which I cannot for the life of me understand?!? We went through alot together. Strains and stresses.... and we made it through it all. I broke up with him because he needed some time to get counseling. THEN on top of this... My car gets run into last night. AND.... I have been drinking away the pain for 3 days straight and am at work right now...... HUNG OVER with NO SLEEP.

I am so depressed... I feel like everything that could have gone wrong has....What do I do?

Should I win him back? If so ... How?

How do I make all of the stress go away so I can concentrate on work.... so I dont get fired?

2007-02-05 03:28:54 · 16 answers · asked by lauraepp80 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex & I want to be together, but he has some issues that he has not figured out yet. Do u think i need to give him space or should we continue dating, but not move in together. We where engaged and we are now trying to start fresh eventhough we have a history... We have been through so much, he has cheated on me .Do you think talking to a therapist we can work out our problems.

2007-02-05 03:28:48 · 14 answers · asked by Faith23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when me and my boyfriend first started dating we would go out and he would kiss me and all but now he acts all hard and doesnt do any of that. until we get to our house.
Is that something that guys just do?

2007-02-05 03:28:32 · 1 answers · asked by redhot_001 3 in Singles & Dating

OK, I like these two guys but i dont want to make a move because then if we break up i couldn't go out with the other one because he probobly wouldn't go out with his best freinds ex. What do I do?

2007-02-05 03:28:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 03:28:12 · 8 answers · asked by Adarsh S 1 in Weddings

We have been dating for three weeks. He was supposed to come over after the game and he never showed up. Did he break up with me?

2007-02-05 03:27:51 · 19 answers · asked by jennifer h 1 in Singles & Dating

We talk about being serious (like marriage) and sometimes I'm okay with it. But other times I just think "I don't want to get married" and feel kinda panicky (I'm not some young or stupid kid either). Am I just scared or could it be I am with the wrong guy?? When you're with the right person do you still get feel claustrophobic and scared of marriage??

2007-02-05 03:27:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It took some time but my husband has finally forgiven me for not trusting him. But I still feel bad about the whole situation. Is there something that I can do to ease my mind?

2007-02-05 03:26:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my friend have different styles of dating and they both don't seem to work for us:
My friend gives her guys space which she thinks they need. She doesn't play hard to get or ignore them, she just doesn't have to be in contact with them 24/7. If he doesn't contact her for a few days, she may send a text to find out if he's ok.
I on the other hand am a little different. I like to know where I stand with a guy. I'm not clingy but I like to be in touch with the guy. I don't like gettin confusin signals and if I don't hear from a guy for a few days I want to know if he's ok, what's wrong etc.

We just wanna know what guys like? My friend's take or mine? Or a little of both?
What's perfect for guys?

2007-02-05 03:26:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 03:26:18 · 6 answers · asked by Adarsh S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

your friends say you dont really love a guy cuz u wont have sex. i mean they said u have sex when you truely love some1. but i dont want to have sex so doesthat mean i dont love him? im 13 and dont tell me im not old enough to b in luv cuz i am. and its not just hormones either i really do luv this guy.

2007-02-05 03:25:49 · 12 answers · asked by summer :] 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I think he s married or something because he has a tattoo of a chic’s name on him but he doesn’t wear a wedding ring the other thing hes about 2? And im way younger OUCH what do I do

2007-02-05 03:25:45 · 3 answers · asked by Graveyard Queen™ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 03:23:54 · 4 answers · asked by snnopy 2 in Singles & Dating

okay i go out with somebody else right now but my ex keeps calling me and texting me as if i was still single i dont want to tell my boyfriend [well lets just say it wouldnt be pretty] how do i tell him to quit without being mean to him!

2007-02-05 03:23:50 · 11 answers · asked by chelsea d 2 in Singles & Dating

in response to my last question. I had a chance to make the most out of something, but i let my shyness around that person take a tole on my behavior. Now that the chemestry has been lost, and they dont see me in that type of way no more, and now we just friends, should i give up, should i try again, should i show them who i really am, if i ever get that chance again. Now im just a friend that they dont even call as much, should i even try and work it out, or rekindle the flame, its hurting me because this was the only person in my life who i felt insync with?

2007-02-05 03:23:19 · 4 answers · asked by lefteye w 2 in Singles & Dating

i say it was the Bud Light: Rock Paper Scissors one that had to be the best one all game...

2007-02-05 03:22:51 · 6 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Singles & Dating

I made some mistakes, but not to where it's too far gone to work out. She won't give me a last chance to show her that I love her and that I can make the ultimate change for our sons and her. I will do do anything for them to make them safe and be in a safe environment. I dont want to ovestep the line with her, because I respect her. She left me two weeks ago with my two sons. I am a broken man now without them - someone please help me-

2007-02-05 03:22:46 · 1 answers · asked by saelskies 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you define holiness? Are some religions conciders more holy then other?Can we really be holy,as Christ has asked for us to be?

2007-02-05 03:22:31 · 7 answers · asked by Lady Lott 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well I need advice. Does a guy like you if he hangs out with you and only talks to you about drugs and sex?

2007-02-05 03:22:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating